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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 26–34
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 8:07pm
Relationship Type
Mostly monogamous
5' 10" (1.78m)
Body Type
Other and it’s important
Might want kids
English (Fluently)
My self-summary
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I'm a semi-introverted nerd, who's in a period of trying to determine who I am and what I want out of life. I'm currently, and for the foreseeable future, living on Capitol Hill.

I'm not exactly sure what I'm looking for right now. The simplest answer is probably that I'm looking to date, for companionship, new experiences, to love, and to be loved (And yes, I know how cliched that sounds, but I'm going with it anyways).
What I’m doing with my life
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Work: I'm a programmer for a small company you've never heard of. It's a bit of a mixed bag right now, the only really good plus is that it's walking distance from home.

Hobbies: Your typical nerd hobbies. Board games, paper and pencil puzzles, anime/manga video games. I also have a perhaps unhealthy tendency to pay way too much attention to current events. I started jogging a couple years ago, and I've been slowly pushing at the boundaries of my endurance, but it's an admittedly slow process.

Personal: ISTJ, on the cusp of INTJ. I'm generally pretty introverted, and, and I've been spending the last year or so trying to work on some of my more negative habits, which generally means trying to be more social, trying new things, and trying to a bit more active in dating.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Staying calm and generally level headed, planning for contingencies, folding paper, finding unique solutions to logistical problems.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My hair. It's curly, and unless it's been recently cut, it gets pretty puffy. At some point I just kind of gave up on trying to tame it, and so now I tend to let it do it's own thing.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: I was heavy into sci-fi when I was younger, and I've since transitioned to, for better or worse, comics and manga, with a preference for horror, romantic comedies, and psychological drama. Right now I'm quite in to Junji Ito.

TV: In no particular order, The Genius, Survivor, The Daily Show, The Walking Dead, Rick and Morty.

Music: My music tastes are like a metronome that swings between being very insular and only listening to things that I really like (Blue Scholars, Modest Mouse, Polaris, Yoko Kanno), and listening to everything and seeing what clicks with me.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My Phone: Not for the calls, but I also a crap-ton of games on there that I've been meaning to go through for a very long time. If I have down-time, and there's nothing else to do, I'm on my phone.

Home: I'm a homebody. It's about privacy, a place to be myself, without the need to keep up pretenses.

My Notepad: I'm a copious note taker.

Paper to fold: As stated above, I'm really good at folding paper. Certain textures, paper weights, etc, lend themselves to to really satisfying folding.

My Totoro Bag: Another thing that goes with me pretty much wherever I go, and has for the last 6 or so years. It looks like crap, parts of it have been broken and re-sewn, but it's worked for me for this long. Nowadays, I'm trying to find a decent replacement, but I'm very particular (Something that can perfectly hold my favorite clipboard), so I haven't really had a lot of luck with this.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I'm in a board game group that meets every other Friday, so that... And I try to go out to bars at least once a week, if for nothing else than to get me out of the house. Otherwise, I'm probably at home putzing around on the computer.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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* I don't have a car (anymore). After about a week in Seattle, I realized that a car was going to be more trouble then it's worth down here, so I brought it back up to Bellingham, where it's has since been gotten rid of. Being carless has worked for me so far, although I'm weighing the cost/benefit of getting a car again, now that I have the option of a cheap parking spot.

* I'm far too introspective and self-analyzing. I over-think things too much too often. I'm working on fixing this, but it's very much an uphill climb.

* I could not care less about football, no matter how well the Seahawks do. During the last Superbowl, I took the opportunity to take a trip up to Bellingham to get stuff out of storage, because I was guaranteed to not have to deal with traffic on the freeway. It was wonderful.
You should message me if
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I'm looking for a woman who...
* Is smart.
* Knows who they are.
* Shares some of the same hobbies as myself, or is willing to give some of my hobbies a shot.
* I'm a liberal, I'd probably be likely to get along better with someone with the same political leanings.

In truth, I'm of the opinion that dating, and I'm compatible with is complex enough that it probably can't be something that's easily determined by a profile, or even messaging someone, so in a sense, I know who I'm looking for, but not really.

So if that doesn't scare you off, feel free to message me.