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36 • Oakland, CA • Man
I’m looking for
- Ages 24–50
- Near me
- Who are single
- For new friends
- Last online
- Apr 23
- White, Other
- 5′ 4″ (1.63m)
- Body type
- A little extra
- Strictly anything
- Other, and laughing about it
- Cancer, and it’s fun to think about
- Graduated from university
- Rather not say
- Seeing Someone
- Doesn’t want kids
- Likes dogs and has cats
- English (Fluently), French (Poorly)
Another one of those bi-poly-switches...really more of a service top though. And more pansexual than bi ;) Big bonus if you get what those phrases mean. Much more like attracted to trans guys than cis guys but it happens. And I have learned over the years that I definitely don't have a type when it comes to women.
All of that being said I am currently in a monogamous relationship. It's something I've done before and is working out great. So not looking for anyone new to play with or date for now.
I am chill, understanding, and fuzzy
I spend a decent amount of time going out too. I'm pretty much guaranteed to be out every Tuesday, Wednesday, Thursday, Saturday and Sunday nights. Sometimes it is working in one way or another and sometimes it is just having fun. Always it is Butter, DNA, Cat Club and Wicked Grounds.
I also used to be involved with the medical marijuana movement. I am not a stoner but, well, yeah. If you think that drugs are bad stop reading and move on. Unless you mind immediately goes to mmmmkay automatically after hearing that phrase. And if you get that joke you should likely email me.
Wondering what is next for me in life. Cha cha changes...
I have gotten pretty good at swing dancing too so if you know a night or just want to be silly on the dance floor swinging to ANY kind of music lemme know.
I'm also really good with dragon tails. Though some might fault me with same damn spot syndrome. As I say on a profile on another site I'm a bad bad man who does bad bad things and makes bad bad toys.
b)Damn...this is a bold question. Everything from bad early 90's action movies to early 70's documentaries on Indonesia. In general I like pretty movies, be that from intense visual/special effects or really good sets/scenery. Much more into the action/comedy side then the drama/romance but like mixtures of the two.
c) Yeah...I need music to get by. Most kinds that make the body want to do something, be it dance or think are the best. Definitely have a soft spot for early 90's hip hop like Tribe and Pharcyde and like Paul Simon a lot too. Ani Difranco will always move me. I like to listen to music and rarely know who or what the song is. Except when I do. Then I smile.
d) Food is good...I like it. I'll stick with it. Dating a chef for seven years has opened my eyes to a lot of new food. Always interested to try new things. Sushi will always put a smile on my face though. And pizza, rarely a time I won't eat sushi or pizza.
Been thinking about polyamory/polysexuality a lot these days. It's odd to care deeply about someone yet have no problem kissing someone else or more. It's really just nice to have someone you know cares I guess.
I've also learned that the quality I think I appreciate most in someone is honesty. If you are the kind of person who likes living lies and hiding things from people I doubt we would be a good match.
And for the love of all of the known gods actually say something. Unless I already know you more than a sentence would be really nice. If all you have to say is some variation on "Hi there" I will likely mock you. Possibly to my friends. So don't do it. The chances of me replying are minimal at best. And if you do I will wonder how much else of my profile you didn't pay attention to...
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