After being here and ‘dating’ casually for 3 years I’ve learned a few things about myself, at least I’ve begun to re-consider my relationship status.
I want to customize the traditional relationship (one man one woman) by allowing both of us to date as we see fit, sometimes with full disclosure sometimes with limited (always as we wish it to be).
I’ve often wondered what my type of relationship is called, Open Relationship/Poly? etc. but each of those seemed not a perfect fit, however may be close enough for this conversation. Labels and definitions can sometimes (most the time) fail.
I do form long term, meaningful/emotional/sexual connections with those I care to date. I wouldn’t want to shut out any part of my life but rather incorporate all that we are into this experience (the path not destination).
I no longer want my partner to just go along with these ideas (and slowly wither away) but would rather have her say to me “Finally someone I can be me and be free with”
I know it can happen; I’ve met couples who enjoy this type of relationship and I envy them. This could be a beautiful thing, someday I may find it. But a definition isn't so important to me.
Re-reading this I see I still struggle for the right way to express myself regarding what I’m looking for.
Maybe because I’m pretty mellow on that definition thing and would prefer our personal connection to define itself.
I want us to build our perfect fit together.
If you’re still with me I hope you enjoy my little profile.
I'm divorced and single (honest! :) Raised two kids on my own, they are now in their early twenties. I'm also a grandpa and totally into it. Got a great job (29yrs and counting dwn to retirement). None cigerette smoker and 420 friendly.
I'm not your average guy. Ive been called a renisaunce man and things even worse. Bad speller for one.
I'll make you laugh (is it really that hard to find? What kind of trolls hang around these dating sites?).
I’m intuitive/empathic, artisitc/creative and a free thinker, liberal, non-religious, non-cultish. We create our own reality, so if it's screwed up I blame you (just kidding).
I enjoy quality ....conversation, philosophy, science, very very ancient archeology, art, music, friends, family.
My 3 grandsons (still under 9) call me PeePa,
oh, and there's a cat around here somewhere ...but not that grey cat, that's the neighbors cat.
'Truth is stranger than fiction' is the reason I don't read fiction. I like my fiction in movies even if it's only for the buttered popcorn.
My past relationships were generally with women 10-15 years younger than me, they just seem to match my energy, it was never a conscious intent to seek them out, it just kinda worked out that way when I look back. I like natural beauty over made-up but makeup is good too. I expect you to be comfortable but I'm weak for a dress/skirt if you'd like a rise out of me from time to time ;) ...but use this ploy sparingly if you expect to get to our intended destination. I have had the great fortune to never need any thing but T-shirts to wear to work (my entire life) so casual is the norm for me but if I had to I could find my nicer shirt.
My life is centered around self development and sharing those tricks with others if they're interested. I've always been an explorer of our deepest self. I question everything and seek a personal answer or understanding/analogy. I try to lift myself out of the negitive thought processes like jealously, hate and greed that this life seems to hold dear for the masses.
For me it’s all about passion, being here now, following your bliss. ...Life is a continuous meditation. .....Be the change. Give me a hippy over a Bellevue/rich snob any day. Think/feel/express with your whole being.
.....Have i made enough bumper stickers for you yet?
Sex as ritual
...and not because I only get it once per 'Mayan Great Year'
......hey wait a minute, I'm due