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Ralphj4u Away

68 / M / Straight / Single

Oakland, California

His Details

Last Online
Online now!
Ethnicity
White
Height
6′ 0″ (1.83m).
Body Type
Fit
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Judaism and laughing about it
Sign
Cancer but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Education / Academia
Income
Rather not say
Offspring
Has kids
Pets
Has cats
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
What to say? This is a first for me. I've been separated for two years after a 13 year marriage. I like good conversation, touch and dancing for a start. I've got a 31 year old daughter, an 11 year old son, and a brand new grandchild. I haven't dated for a long, long time. Am I ready? I want to find out.
What I’m doing with my life
I work with high school kids, am semi retired allowing for rowing, riding, reading, and figuring out what the hell happens now.
I’m really good at
My work, touch, being with people and being alone.
The first things people usually notice about me
Even though I've been in Berkeley/Oakland for over 40 years I've got New York all over me.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Telegraph Avenue, The African Queen, I haven't been to a show in a long time, maybe Phantom of the Opera, playing old jazz standards on the piano and listening to rock and roll, and lastly food, all kinds.
The six things I could never do without
My kids, friends, humor, touch, music and my bicycle
I spend a lot of time thinking about
what's now and what's next
On a typical Friday night I am
At home with my son having dinner and watching a movie.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Ask me and I would probably tell you.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 50–70
  • Near me
  • For long-term dating, activity partners
You should message me if
You have progressive politics and like to dance