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27 San Jose, CA Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 20–31
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 3:44pm
6′ 3″ (1.91m)
Body type
A little extra
Mostly anything
Not at all
Agnosticism, but not too serious about it
Virgo, and it’s fun to think about
Working on two-year college
Rather not say
Has dogs and has cats
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
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I think one of my better qualities is my sense of humor, I love to laugh and make jokes to people where ever I am. Sometimes even to strangers on the street and bus if the chance arises. My humor can range from simple to complex. Honesty is my first and for most policy, nothings worse then caring around the guilt that I would get from lying. Besides every one deserves the truth. I have been called dependable, if you need something I'm there especially on the big important things. Being empathetic is a big one to, there is not allot of people I can't empathize with on some level. I also care allot about those whore are important to me and I'm always going out of my way for them. Loyal, is the only quality I have that you could use to compare me to a dog. Well that and the fact I dig holes in the backyard. No one ever understands I'm just trying to reach china. I have a very gentle side once you get past everything else.
Last and not least I am very creative, coming up with stories for my writing is what I do best. I have so many I can never keep up.
What I’m doing with my life
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RIght now, I'm one quarter away from graduating, in March. After that I'm going out into the job market, to find a a more well paying source of income.
I have finally started taking steps to writing a book and trying to get it published. I have started writing and posting both my works chapter by chapter on a website. I have already improved so much in my skills. Writing a book will be hard and take a while and I may not get published. But telling stories is my passion so the journey will be good. I know what I want and I will get it.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I'm really good at imagining and and think up stories, in fact the don't stop coming so it can be hard to keep track of the good ones. Which makes it difficult to nail down ideas for the novel I'm fiddling with. Reading and of course writing, thinking up new fictional concepts to write. I just got big into it, if your a writer I'm down to talk to you about it. It's one of my is my passions.
I'm also really good at reading social ques, and empathizing with others.
I'm also really good at using humor to defuse situations, when it's appropriate to do so of course.
The first things people usually notice about me
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First how tall I am, next my hazel eyes that change color depending the color of my cloths, then my smile. Lastly my kind understanding nature.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I like Movies and TV, my favorite kinds of shows are Crime Drama's, Sitcom's, and Scifi. My favorite shows are Supernatural, all the CSI's, Criminal Minds, Doctor Who, Torchwood, Heroes, Medium, the Mentalist, Burn notice, White Collar, Warehouse Thirteen, Psyche, Arrow, Grimm, Lost Girl, Teen Wolf, Longmire,
Family Guy, The Simpsons, Futurama, and American Dad.

My favorite movies are Dark Knight, Batman Begins, Pirates of the Carribean, and Sleepy Hallow, Christine, Star Trek, Hell Boy I&II, Office Space, Better off Dead, Donnie Darko, and the first Transformers movie, Mallrats. Man of Steel, Hot Fuzz,

Music, AC/DC, The All-American Rejects, Avenged Seven fold, Linkin Park, Nickleback, Metallica, and All American Rejects, Flogging Molly, The Killers, The used, Spider Bait, Staind, Sum 41, Queen, and the Who, The Foo fighters Florence and the Machine, Neon Trees, Skillet, Imagine dragons.

Books, The Harry Potter series, His Dark Materials, Loch, The Beast by Peter Benchly (May he rest in peace), and Good Omens, Pride and Prejudice and Zombies, Percy Jackson and the Olympians.

Food, anything Southern Italian, blame my mothers heritage for that. Some kinds of Chinese food and mexican food, I suddenly love Salmon now lol.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. Family
2. Friends
3. My Golden Retriever Maggie May
4. Access to the internet
5. My Ipod
6. Good forms of media to inspire me.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Where my life is taking me, when am I going to get there etc.
How we humans are destroying the earth, and what we can do to fix that. What's the next thing I can do to be productive in my life.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Watching TV and playing playing video games with my friend David, or some times hanging out with friends or being with family.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I will say that I am adopted, it's not easy because I used to get teased about it when I was young.
You should message me if
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I do want togo on dates, but I'm all for just hanging and being friends. Right now I looking for someone to spend time with and go on adventures with. As for what kind of woman I'm looking for, I would like someone who is kind. Funny loves to kid around. Who is forthcoming, that if something is bothering her she will let me know. I'm an adult I can handle it. Loyalty of course, if I'm going to give you mine then you should be willing to do the same. Some one who is understanding and non judgmental
Liking video games or writing especially is a bonus. I can't resist a fellow writer to talk shop with.
As for physical appearance, I have only two guide lines, one I"m really not into woman with short masculine haircuts. And two the taller you are the more I'm attracted to you in that regard. I like woman I don't have bend far over to kiss. Lastly body type, don't worry if you not thin or even any where close to it. I'm attracted to all kinds of body types, besides getting the women I'm with feel good about themselves is what I do