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RainyDaySunlite

21 / F / bisexual / Single

Glenside, Pennsylvania

The Skinny

Last Online
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Ethnicity
Black
Height
5' 6" (1.67m).
Body Type
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating, Short-term dating, Activity partners
Smokes
No
Drinks
Sometimes
Drugs
Never
Religion
Sign
Aquarius and it’s fun to think about
Education
Working on college/university
Job
Computer / Hardware / Software
Income
Rather not say
Kids
Likes children
Pets
Owns dogs and Likes cats
Languages
English (Fluently), French (Okay)

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I am wonky, geeky, and totally awesome.

My Self-Summary

Is this the part where I have an Oprah moment and reveal My soul to the cyber world? No soul baring today lovelies... I'm a super duper cool Chick... I'm longwinded, often verbose but I just love the English language so damn much!

Who am I?

Hell I might have been a stereotypical gay man in a past life since I'm so damn flamboyant and ridiculously obsessed with fashion and****.. fashion more so than****. well at least depending on the day of the week [I kid, I kid!]

Seriously though, I am:

* Polysexual and proud...Feel free to message me asking what polysexual means...we have more fun that bisexual girls.

* Complicated... In the sense that I'm caring yet Sadistic, spiritual but not overly religious, affectionate but not clingy, aggressive but not rude, PASSIONATE about humanitarian efforts, ****y but not prissy, emotional but not overly sensitive... I'm all over the damn place

* A native Philadelphian

*A long time vegetarian...majorly failed vegan...yummy dairy!

* A Lady who goes against the grain and before you inquire even though its already listed... Yes I am bi...technically poly [NOT one of those trendy get drunk and start hooking up with chicks and later regret it types, you know the kind you see in those Girls Gone Wild videos]... Because I am a Dominant Woman I often get asked do I hate men [common misconception] No I don't hate men... geez . I like men.. a lot.. in fact I'm looking for a relationship with a *gasp* MALE

* Straightforward and direct and I appreciate the same attributes in others

* I am a double major in computer engineering and criminal justice, with a minor in mathematics, currently in college. I am going to go to grad school for cyber forensics.

* Addicted to piercings and tattoos I have 14 piercings and 21 tattoos

* Not fat, I'm king-sized

* I've got that whole Femme Fatale vibe going on... you know that ultra intelligent, sexy, stealthy will kill you in your sleep if you **** Me over deal... I'm just kidding.. or am I? *raises brow*

* I'm insatiable and I tend to go through weirdo phases

What I’m doing with my life

I am currently a senior in college I am getting dual degrees in Computer Engineering and Criminal Justice. Later, I will get a Masters in Cyber Forensics.no Over the past couple years I have spent time helping to build houses in Tijuana, Mexico as well as helping with reconstruction after Hurricane Katrina. I love traveling the globe, shopping, going to the theater, going to concerts, and just hanging out in the city.

I am very open, when it comes to everything. I love music and art. I love having a good time. I have a lot of favorites. I like meeting new people. Sometimes I'm shy. I ALWAYS want to hang out! Every now and then I fall apart. I like making things. My weakness is that I care too much. I like to know what people really think about me. I'm independent and stubborn. I think deep thoughts but think they are silly to share. I'm a vegetarian. I love watching CSI or Law Order while building computers. I am a major geek, I am a technologist and proud of it. I also like sports. I come from a big basketball, football, soccer, and NASCAR family.

I am a very sincere person and I have a very caring heart and I enjoy meeting and learning about other cultures. You will never go hungry with me, I am a great cook and I love to bake. I am very adventurous and willing to try anything at least once. I want to be treated kindly and with respect. I would do the same for you. I'm just a simple girl who's easy going and looking forward to experiencing much joy and love.
Now in French
Je suis ainé dans l'université. Sur les ans passés de couple j'ai passé du temps aider à construire des maisons dans Tijuana, le Mexique de même qu'aidant avec la reconstruction après Katrina d'Ouragan. J'aime voyager le globe, les courses, allant au théâtre, allant aux concerts, et traînant juste dans la ville.

