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30 M Santa Clara, CA

My Details

Last Online
Apr 14
5′ 7″ (1.70m)
Body Type
Mostly vegetarian
Not at all
Taurus, but it doesn’t matter
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Dislikes dogs and dislikes cats
English (Fluently), Hebrew (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Random facts about me:

[ 01 ] I'm asexual ( It's a sexual-orientation in case you didn't know ), but I love intimacy !
My asexuality doesn't conflict with me being a very sexual person.
Confused ? Not sure what it means ? Ask me ! :-) ( or read about "my (a)sexual orientation" further down )

[ 02 ] I've always been into BDSM, but never felt 100% compatible with any play-partner I've ever had ( I guess I'm picky ^_^ )
[ 03 ] Cuddling is awesome :)
[ 03 ] I lived a crazy life... I've probably been through more than most people ever go through in their lifetime.
[ 04 ] I have an international circle of friends from various parts of the world.
[ 05 ] I'm into Breakcore / extreme music and sci-fi / horror movies.
[ 06 ] I don't smoke, drink or do drugs
[ 07 ] I try to avoid the sun... it's evil. I also always wear sun-glasses... even indoors and even when it's dark.
[ 08 ] I'm from the future :P
[ 09 ] I served in the military for 3 years ( not by choice )
[ 10 ] At age 26, I left my entire life behind and moved to the USA.

If you've read this far, then there is some interest.
Please send me a message, don't window-shop. I don't bite... unless you want me to ;)


I guess the best definition for my sexual-orientation is:

I assume most of you have no idea what it means, so I'll try to explain:

Most of the relationships I've had ended pretty quickly when I was naked in bed with a girl and she said: "Fuck me", and I said: "No".

Don't get me wrong - I totally love and need physical contact and affection !
I enjoy cuddling with a woman.
But there's just one part of a woman's body that I prefer to avoid... And touching that part is... Well, I had a somewhat amusing analogy to describe it, but a friend suggested that I remove it because some may find it offensive :-)

I am definitely straight because I am definitely attracted to women. I just hate the "penetration" part. ( And I did try it... )

Unfortunately for me - when women find out about this, they usually lose interest and don't want to stay in contact anymore... :-(

For a long time I thought I have some kind of problem until I started doing some online research and found out that about 1% of the world population are asexual, and that there are many different kinds of asexual people.

There is what I call "the good kind" which is people who have no sexual attraction/desire at all ( This is good because it saves them considerable amounts of time and energy and they can focus on other aspects of life ),
Unfortunately for me, I am not that kind...
I do have sexual attraction/desires that I can't ignore.

Most people tend to think that there are only 3 types of sexual-orientations: straight, gay/lesbian and bi-sexual.
But the truth is that there are many different types of sexual-orientations ( perhaps an infinite number ) and the ones I mentioned above are just the most common amongst them.

Hopefully, what I wrote here will save me HOURS of trying to explain myself every time someone brings this up :)

----- MY IDEA OF A GOOD DATE -----

Driving a stolen vehicle on a dark dark road in the middle of the night towards an unknown destination while exceeding the speed limit and evading police cars (and a helicopter) that are in pursuit...
At some point, we manage to lose the cops, and we enter an abandoned weapons-factory, and there we spend the night on a mattress that we happened to find in the stolen vehicle's trunk.
On the next day, we find that there is an underground bunker beneath the factory...
I'll continue writing this when I feel like it... :-)
What I’m doing with my life
I would say: "trying to take over the world", but people wouldn't believe me.
I am a fearless entrepreneur with limitless ambition and determination.
I will settle for nothing short of greatness, or I will die trying.
You better believe it !
I’m really good at
Computer-programming, beatboxing, driving-fast and being a good friend / getting people out of trouble... or in trouble... lol :P
The first things people usually notice about me
Probably either my bald-head, my chest-muscles or my accent, depending on where I am in the world...
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
----- FAVORITE MUSIC -----

I like many different genres of music, all of them I can define as hard, dark and psychedelic...

Just to list a few:
Breakcore, Death Metal, Dark Psychedelic Trance (A.K.A "Dark PsyTrance"), Grindcore, Glitchcore, Drum'n'Bass, Industrial, Techno, Hardcore Techno, Acid Techno and some DubStep and EBM.

Some of my favorite bands / musicians ( sorted by genre ):

Venetian Snares, Cake Builder, Dev/Null, Xanopticon, Rotator, Bong-Ra, Droon, Drumcorps, Aphex Twin

Cosmosis, Kindzadza, Terminator, Dark Nebula, Droidsect, Penta, Parasense, Hux-Flux, Human Rage, Agressive Mood, Alien Project, Astral Projection

Micropoint, Radium, Amboss

Cyborg Attack, TamTrum, Feindflug, Unter Null, Dawn of Ashes, Xotox, Waldgeist, Hocico

*** DRUM'n'BASS ***
Counter-Strike, Limewax, Pendulum

*** BIG BEAT ***

Pantera, Machine Head, Whitechapel, Dark Funeral, Metallica, Opeth, Old Man's Child

Deftones, Disturbed, Nirvana, Alice in Chains, Rammstein, Marilyn Manson, Soundgarden

There are so many more, most of which I can't remember right now, so I'll just stop here...


The Terminator franchise ( if you ignore T3 ), Event Horizon, Sphere, The Matrix, American History X, Cube, Saw, Darkness, Alien (all of 'em, especially the 4th), Starship Troopers, Sunshine, The Descent, Brainscan, Fight Club, The Forgotten, The 9th Gate, Dreamcatcher, Resident Evil, Dawn of the Dead, Underworld, X-Men: First Class

I'll add more when I'll think of 'em...


Babylon 5, Star Trek (TNG, DS9, Voyager), Stargate ( SG-1, Atlantis and Stargate Universe which I think is the best TV show I've ever seen !!! ), Terminator: The Sarah Connor Chronicles, Battlestar Galactica, FlashForward, X-Files, The Outer Limits, 24, Lost, Prison Break
The six things I could never do without
Generally, there is only one thing - my freedom.

If you're looking for a more specific definition, then I guess it's gotta be things like: car, computer/internet, money, etc'. (things that extend my freedom)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Asexuality, my next big web-project, psychology of men / women when it comes to sexual-attraction, achieving my goals in life, the upcoming economic collapse and how I can take advantage of it.
On a typical Friday night I am
One of the following:
( or occasionally - some of the following... Sometimes all of them in one Friday night )

1 - Pounding to the sounds of hard music at a rave in an abandoned train-station/factory/building
2 - Watching a good sci-fi/horror movie
3 - Sitting in front of my computer and writing code / trying to take over the world
4 - Playing EVE Online or MechWarrior Online
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 18–30
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
1 - You're not a typical California woman or a "gold digger"
2 - If you actually have personality and actually care about mine and not just about how much money I make or the car I drive
3 - You're a very thin goth girl with pale skin... ^_^
4 - You're looking for a partner in crime
5 - If you prefer to talk rather than text
6 - If you just feel like it... I don't bite :-)
7 - If you have a death-metal band and you're looking for a vocalist \,,/ <--> \,,/

Don't be shy ! Shoot me a message...
Let's meet and I'll show you the sounds and sights of nightlife.
I'm looking forward to meeting you :)