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Raisins4Peace

25 / F / gay / Single

Smyrna, Tennessee

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Ethnicity
White
Height
5' 8" (1.72m).
Body Type
Curvy
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating, Short-term dating, Activity partners, Long-distance penpals, Casual sex
Smokes
No
Drinks
Sometimes
Drugs
Religion
Christianity and laughing about it
Sign
Leo and it’s fun to think about
Education
Working on college/university
Job
Student
Income
Kids
Doesn’t want children
Pets
Owns cats
Languages
English (Fluently), French (Okay), Latin (Poorly), Italian (Poorly), Japanese (Poorly)

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I am intellectual, sarcastic, and complicated.

My Self-Summary

I'm a great deal more than I can fit in this little box. I don't ever really fit into boxes.

I want to meet interesting people. I love to hear what others have to say.

I want to find someone to love.

I like things that are odd or different. I prefer weird people to normal ones and unusual beauty to cookie cutter prettiness.

I love to read fantasy and science fiction. I grew up on Isaac Asimov and Anne McCaffery.

I'm writing a novel about a vampire, but my vampires don't bloody sparkle, dammit.

I am straightforward and don't play games.

I am very loyal and caring. I love attention and affection, cuddling and holding hands.

I love intelligence of all kinds. I find all women beautiful. I am most attracted to the mind. Women who are interesting and good at talking and also at listening are the most attractive to me. Self-confidence and being comfortable with who you are is paramount.

That being said I am a bit Dominant and someone who is more submissive would be appreciated.

I love animals, and I am especially fond of cats. I have Mama Cass, she is a tiny 5lb black cat who adores me more than anyone on the planet. She's reserved and a bit skittish at first, but once she gets used to someone she is very loving and affectionate, kinda like I am, lol.

What I’m doing with my life

I graduate in December with my BA in English Literature with a minor in Women's Studies. I don't really know what comes after that, but ultimately, I want to be a writer.

I’m really good at

nouns and verbs, not so much with the adverbial part-gerund past participle, lol.

The first things people usually notice about me

I have been told my eyes are rather stunning.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

(a)A Clockwork Orange, A Streetcar Named Desire, anything by Douglas Adams, J.D. Salinger, John Irving, Ray Bradbury, or Kurt Vonnegut, Mrs. Dalloway by Virginia Woolf, The Scarlet Pimpernel, Candide, Frankenstein, Me Talk Pretty One Day, and so on ... I love to read and I wish I had more time for it. I also love poetry. I love Elizabeth Barrett Browning and Marianne Moore and Spenser and Shakespeare and Keats and T.S. Elliot and I love sonnet sequences and iambic pentameter and all that lovely poetic stuff.

(b)Kevin Smith's movies, Taratino's movies, Amelie, Casablanca, Singin' In the Rain, The Princess Bride, Sliding Doors, The Hours, Napoleon Dynamite, Goddard, John Waters and Wes Anderson. I love all kinds of movies, and I have a special fondness for zombie flicks

(c)CAKE]] is my favorite band, any more and we'd be here all night ... otherwise mostly [Indie music, 80s and 90s Alternative, some Old School Punk and Oldies.

(d)I like sushi and chinese food. I also love a good turkey sandwich.

The six things I could never do without

I spend a lot of time thinking about

everything, nothing, something in between, the average wind-speed velocity of an unladen swallow, you know, the usual.

On a typical Friday night I am

watching rented movies with a friend or sibling or curled up with a good book at home.

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

that I am reserved and an introvert so I tend to keep things that are most private to myself.

You should message me if

I'm an intellectual and a Leo in Tennessee, any scraps of attention from anyone with half a brain are most appreciated.

Also, if you're okay with big girls, I can't really change that (It's harder to do than you'd think), so I have to love myself the way I am.

Please let me know a little bit about yourself. If you want to know more about me, just ask.