Je suis une personne très ouverte. J'aime la musique et l'art. Je vais à l'ecole pour Organiser. J'aime amuser bien. J'ai beaucoup de préférés. J'aime la réunion nouveaux gens. Quelquefois je suis timide. J'aime les choses faisant. Ma faiblesse est que je soigne trop. J'aime savoir quels gens pensent vraiment à moi. Je suis indépendant et têtu. Je pense que les pensées profondes mais pense qu'ils sont bêtes pour partager. Je suis végétarien. Je suis un majeur et technologue. J'aime aussi les sports.

Je suis une personne très sincère et j'ai un coeur très soignant. J'apprécie la réunion et l'érudition des autres cultures. Vous n'irez jamais affamé avec moi, je suis un grand cuisinier et j'aime cuire. Je suis très aventureux et faisant pour essayer n'importe quoi au moins une fois. Je veux être gentillement traité et avec le respect. Je ferais le même pour vous. Je suis juste une fille simple qui suis aller facile et attends avec impatience éprouver la beaucoup de joie et le beaucoup d'amour.

I’m really good at

Technology is my life. I am good at web design, programming and computer maintenance. I completely dismantle laptops and desktops to repair them and put them back together.

I am also good at various forms of art. I design tattoos and craft with metal.
Now in French
La technologie est ma vie. J'aime la conception de toile, l'ordinateur programmant et l'entretien informatique. Je démonte des portables et les bureaux pour les réparer et a mis les soutient ensemble.

Je suis aussi bon aux diverses formes d'art. Je conçois des tatouages et le métier avec le métal.

The first things people usually notice about me

My tattoos and piercings. My happy-giddiness!

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

My favorite movie is Repo: The Genetic Opera. I love any book by Francesca Lia Block...she is an amazing author. Music wise I am into anything...but mainly listen to various forms of rock. Love Gothic Rock! My favorite food is pasta and cheese. My favorite drink is milk.
Now in French
Mon film préféré est Repo : L'Opéra Génétique. J'aime n'importe quel livre par Francesca Lia Block... elle est stupéfiante. J'aime la plupart des types de musique... mais écoute principalement de diverses formes de rocher. Ma nourriture préférée est des pâtes et du fromage. Mes boissons préférées sont des laits, smoothies, et les tequilas.

The six things I could never do without

My computer, my iphone, the internet, fruit, milk, tequila
Now in French
Mon ordinateur, mon iphone, Internet, le fruit, le lait, la tequila

I spend a lot of time thinking about

I like to think about where I am going to be in the next couple years. I like to think about where I'm going in the next moment even more, I love pondering the spontaneity of life.
Now in French
J'aime penser à où je serai dans les prochains ans de couple. J'aime penser à où j'entre l'instant après même plus, j'aime méditant la spontanéité de vie.

On a typical Friday night I am

Hanging out in the city, trying to find something fun to do.
Now in French
Traîner dans la ville, essayant de trouver l'amusement de quelque chose pour faire.

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

I have a fear of driving...but I am pretty open. Ask me anything and I will answer.

You should message me if

Seriously... I'm just here to shoot the breeze and connect with LIKEMINDED and incredibly driven folks.. if you're cool people in the Philadelphia/South Jersey vicinity... bring it.. hell if you're cool people outside of the Philadelphia/South Jersey vicinity bring it.. never hurts to network.. I dig traveling and sightseeing so who knows.. one day our paths might collide... spontaneous combustion may be on the horizon.

Honestly, I'm some how reluctant to this system, but I'm trying to believe that i could find my kind of a person.

I don't want someone who will only think about me when we're both in the same room. I want someone that I can talk to and have every conversation be meaningful, no matter how stupid it is. I want someone that I can just hang out with and watch television or cook with or go to the diner in the middle of the night / early morning to get dessert and talk then go back to my apartment and spend the night together cuddling. Someone who will actually hangout with me and get to know me. Someone who will hold my hand as we walk through the city and kiss me without being embarrassed.
Now in French
Je ne veux pas quelqu'un qui pensera seulement à moi quand nous sommes les deux dans la même pièce. Je le veux que je parle à et a chaque conversation est significative, n'importe qu'il est stupide. Je le veux que je traîne juste avec et la télévision de montre ou le cuisinier avec ou va au dîneur au milieu de la nuit/tôt le matin pour obtenir du dessert et le discours retourne alors à mon appartement et passe la nuit ensemble câlinant. Quelqu'un qui fera en fait le coin préféré avec moi et obtient pour me savoir. Quelqu'un qui tiendra ma main comme nous traversons la ville et m'embrassons sans est gêné.