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Rambler1958

51 / M / straight / Single

West Columbia, South Carolina

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Height
5' 11" (1.80m).
Body Type
Fit
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating, Short-term dating
Smokes
No
Drinks
Sometimes
Drugs
Never
Religion
Agnosticism and somewhat serious about it
Sign
Taurus but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Entertainment / Media
Income
$50,000–$60,000
Kids
Doesn’t want children
Pets
Owns dogs and Owns cats
Languages
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly)

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I am funny, thoughtful, and hard-working..

My Self-Summary

I'm a modestly successful, modestly attractive but highly likeable and dependable guy. A hard worker. I've held the same job for 10 years. I'm in communications -- basically journalism but with a PR spin. I held my first job (with a daily newspaper) for almost 15 years. I'm a native South Carolinian, somewhat different than your standard "good old boy" in that I'm fairly progressive politically yet I consider myself "middle of the road," mainly because I'm also big on personal responsibility, like the conservatives preach. Not to scare anyone off with talk of politics: I follow the news of the day but politics is not what I'm about. My real interests are in music, movies, books, healthy outdoor activities -- hiking, camping, swimming, not so much hunting and fishing. "Not that there's anything wrong with that!" as they said on "Seinfeld."

What I’m doing with my life

Working, working, working. So I need some fun, fun, fun on the weekends!

I’m really good at

writing, editing, photography, swimming (just slowly!), and people watching. I'm pretty good at finding absurdity in everyday situations. That's always good for a laugh, especially when you feel like crying!

The first things people usually notice about me

Well, my lips probably -- they're a little full and good for kissing. Some of the ladies I've known have remarked on that. After that, my soulful and soul-searching eyes and generally open demeanor seem to make it easy for me to talk to people from all walks of life. I certainly get to meet them all in my line of work.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

Ethnic food (Indian, Mexican, Meditterranean, etc); music ranging from The Stones to Lady GaGa, disco, '80s and '70s hits, jazz, you name it and I've probably got it in my collection -- which includes CDs, cassettes and, yes, even LPs.

I've got lots of favorite movies and books. I'll have to complete that later but I will say I love bios of musicians, and "Louis Armstrong: An Extravagant Life" by Laurence Bergreen was one of the best I've read. Among movies, serious stuff like "You Can Count on Me" (starring Laura Linney) strikes a chord but I like good old Hollywood action and comedy too. "No Country For Old Men" and other Coen brothers' fare is great -- and I've read a lot of Cormac McCarthy, BTW.

The six things I could never do without

The love of my two sisters, my dog, Sid; and my cat, Ellie. Oh yeah; and "The Air That I Breathe," as The Hollies sang.

I spend a lot of time thinking about

Music -- how I can get what's in my head recorded!
I can play a little, but not well.
I wish I had more time to learn this Digidesign's ProTools program I have. Then I could fake it better.
Are there any ProTools-savvy ladies out there?
Let's jam!

On a typical Friday night I am

on a date, enjoying myself and hoping to connect with a nice lady.

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

I wish I hadn't wasted so much time in my life. I don't want to waste any more.

You should message me if

something I've said here strikes a chord in you.