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32 M San Francisco, CA

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 12:56pm
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Catholicism, but not too serious about it
Pisces, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from masters program
Art / Music / Writing
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
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I'm a midwestern gentleman transplant. Confident, open-minded, and creative.

Not a fan of online platforms, but since moving to San Francisco, I have struggled to find a unicorn. Maybe she is amongst this forest of avatars?
What I’m doing with my life
What I get paid to do: UI/UX designer for a global service design consultancy.

What I don't get paid to do: Coach, teach, present, play, and volunteer on subjects in design, creativity, wellness, sports, and carbon neutral living.
I’m really good at
Let's just call this section a list of random insights...

Eating broccoli, while skydiving, with a party hat on. I enjoy life all the time no matter how ridiculous one might interpret my actions.

Eating cereal. You can usually find me in the cereal aisle.

Christmas present wrapping. I am a sucker for holidays, traditions, and themed parties for that matter. I like going all out, even making my own wrapping paper.

Conversations. I'm the guy talking to a stranger on the bus, rather than getting neck pain from tweeting on my phone. (Note: Not a fan of social media.)

Legos. Ok. I may no longer literally play with legos per say, but my imagination, joy of spontaneity, ability to problem solve, and confidence in anything I do is probably my greatest asset. Note: Go see the LEGO movie, you will not regret it!

Being blunt. I am not bashful with being direct, honest, and sharing what I think.

Competition. Sports, games, puzzles, etc. Even if I have never played before, I quickly pick it up and master it.

Being open-minded. I value this trait above all.

Being romantic. I will let you imagine the possibilities.
The first things people usually notice about me
I could cop out from answering this question, but that would be boring. Pick one: (a) Blue eyes (b) Smile (c) Midwestern accent and/or personality. (d) Fill-in your own here.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Music: The Beatles, Led Zeppelin, Black Sabbath, Pink Floyd, Simon and Garfunkel, Queen, Iron Maiden, Metallica, Pantera, Red Hot Chili Peppers, Blind Guardian, Nine Inch Nails, The Smashing Pumpkins, Dream Theater, Radiohead, Rage Against The Machine, White/Rob Zombie, The Offspring, Reel Big Fish, Nightwish, Turisas, Arcade Fire, Bruno Mars, Jess and The Ancient Ones, Django Django, etc.

TV Shows: Brooklyn Nine Nine, Game of Thrones, Breaking Bad, True Detective, Sherlock, Homeland, Modern Family, Parks & Recreation, Archer, Friends, Seinfeld, The Price Is Right with Bob Barker, etc.

Movies: Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind, Pulp Fiction, Fight Club, Wall-E, Aliens, The Matrix, Lord of the Rings, The Dark Night, Star Wars IV, Braveheart, Memento, The Hangover, The LEGO Movie, etc.

Books: A Song of Ice and Fire, The Goldfinch, The Fault in Our Stars, The Hunger Games, Harry Potter, The Girl with The Dragon Tattoo, Cloud Atlas, The Tipping Point, Into Thin Air, Fight Club, Dune, V For Vendetta, Watchmen, House of Leaves, Being There, Hemingway, etc.
The six things I could never do without
Shower (how I wake up)
Wikipedia (knowledge)
Mosh Pitt (metal music)
Putt Putt (sports/games/puzzles/challenges)
Empty Space (vaulted ceilings, nature, blank canvas, etc.)
Cereal (food).
I spend a lot of time thinking about
…why the brontosaurus is no longer considered a dinosaur? It was a sad day for me when I found out this outrageous news!
On a typical Friday night I am
Never the same. I might find myself: experiencing a new restaurant, playing a game/sport, at a concert, going for a hike, at an art/design gallery opening, listening to a presentation at an event, out at a bar for happy hour, at the movie theater watching the latest film, out shopping for new items, at the bookstore reading up on something entertaining, or now given I am on here, probably out on a date.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
My first concert was out in the woods with New Kids On The Block.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 23–32
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
You want to stop typing and grab a drink with me?

Who you are

Sexy, openminded, and balanced.

Who I find sexy

Feminine, romantic, and honest. Who wants to turn me on every waking moment, both mentally & physically.

I tend to be physically attracted to girls with... Ok. Truth be told, you will know if i'm attracted to you or not. I will say that you should have long hair (past shoulder length) and I have struggled with the fashion in the Bay Area. I prefer you dress like you are from NYC (business casual, clubbing/cocktail dresses, sexy lingerie) and from Austin, Texas. (jeans/t-shirt, shorts/tank tops, sports wear) On our first date, it would be a nice gesture if you put effort and dress to impress me.

Who I find openminded

You are down-to-earth. Genuine. Positive. Understanding. Passionate about everything and an expert in nothing. Eat anything/everything. Embrace awkwardness. Enjoy the little things in life. Easy to talk to about anything. Honest. Creative. Not easily irritated/mad/frustrated, or if you do, you are able to control it with ease.

Who I find balanced

You are happy. Smile often. Enjoy variety. Curious in life. Inspire to learn new things. Do not work, perform yoga, or use social media too much. Competitive, even if you are not athletic, you will still compete and have fun. Think us staying home, cooking a meal together, and cuddling to a movie sounds just as amazing as us going to a four-star restaurant and dancing the night away, or flying to New Zealand and spending a month in the forest.