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43 F Utica, MI

I’m looking for

  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 37–47
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 2:27am
5′ 7″ (1.70m)
Body Type
Mostly vegetarian
Leo, and it’s fun to think about
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Has kids, but doesn’t want more
Likes dogs and likes cats

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My self-summary
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I am a highly motivated, honest, caring person. I love the outdoors and have a passion for helping people. I love music, laughter, good food & drink. Respect, honesty, and trust are the foundation of all my friendships. I love to cook. I enjoy physical activity (I run on a pretty regular basis). I enjoy reading.

I also enjoy my work tremendously. I am hard working (to a fault). My work is my passion and I am dedicated to it. No worries I seem to be able to always find time to have fun with family and friends.

As simple as it may sounds I believe in being a good person. Wake up everyday and make the most of it. Kindness is important to me.

I've been on this site for a little over a year now. It occurred to me that maybe I'm coming across too serious. Truth is I am somewhat of a serious person-I know what I'm looking for in life, in relationships. I believe we all should work for what we want. That being said I should also point out I love to have fun and make people laugh. Have a few drinks, laughs, dance, play some pool those are all fun ways to spend some time in my book.

I like trying out new breweries, I'm into the small business independent kinda thing! Support local it really matters.

I am hoping to meet some nice men on here that are looking for a friendship that could lead to something better in time. I expect to be treated with respect and class. I'm worth it :)

I'm looking for a guy that compliments me. Someone that I look at as an equal partner. I don't need anyone to carry my weight. We do not have to like all the same things. I think it's very important that couples have things in common, but can still maintain separate interests.

I'm looking for that click, some serious romance. Someone I can't wait to say good morning and good night to. Someone I get excited about seeing. Someone special that we can do anything together and enjoy each others company-regardless if it's the day to day tasks or something special and exciting. Someone to have good conversation with or sit across in complete silence and have it not mean a thing.

The man I am looking for is honest, kind, passionate, utilitarian. I am looking for the kinda guy that would volunteer in a soup kitchen in the morning and go to a black tie event that same evening if needed. If you're active, enjoy conversation, respectful, intelligent, and fun we are going to get along :)

I am flattered by the messages from you younger men-your sweet, kind, and probably need to get your vision checked. Considering I have older children (started my family young) I do not feel it is appropriate to arrange to meet you. Please do not be offended if I do not reply.

I am confident, honest, trust worthy, filled with a passion for life. I am horribly optimistic. I'm hardly ever in a pissy mood. Life is what we make after all. If you asked my friends to describe me I'm the word positive would come up.
What I’m doing with my life
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I'm a farmer. I've been for a while now. I had my own farm for but that ended with the divorce. I'm using my skills and experience to still grow food and I assist on various projects in Detroit and other surrounding areas. My "hit the lottery dream" is to have a farm that grows for those in need and train a new generation of farmers.
I’m really good at
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Being happy & facilitating happiness. I am hopefully good at being an example and resource of kindness and compassion. I also hope I make people around me feel good, put a smile on their face. I just want to be a good person-a good mom, sister, daughter, friend and HOPEFULLY a good girlfriend when the time comes!!
The first things people usually notice about me
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my smile :)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Favorite book So Big. very diverse musical taste same with food. Local, fresh, organic are important. I can't run without music so I'm always looking for songs to add to the play list-music to dance too (drop it like it's hot!) and then there is the songs that get right into your head and heart City & Colour is good for that.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
smiles and hugs
love, companionship, romance
good food and good beer
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
what is our purpose and are we living up to our potential?
am I living up to the universe's expectations?
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
wrapping up a long week and for majority of the year going to bed at a reasonable hour as I have an early start to Saturdays.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I'm vulnerable. I'm often the girl that does for others (and that gives me a lot of satisfaction) but I would like to find a man that finds pleasure in making me happy.
You should message me if
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If I sound like the type of woman you want to get to know a little better.