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Raspbberry

49 F Toronto, Ontario, CA

My Details

Last Online
Today – 7:21am
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 4″ (1.63m)
Body Type
Fit
Diet
Mostly vegetarian
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Agnosticism
Sign
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Medicine
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Has kids, but doesn’t want more
Pets
Speaks
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
A Friend, a Lover, a Playmate—not necessary in that order—this lonely SJF is looking for. The one good man: funny, sweet, intellectual. We’ll converge our past solitary life and dream together or make love all day as if we were kids again. I’ll have my eyes closed to imagine I am still young and beautiful and we will hold hands because I fall down often when I dream of flying. I shall take care of all your earthly needs and desires you shall cook French crepes and read fairy tales, poetry, NYRB, and science mags to me.
What I’m doing with my life
Apart from becoming a great coloratura soprano (see below), I would like to be a famous physician--not kidding. . .
I also read, write, attend concerts, theater, and political events, spend time with my kids, knit (a lot), mountain bike in a beautiful forest in October, ski X-country if there is snow.
I am the type of the person who needs people and am interested in community building. I am politically active, interested in the arts, growing food, foraging, history, anthropology, sciences, philosophy, and a ton of other things.
I love big cities, full of people, tram noise, great buildings, huge public spaces, grand rivers dressed in granite. Last summer I was in Barcelona. I wasn't that impressed with the city itself, but Gaudi definitely made my head spin (see the pictures in his park).
I’m really good at
Well, knitting of course, I am currently involved in four different projects--all very colourful!
Thinking also sometimes works, but not always. I used to be very cerebral but eventually it dawned on me that it doesn't always look good on a woman. Now I am trying to learn to walk in high heels.
The first things people usually notice about me
I think: my gender, my age, my hight, my clothes--hmm, my looks,
Oh, this is such a lame question.
Can I apply for a part-time position designing the questions on dating sites?
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I like all music except for the types that have no rhyme or reason. I love ALL folk music and the classical, especially 18th cen. I was raised on a diet of a perfect ballet, so I am very fond of it too. I LOVE Alvin Ailey. I read a lot of nonfiction but would love to change this habit. I love the real French crepes, if I can get them.

N.B. the following is an addition dated today, March 2/14. It's almost an International Woman's Day, hah? PLEASE, DO NOT ANSWER MY AD UNLESS, LIKE ME, YOU READ NYRB COVER TO COVER and listen to Amy Goodman often. Furthermore, I DO NOT WANT A BOYTOY. I am so very very very grateful, in my ripe old age, to be approached by so many young man -- but it is fucking tiring! I am looking for a grownup! A literate one, too. My bio is written tongue-in-cheek, OK?
FURTHERMORE, look up SJF. I am also an atheist and a feminist. These usually don't pair well with "serious" Church folks. It's been proven, by History.
The six things I could never do without
music, ideas, sleep, fresh air, my kids, good food (especially deserts)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
The famous human condition. How the humanity got into this sad state and how to get us out of it. How majestically beautiful the world is in the summer: right now I am sitting in a cafe on a Greek island, Alonissos, in front of the noisy port filling up the air with the scent of the sea flavoured with the smell of diesel fuel expelled by the innards of the ships and boats.
2014 addendum: we are having quite a winter this year. I LOVE winter too. . .
On a typical Friday night I am
Pretend I am a great singer, with a beautiful and powerful voice (on other days I cannot produce a single proper note).
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
OK, I have written it below in invisible fonts, but don't tell my mother:
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 40–60
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
I am looking for a well-balanced and educated man, alive, kind, a beautiful human being to love and behold. Someone you would like to share your crepes and jam with, maybe even cook your own crepes for him.
even if you are not interested in crepes (and other stuff), I am so tired of going out to all the social events with a bunch of females.
Would really love a male friend who appreciates the same stuff to tag along.