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41 M Studio City, CA

My Details

Last Online
Today – 2:06pm
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Atheism, and laughing about it
Virgo, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Science / Engineering
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has kids
Likes dogs and has cats

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My self-summary
After the obligatory post-trauma period of drinking beer, riding motorcycles, and hanging out with the guys, here I am. Well, actually, I still do all those things, but I've come to realize that there's a big something missing and I'd really love to have someone to go out with and, more importantly, come home to. I'd love to have a partner for the next set of adventures!

In short, I'm ready. I love getting out, finding good food, having some drinks, etc., but I also really look forward to those jammie nights together on the couch surfing Netflix. It's a balance.

I've been overseas a couple times in the last couple years, and it rekindled my love of travel. Get your passport ready because we'll be planning something.

I love my children (two girls, 6 & 8) more than anything in the whole world and I spend a lot of time with them (50%). However, as much as I enjoy being a parent, the baby years are behind me and I won't be making any more of them. If you are looking for someone to have kids with, I'm not your man. Please be certain of this. The ship has been decommissioned, if you catch my drift.

If you already have kids of your own I'm totally ok with that. In fact, I think it's awesome and I'm fully prepared to Brady Bunch it.

That being said, I often pass on messaging otherwise perfect-sounding women because of their stated desire to have kids. If you put this but it really isn't the case for whatever reason, please drop me a line! This has been an issue for me on here. Let's just be open about it.

If you love some of my photos but I look hideous in others, the good ones are the ones I actually look like, I assure you. ;)

So there you have it. Anything else you want to know, just ask. I'm an open book.
What I’m doing with my life
I'm currently leading a team building an earth-orbiting climate science satellite that will launch in November. I am way into my job, and as stressful as it can sometimes be, it's still fun and I'm even enjoying myself in some odd way when I'm working on the laptop at home late at night. Probably because I'm in my underwear and drinking beer, but that's beside the point. I'm not a workaholic though, and draw as firm a line as I can between work life and everything else.

I thoroughly enjoy riding motorcycles, and I'd love to have you on the back for those early morning runs up the Angeles Crest for breakfast at Newcomb's Ranch or a sunset ride up the PCH. I'm mature enough (finally) not to ride like a hooligan everywhere I go and I'm not out to impress anybody or overcompensate for anything. Let's just enjoy the fresh air and the view!

I spend a lot of time with my girls doing fun family-type stuff. We go to museums, hike, cook, hit the beach like bosses, and generally goof off as much as possible.

I love to get outdoors when I can. It used to be for lengthy backcountry adventures, but lately it's been more like a fun day hike or a bottle of wine in the park. These days it tends more toward the quick getaway rather than the epic adventure. Weekend car camping is awesome.
I’m really good at
Fixing anything.


Figuring it out.

Making ice cubes.

Getting out of town for the weekend and doing something random with little or no plan.

Relaxing. Chilling. Spooning. Listening.

Solving problems, from emotional ones to that weird noise your car makes.

I think I'm good at showing my partner what she really means to me and sharing affection.

Parenting, which is my biggest passion and greatest challenge.

Learning lessons the hard way.

The first things people usually notice about me
My incredible good looks. Geez, who knows. Tell me after you notice me and I'll put it here for the next person to read!
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Easy Rider, Napoleon Dynamite, The Life Aquatic with Steve Zissou, LOTR, Lonesome Dove, Caddyshack. I recently watched "No Country for Old Men" and when it ended I said out loud, "hey, wait, what the fuck?" which is a sign of a truly good movie to me.

Netflix roped me in and I may need to get into some sort of rehab program. However, I'm all caught up on Sons of Anarchy, The Walking Dead, Breaking Bad and Mad Men, which has me wanting to do my hair better and drink more whiskey...but not smoke...or philander, at least not to such an extent.

Really great burgers and other red meat-related dishes. Pub-style fish & chips. Good veggie food. Not into sushi, but if I like you enough I can pretend. Train me! I recently ate octopus soup, and finished my bowl, because it was the socially-appropriate thing to do under the circumstances. I feel I am capable of anything now.

Richard Feynman, Jon Krakauer, Carl Hiaasen. Just finished "Packing for Mars" so satisfy my nerdy side and "The Girl With the Dragon Tattoo" and the Hunger Games trilogy to satisfy my pop-culture-y side. I recently wrote my high school English teacher asking for a reading list, so I can read the classics for pleasure instead of under duress this time around (update: holy crap he gave me a list that's going to keep me busy for years!).

Zep, Stones, Jimi, Ben Folds, Morrissey, The Smiths, The Cure, Duran Duran (extra points if you know where they got the name), LMFAO, Chemical Brothers, Ween, TMBG, Weezer, Beck, eminem, Dr. Dre & Snop Dogg, Jay-Z, Willie, Waylon, Kris, King Missile, New Duncan Imperials...

The Conet Project

Kids in the Hall (My pen!!!)
The six things I could never do without
Love, the outdoors, red meat, tools, freedom, mangos (mangoes?)

(Of course my kids, family, air, food, water, shelter, and all that kind of stuff that people like to list here but that doesn't reveal anything about my personality)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
why women are so shocked when I open the car door for them. Why is this unusual?
On a typical Friday night I am
trying to get out. Watch the last episode of season one of Louis for some insight...some eerily-accurate insight. It's on Netflix and only 23 minutes long so go watch it instead of trolling that next guy's profile. He's probably got shirtless bathroom self-shots anyway.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Well, I've probably said too much already -- I'll leave *something* for later at least. No need to scare everyone off right off the bat!
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 25–45
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if want to get out of the house for an evening. have a sense of humor and you're not afraid to use it. are an intelligent, friendly, fit, self-confident woman with an active life of her own but room to share it. Energy and passion are important to me, as are emotional maturity and honesty. Be independent but need me at the same time.