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39 El Cajon, CA Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 26–38
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 9:40pm
6′ 2″ (1.88m)
Body Type
Mostly other
Not at all
Agnosticism, and laughing about it
Leo, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Art / Music / Writing
Strictly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids
Likes cats
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
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Hello! I'm a San Diego native, I am a big believer in art improving the world. I take photos, I draw, I craft. Ever seen The Guild season 4? I made the squid hat in that.

I love Shakespeare and go down to Seaport Village every month to read scenes. You should too, fresh meat is always welcome. Verily.

Every once in awhile I am in a play, my last was Shakespeare's Scottish Play. If you know why I called it that, you might be... awesome? I played four characters. One was covered in blood. Every night I added more and more blood.

I found out about modern, designer type, board games this year with Wil Wheaton's TableTop show. These are not your Monopolies or Trivial Pursuits. I've now got a collection of around 25 games. Want to play a game?
What I’m doing with my life
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I make hats, I make art, I take photos, I make the acting sometimes.

Video of what I do:
Made it for a contest.

In November I discovered the subreddit r/RedditGetsDrawn and since then I've peen practicing my portrait drawing skills. on people who volunteer themselves to be drawn.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Making things.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Maybe my feet, size 15 - STOMP STOMP!
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Fiction of the scientific and the fantastical. If it's by Gaiman, Pratchett or Eric Flint all the better. Also Ellison, Turtledove, Niven, Weber.

Movies of the same including things by Pixar, the Coens, Tarantino, Wes Anderson, Joss, Peter Jackson. I do not enjoy horror/slasher types and The Fifth Element is my favorite movie of all time. I believe that there are 2 kinds of people in the world, those who love Joe vs. the Volcano and those who have brain clouds.

Shows: (do you see the trend) Firefly, Lost (I was one of the first people to see it publicly when they showed the pilot episode for the first time) Mythbusters, Community is the best show on TV right now(but I have anxiety for the new season), I wish Whose Line was still on even if only in reruns. Anything by Joss Whedon. Although I have not seen his episode of Glee so I can't say that definitively.

Food: I do not appreciate spicy, that's how it is. But talk to me about pizza and I'm yours. My favorite joint is Voltero's on Balboa in Clairemont but I just found out they're moving and won't be open again until February. I am allergic to fruit.

I listen to podcasts while I drive. If you've never heard the Thrilling Adventure Hour, you haven't lived. Which just led me to The Dead Authors Podcast.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Possible new designs of hats, how to increase sales, what I could be drawing next and why I haven't drawn it.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Could be at a play either watching or participating.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I've never had a sip of alcohol. Never. Not for any big reason but for many little ones. Put together it make no drinky-drinky for the J man. Maybe I'll try to make sense of it for you sometime but not over a drink.
You should message me if
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You don't think a bar makes a great first date location. You don't smoke. That, I do not abide. You don't have Atlas Shrugged listed in your Favorite Books section.