Looking for the unusual connection, the exceptional and the extraordinary and fun. I'm a thoughtful and adventurous guy. I love to think, feel, extremes, challenges, the sublime. I enjoy people in all their guises and love to experience life and all its peculiarities. I am very open minded and believe that a willingness to try almost anything at least once as the way to live it.

I love to mix with people who think, who have opinions, who either know their own mind or are actively figuring it out. Whether we agree on what we think or feel isn't important, I love people I can learn from, spar with and challenge me. I enjoy philosophy and have an Epicurian slant on life.

Travelling, living hard, working too hard.

Making someone feel very comfortable in their own skin.

Broad shoulders.

I love to cook and am not afraid to try to cook anything, my friends can tell you my successes and failures.

TV: The Wire, Borgen, Dexter, Southpark (my guilty pleasure), The Killing, Allo Allo,

Movies: Indie, arthouse, big blockbuster guilty pleasures. Love Secret Cinema. Leon, Heat, Its a Wonderful Life, The Cooler, The Good Thief, Drive, Gattacca. E.T., the original Superman, The Cruel Sea.

Favourite Books: Letters to a Young Contrarian, Delta of Venus, The Story of O, The Four Feathers, A Thousand Splendid Suns, Mans Search for Meaning, The Road, Lord of the Flies.

I love Radio 4 and 6 Music. An odd mix but it works.

Tea
Radio
Sex
Contrarian minds
Gin
Adventure

What I've just forgotten....

Cooking dinner for friends or travelling to see friends for a night out.

a conversation for another time surely...

Looking for someone honest, open, entertaining and a rash of contradictions but a rare combination of the best of them.

you think it could be interesting...