[ 01 ] I'm asexual ( It's a sexual-orientation in case you didn't know ), but I love intimacy !
My asexuality doesn't conflict with me being a very sexual person.
Confused ? Not sure what it means ? Ask me ! :-) ( or read about "my (a)sexual orientation" further down )
[ 02 ] I've always been into BDSM, but never felt 100% compatible with any play-partner I've ever had ( I guess I'm picky ^_^ )
[ 03 ] Cuddling is awesome :)
[ 03 ] I lived a crazy life... I've probably been through more than most people ever go through in their lifetime.
[ 04 ] I have an international circle of friends from various parts of the world.
[ 05 ] I'm into Breakcore / extreme music and sci-fi / horror movies.
[ 06 ] I don't smoke, drink or do drugs
[ 07 ] I try to avoid the sun... it's evil. I also always wear sun-glasses... even indoors and even when it's dark.
[ 08 ] I'm from the future :P
[ 09 ] I served in the military for 3 years ( not by choice )
[ 10 ] At age 26, I left my entire life behind and moved to the USA.
If you've read this far, then there is some interest.
Please send me a message, don't window-shop. I don't bite... unless you want me to ;)
----- MY (A)SEXUAL-ORIENTATION -----
I guess the best definition for my sexual-orientation is:
I assume most of you have no idea what it means, so I'll try to explain:
Most of the relationships I've had ended pretty quickly when I was naked in bed with a girl and she said: "Fuck me", and I said: "No".
Don't get me wrong - I totally love and need physical contact and affection !
I enjoy cuddling with a woman.
But there's just one part of a woman's body that I prefer to avoid... And touching that part is... Well, I had a somewhat amusing analogy to describe it, but a friend suggested that I remove it because some may find it offensive :-)
I am definitely straight because I am definitely attracted to women. I just hate the "penetration" part. ( And I did try it... )
Unfortunately for me - when women find out about this, they usually lose interest and don't want to stay in contact anymore... :-(
For a long time I thought I have some kind of problem until I started doing some online research and found out that about 1% of the world population are asexual, and that there are many different kinds of asexual people.
There is what I call "the good kind" which is people who have no sexual attraction/desire at all ( This is good because it saves them considerable amounts of time and energy and they can focus on other aspects of life ),
Unfortunately for me, I am not that kind...
I do have sexual attraction/desires that I can't ignore.
Most people tend to think that there are only 3 types of sexual-orientations: straight, gay/lesbian and bi-sexual.
But the truth is that there are many different types of sexual-orientations ( perhaps an infinite number ) and the ones I mentioned above are just the most common amongst them.
Hopefully, what I wrote here will save me HOURS of trying to explain myself every time someone brings this up :)
----- MY IDEA OF A GOOD DATE -----
Driving a stolen vehicle on a dark dark road in the middle of the night towards an unknown destination while exceeding the speed limit and evading police cars (and a helicopter) that are in pursuit...
At some point, we manage to lose the cops, and we enter an abandoned weapons-factory, and there we spend the night on a mattress that we happened to find in the stolen vehicle's trunk.
On the next day, we find that there is an underground bunker beneath the factory...
I'll continue writing this when I feel like it... :-)