I'm proud of my ethnic (Indonesian and Filipino) and regional (born and bred New Yorker) heritage and hope you are proud of yours.
A probable dealbreaker/maker -- I am polyamorous. To borrow a quote (and changing genders appropriately), "Those of you looking to cheat on your husband, partner, etc, polyamory is not synonymous with dishonesty. Don't bother."
I'm up for trying new things but sometimes it takes me a long time to get around to them. In 2004, I took a striptease class; in 2005, I took a workshop in Javanese dancing; in 2006, I finally got up the nerve to let a friend take nude photos of me.
I am bawdy, orally-fixated, and a great listener