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Raiderfanjo

50 Sebastopol, CA Woman

Woman

I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 42–55
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My details

Last online
Today – 3:17pm
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
Hispanic / Latin
Height
5′ 2″ (1.57m)
Body type
Full figured
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Catholicism, but not too serious about it
Sign
Cancer, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Dropped out of university
Job
Technology
Income
$60,000–$70,000
Status
Single
Type
Mostly monogamous
Offspring
Has kids, but doesn’t want more
Pets
Has dogs and has cats
Speaks
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Moving forward - Time for me again!
Single working Mom that has been living her life for her children.
My kids are grown, highschool and older and it's now time for me again. I am ready again to meet someone to spend time with and have fun and more.
I have not dated or been in a relationship for a very long time. I've been focused on my career and family. I have spent my time either working or the sports fields with my kids. I am proud of my choices made and my success as well as my children. I've enjoyed the years dedicating my time to them and putting their needs first but now it's time for me again.
I want to find someone to spend time with. To get back in shape with. Someone that knows how to laugh and make me laugh. Someone that will understand how important family and friends are. Someone that will challenge me intelletually and physically.
Hopefully something that will grow into either a long term friendship or relationship!
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Working and raising two children, now searching for that special someone!
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Being a mom and my job and dancing!

In the past I would have also stated sports! I loved playing almost anything, I was fit and very active! I have over the last 20+ years been a sports mom. I have put on weight and have lost some of my spunk and ready to find again!
The first things people usually notice about me
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My smile, eyes and breast...
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
For music I love old Motown music, country and old rock. I love romanic comedies, old films or films about the past, favorites Gone with the Wind, Pride and Prejudice. I love to dine and try different cuisines.
I live to travel, go to new places, sporting events and theater or live shows. I love the ocean, blue water and warm weather!
I love to dance and listen to great music that i can dance or do something fun too, and be with someone that will make me laugh, laughing makes me feel young and full of life!
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. My children
2. Family (sisters, parents, etc.)
3. Purpose in life (loved ones, work)
4. laugher and fun
5. Sunshine and warm weather
6. Goals & Ambition
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
I spend a lot of time thinking about where I want to be in the future. I know I don't want to be alone. It's hard to put yourself back out there. Being single for so long was not always easy but its not easy dating as a single Mom. I did not want to expose my kids to different men I was dating or different short term relationships and having them bond with someone than lose them from a failed relationship. Now their older and moving on and I know I don't want to be alone and dating is possible again. Looking for someone to spend time and possible future.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
At a highschool football or basketball game or spending time with my family! Some Fridays - Girls night out!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I've always had an active sex drive but a bit self conscience now. Past relationships have been hard and I put on weight, maybe as a defense. Now I ready again for all kinds of fun and want to work off this weight and hope to find someone that can look past that.
You should message me if
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you are interested in getting to know me, would like to spend time together and think that we could possibly have a relationship or at least a good friendship