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RajS
46 / M / straight / Single
Centereach, New York
The Skinny
- Last Online
- Join Date
- Ethnicity
- Asian, Pacific Islander
- Height
- 5' 6" (1.67m).
- Body Type
- A little extra
- Looking For
- New friends, Long-term dating, Short-term dating, Activity partners
- Smokes
- No
- Drinks
- Sometimes
- Drugs
- Never
- Religion
- Other and somewhat serious about it
- Sign
- Aries and it’s fun to think about
- Education
- Graduated from college/university
- Job
- Artistic / Musical / Writer
- Income
- Rather not say
- Kids
- Likes children
- Pets
- Likes dogs and Likes cats
- Languages
- English (Fluently), Indonesian (Poorly), Ilongo (Poorly), French (Okay)
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Your Notes
Edit your notesI am bawdy, orally-fixated, and a great listener.
My Self-Summary
I'm an international news editor by occupation, and a writer and
photographer by avocation.
I'm proud of my ethnic (Indonesian and Filipino) and regional (born and bred New Yorker) heritage and hope you are proud of yours.
A probable dealbreaker/maker -- I am polyamorous. To borrow a quote (and changing genders appropriately), "Those of you looking to cheat on your husband, partner, etc, polyamory is not synonymous with dishonesty. Don't bother."
I'm up for trying new things but sometimes it takes me a long time to get around to them. In 2004, I took a striptease class; in 2005, I took a workshop in Javanese dancing; in 2006, I finally got up the nerve to let a friend take nude photos of me.
I'm proud of my ethnic (Indonesian and Filipino) and regional (born and bred New Yorker) heritage and hope you are proud of yours.
A probable dealbreaker/maker -- I am polyamorous. To borrow a quote (and changing genders appropriately), "Those of you looking to cheat on your husband, partner, etc, polyamory is not synonymous with dishonesty. Don't bother."
I'm up for trying new things but sometimes it takes me a long time to get around to them. In 2004, I took a striptease class; in 2005, I took a workshop in Javanese dancing; in 2006, I finally got up the nerve to let a friend take nude photos of me.
What I’m doing with my life
I'm making a serious effort to combat a weight problem by going to
the gym on a regular basis. My goal is to lose 60 lbs. by June of
2008.
I'm also working on some personal and financial obstacles.
I'm also working on some personal and financial obstacles.
I’m really good at
The first things people usually notice about me
A very skeptical look, dark eyes, salt-and-pepper hair.
My favorite books, movies, music, and food
BOOKS: James Simon Kunen, The Strawberry Statement: Notes of a
College Revolutionary; Joe Haldeman, The Forever War; Li-Young Lee, The
City In Which I Love You; Pramoedya Ananta Toer, The
Buru Tetralogy; Jennifer Dunning, Alvin Ailey: A Life in Dance.
MOVIES: Casablanca, Dazed and Confused, Fahrenheit 9/11,
Metropolis, My Man Godfrey (1936 original), The Third Man, War
Photographer, The War Room, Leonard Cohen: I'm Your Man, Shortbus.
MUSIC: Classic rock (Eric Clapton, Bob Seger, Styx,
Journey); jazz and jazz-fusion (Art Tatum, George Benson, Stanley
Clarke); classical (Debussy, Villa-Lobos, Rodrigo, Chopin) FOODS:
Indonesian (rendang, ayam panggang, sate), Filipino (black rice
paella, lumpia), Thai (pad khing), American bistro (an
Elephantburger -- a medium rare hamburger with curried sour cream,
beefsteak tomato slice, scallions and cheddar -- from Elephant and
Castle), Irish (shepherd's pie, Guinness), New York regional (bialy
with Nova lox, cream cheese and a slice of Bermuda onion)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
What I need to work on to make my life better; dreams and what they
mean; how to maintain my integrity and survive; the ethics of my
choices; how to survive the future
On a typical Friday night I am
Heading home from an hour to an hour and a half at the gym; making
dinner for myself; reading mail; catching up on personal paperwork
(budget, journal, etc.)
You should message me if
a) You want an equal partner who will challenge and will want to be
challenged BY you; and b) you like having your g-spot worshipped.
I like smart, bawdy, voluptuous women. Sue me ;)
I like smart, bawdy, voluptuous women. Sue me ;)
