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RalDur

26 / M / Gay / Single

New York, New York

His Details

Last Online
Today – 9:54am
Ethnicity
White
Height
6′ 0″ (1.83m).
Body Type
Athletic
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Catholicism but not too serious about it
Sign
Cancer but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from med school
Job
Medicine / Health
Income
$50,000–$60,000
Offspring
Wants kids
Pets
Likes dogs and dislikes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay)

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My self-summary
I'm a genuine, nice guy. Born and raised in the South, and trying to have an adventure in the big city. I look for ambition, intelligence, and a caring attitude. A sports-lover doesn't hurt either. I'm just as happy going out on the town as I am cuddling up on the couch for a movie. Love to travel, read, cook, and meet new people.
What I’m doing with my life
Resident physician at NYU

Very rewarding, difficult at times, but I love it.
I like to be busy, but I make time for what's important.
I’m really good at
cooking. Always wanted to be a chef. Maybe I'll take it up as my second job, or just cook for my friends and loved ones.

But also, I tend to be good at starting a conversation. I'm the "social one" who always gets sent over to meet the new people.
The first things people usually notice about me
I get comments on my eyes a lot. They are this mix of green, light brown, and a bit of gold (so I'm told).

Also, I drink out of the side of my mouth.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I normally switch back and forth between fiction and non-fiction. The last few excellent books I have read include several by David McCullough and also And The Band Played On.
For movies, I enjoy classic cinema, but also love a good action film or crazy drama.
In the time I have for TV, I like medical dramas, Jeopardy, ESPN, and, of course, Glee.
Music-wise, I tend to stick to top-40. Boring, I know.
Cooking is one of my favorite activities, and given my heritage, I do have a love of Greek food.
The six things I could never do without
1) My family. I'm very close with my siblings and parents.
2) A news source. I'm a news junkie.
3) A good book (although lately I've switched to e-books).
4) My camera. I love to document the lives of my friends and family.
5) Friends.
6) Someone with whom to have an intelligent conversation.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Where I'm going to travel next. I'm lucky to have been given the opportunity to travel...but there are so many places I still want to see. Czech Republic, South Africa, Tanzania, New Zealand, Australia, Greece, San Francisco, Brazil...

Politics and Sports. My two big passions outside of medicine. Feel free to ask about those, although I can talk all night.

My teams are Duke University and the Carolina Panthers.

My politics lean left.
On a typical Friday night I am
Out to dinner with friends, then socializing at a bar.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Even with my love of sports, I also love Broadway musicals.
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like guys
  • Ages 22–35
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, activity partners, casual sex
You should message me if
you are ambitious, kind, outgoing, take care of yourself, and are looking for those similar qualities in someone.