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41 M Venice, CA

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Aug 30
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Just looking for someone cool, classy, intelligent cute, and open minded. Bonus if you're all these have an edgy style, left handed, and/or ink - but not a deal breaker by any stretch. However, I am partial to tank top an jeans girls that can still dress up for formal occasions or a night on the town. I've dated women of all races so, that stuff doesn't matter to me.

Why am I here? Well, I guess we're all looking for the right-kind-of-crazy that fits each one of us like a glove, someone that excites us, that we find unique that also compliments us. That's why I'm here. I'm a pretty calm guy and I like women that have a lot to say, not necessarily loud, but who are opinionated who are humble and sociable, strong yet feminine, can make friends with anyone, knows how to have fun and loves to laugh(very important) but is still mature, a kid at heart with a sexy woman's soul.

Oh yeah, me. I'm a chubster. I love metal, I love to play music (bass, guitar, sing a bit), discovered that acting is also a passion for me, have an interest all things esoteric/unusual/spiritual, I believe in god but not into organized religion - more Buddhist, try not to be judgmental, have a huge heart for helping others, love to play and flirt, can't stand people that use sarcasm with every other word that flies out of their mouth - its so played out, love a good strong conversation about life over drinks, and think kids are awesome. So, I'm a beer drinking, romantic and flirty, heavy metal guitar playing Buddhist that believes in Bigfoot and helps little old ladies across the street while he's going to an audition....yep, that's me.
What I’m doing with my life
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I work at a major hospital helping people fight cancer.

Outside of work my interests include acting, music, going to concerts, traveling, working out, helping others, holding dinner parties, exploring spirituality.
I’m really good at
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Listening, being patient, calling people on their bullshit, being loving.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I have no idea. I don't usually ask.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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All of these are in random order...

TV: SOA, The Mindy project, New Girl, The Big Bang Theory, Copper, House of cards, Hemlock Grove, Wallander(Norway), Beck(Norway), East West 101(Aussie) Sherlock (England), BSG, Person of Interest.

Movies: Ironman, Avengers, The Exorcist, The Cabin in the woods, 28 days of night, Doomsday Book (Korea),This is the end, so many movies so I'll just stop there.

Music: Black Label Society is my favorite band, but im into pretty much any and all heavy metal and hard rock new and old - its in my blood; Erykah Badu, John Coltrane(my most favorite jazz saxophonist!),Jimi Hendrix, Reignwolf, SRV, Dave Brubeck, Doyle Bramhall and Smokestack, Gary Clarke Jr, Daft Punk, Sam Sparro, Delta Rae, Lana Del Rey, Dwele, Blackstarr, Mos Def, Common, Talib Kweli, Cee Lo Green, Goodie Mob, Alchemist, Justin Tumberlake, Robin Thicke, Jay Z, Beyonce, Blake Shelton, Brad Paisley, Keith Urban, anything that gets me off my feet and makes me want to move. The list goes on and on....

Books: Anything by Umberto Eco, Arthur C. Clarke. Shakespeare, Carlos Castaneda, Robert Greene, or H.P. Lovecraft, The Way of The Superior Man, The Social Contract, Iron John, Prescription for Excellence, The Red Queen by Matt Ridley, The Ten Commandments of Pleasure, The Hidden Power(Thomas Troward), The 50th Law of Power, Silent Power.

Food: I love all food that has much flava! But my favorite is Seafood.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My friends, music (Listening and performing)
amazing food, learning or trying something new, movies, the ocean.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
...just now, thinking why women lie about their age, especially when they say they are "strong" women. Lying is weak. If you're 40 and sexy then you 40 and sexy. All you have to do is specify the age range you're looking for in a younger/older man. And actually, sexy has no age. So be proud of it.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Living it up on the beach, exploring all LA has to offer, at a dinner party or at home with dinner and netflix after the gym.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 30–45
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating
You should message me if
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You're sensitive, affectionate, can handle a good man who is bad when he needs to be.