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60 • Alexandria, VA • Man
I’m looking for
- Ages 37–54
- Near me
- Who are single
- For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex
- Last online
- Online now!
- 5′ 8″ (1.73m)
- Body type
- Mostly vegetarian
- Atheism, and laughing about it
- Sagittarius, and it’s fun to think about
- Graduated from university
- Entertainment / Media
- Has cats
I am a cheerful, playful, kind-hearted man who likes walks on the beach, hikes in the mountains, hummingbirds, unicorns-- no wait, yes, I am all of those things but everyone says that...
You should probably turn around right now and merge onto the exit ramp because I am probably not a good match for you, and here's why:
I am older than you and I don't have enough hair on top, but some on my face. You might be taller than me, making me seem shorter. My politics are too radical, and I am not into organized religion so we can't really discuss Right Wing Crap, Creationism, heaven, and why extremist Republicans are Just Plain Mean. Do NOT get me started.
I don't consume enough red meat, sugar, fat and additives... and I'm not really very good at drinking mass quantities.
The LONG Scientific Personality Test = ENFP... a professional one (years ago) = ENTJ. My IQ is 10% under my weight.
Most people find me clever, sensitive, thoughtful, honest and centered. I don't often act my age... I probably don't look it... but that's for you to decide, right? A recent visit to the doctor had my pulse at 51.
Involved in media production; web work, documentary films, government & corporate videos, commercials, and interactive museum stuff. It's gratifying, challenging and rewarding.
Carbon footprint? Synthetics avoided whenever possible in what I wear, eat, and socialize with. Socks: cotton, bamboo; Shoes: some are recycled car tires; Bed sheets: birch bark fiber; Shirts: cotton or linen. Compulsive recycling.
WIRED, a couple of car mags and on-line media. Film in no particular order: Birdman, The Imitation Game, G R A V I T Y, Little Miss Sunshine, The Lord of the Rings trilogy, Pulp Fiction, The Language of Music, Food Inc., The Conjuring, Man on Wire, Memento and anything else Christopher Nolan takes on. And films by the Cohen Brothers, Wes Anderson or David O. Russell (Flirting With Disaster, Silver Linings Playbook, and American Hustle!) , Terry Gilliam, and Tarantino, and although his personal life is a total mess, Woody Allen is still a mad genius. Radio: Wait! Wait! Don't Tell Me!
Spicy dishes from all over the world, and anything creative, adventurous and healthy. Occasionally I eat meat and relish it.
Sure I love the Beatles, SRV, BB King, Neil Young, and the Stones, but I also like Alt-J, XX, The Savages, Greenday, Silversun Pickups, Mumford & Sons, Fleet Foxes, Blondfire, Depeche Mode. The Slacker channels are grouped across several genres. Live jazz is also good.
Strolling the memorials & museums, healthy eating, playing slide guitar, an occasional sporting event, cooking up amazing chili, and occasionally brewing fine beer. I like spice in food, beer and women.
Intelligence, a sense of humor and fairness with progressive values helps. If you at least occasionally consider the environment even better! Seeking: the right mix of pheromones between two people, the delicate interplay of communicating and getting to know each other that makes the dance work.
Oh, and apparently I DO have to say this: If you are the type to send out fake photos of some amazing babe that isn't you, disguising yourself as someone really interested in me, please stay away.
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