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40 M Venice, CA

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Hispanic / Latin
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
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Doesn’t have kids
English (Fluently), Spanish (Fluently)

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My self-summary

I'm a listener to most people. I have my own voice but only use it when it's needed.

I'm very compassionate to those in need but egotistical to rude people.

I drink beer and drag my knuckles on the ground sometimes but I love authors like Umberto Eco and poets like Pablo Neruda because they actvate my mind and make me wonder.

I love watching a good fight or will fight if I need to but I also see the beauty of modern dance and ballet.

I hate cruelty and malice so I stand up to it.

I prefer science and spirituality rather than religion and politics.

I can listen to Mastadon and Gojira or Ravi Shenkar and Yo Yo Ma , and everything in between. Yes, even country. I love music, but I love heavy metal the most.

I love my jeans and boots but I can clean up very nicely.

I can chop it up with the homies in the hood but can also present myself well in any professional setting or family gathering.

I was born and raised in a small town with small town values but have also become a street smart Angeleno.

Small talk bores me, and I would rather deep conversations about politics(sometimes), philosophy, religion/faith or movies/films, art, the human condition. Really, I just want to fill my life with adventure, laughter, and culture.

I am of the beach variety human. Meaning, I live at the beach and play at the beach. On the weekends I'm usually with friends having a drink and cooking dinner, or taking small trips somewhere, and somehow there's always dancing and music involved. I'm looking for someone who wants to join in on our fun, someone who wants to hang out with me in and out of our little tribe - I do love my alone time away from my friends and I'd like a great woman to join me.

Personal growth and experiencing new things in life are important to me. Acting has always been a passion for me and I'm pursuing it on a small scale. Right now just studying the craft. I play a bit of guitar and was in a few bands in L.A. so I love live music and concerts of any genre. I like taking mini vacations from work as often as I can. A weekend here a weekend there. I have a 9-5 career at a local university hospital so my weekends are sacred. I train at my local gym 3-5 days a week.
What I’m doing with my life
Helping change lives. Being of service to others. Climbing ladders. Feeding the bears. Swimming with sharks.
I’m really good at
Playing the blues on my six string, traversing LA traffic with ease, making my friends laugh their butts off, listening and not just hearing, making people feel relaxed, empowering those that need it, having perspective. Being open to different shades, cultural backgrounds of people.
The first things people usually notice about me
My eyes or the cadence in my voice or that I'm unconventionally handsome.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
All of these are in random order...

TV: SOA, The Mindy project, New Girl, The Big Bang Theory, Copper, House of cards, Hemlock Grove, Wallander(Norway), Beck(Norway), East West 101(Aussie) Sherlock (England), BSG, Person of Interest.

Movies: Ironman, Avengers, The Exorcist, The Cabin in the woods, 28 days of night, Doomsday Book (Korea),This is the end, so many movies so I'll just stop there.

Music: Black Label Society, pretty much any and all heavy metal and hard rock new and old - its in my blood; Erykah Badu, John Coltrane(my most favorite jazz saxophonist!),Jimi Hendrix, SRV, Dave Brubeck, Doyle Bramhall and Smokestack, Gary Clarke Jr, Daft Punk, Sam Sparro, Delta Rae, Lana Del Rey, Dwele, Blackstarr, Mos Def, Common, Talib Kweli, Cee Lo Green, Goodie Mob, Alchemist, Justin Tumberlake, Robin Thicke, Jay Z, Beyonce, Blake Shelton, Brad Paiskey, Keith Urban, anything that gets me off my feet and makes me want to move. The list goes on and on....

Books: Anything by Umberto Eco, Arthur C. Clarke. Shakespeare, Carlos Castaneda, Robert Greene, or H.P. Lovecraft, The Way of The Superior Man, The Social Contract, Iron John, Prescription for Excellence, The Red Queen by Matt Ridley, The Ten Commandments of Pleasure, The Hidden Power(Thomas Troward), The 50th Law of Power, Silent Power.

Food: I love all food that has much flava! But my favorite is Seafood.
The six things I could never do without
My friends
Music (Listening and performing)
Amazing food
Learning or trying something new
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Making sure my future goals are met. How to be the best man I can be. Whats new and bitchin. How to make a positive difference in people's lives. How to make people laugh. Finding a concert or event to attend, or something cool to do. Weekends.
On a typical Friday night I am
Doing the robot, watching movies and having some din din, chilling with the crew, making history, making heads turn.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 30–45
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, casual sex
You should message me if
You want to have fun and take time to get to know one another.