Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I am: Not clean cut. Not All-American. Not boy next door.
I prefer to follow my own narrative based on experiences. I can
talk about anything and think its time to evolve the dialogue. I
notice haircuts. I sometimes say things I don't mean. I listen when
others are speaking and participate in two-way conversations. I
will shake your dads hand and look your mom in the eye. I have a
smile that can light up a room and my energy is infectious. I am
intense at times but I am also silly, impulsive and light-hearted
at other times. I can be serious when I need to be. I'm rarely
bored and rarely predictable. I'm not secretive and prefer opening
doors to closing them. I enjoy naps. While I am sex positive, I
enjoy sex most with someone worth waking up to. I cry when I need
to and I can tell you how I feel. In tough times, I tough it out. I
like to live in the now. I am intuitive and rarely led astray by my
intuition. I am comfortable being alone but I can be gregarious
when I want to be. I thoroughly enjoy my downtime because I've
earned it. I'm confident but not egoic. I am compassionate and
often champion the underdog. I lean into people that I like. I may
even touch them. I surround myself with people that help me grow
and I generously return the favor. I tell those close to me how
much it means to have them in my life. I have deep eyes that can
see through faces and illusions.
If proximity is a major factor in your life, I live in Sonoma. If
that is a concern at this stage (the profile viewing stage aka
stage 0), then stop reading here -> ;)
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Working on the garden inside me by observing, engaging and
contributing so that I may grow and help others to do the
When you quiet the noise, its amazing what you can hear. When you
stop staring into the lights, its amazing what you can see. When
you stop trying to feel, its amazing what you can feel.
During the day, I work in new media & web software and I have
my own photography biz. All other times I work on me.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Channeling my inner child, having fun and making people smile. I
like to think that my real profession is "Life Experience Creator."
It's a terrible business model: no revenue, no salary but lots of
customers and business is booming!
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I look young for my age and that I almost always smile. Maybe its
the smile that keeps me young...
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Bit of a nerd so I enjoy most nerd subject books, movies and
My sense of humor: Team America, Paul Mooney, Strangers with
Candy/Amy Sedaris, Dave Chappelle, Samantha B and almost anything
Kristin Wiig does.
My music taste: Space Cowboys/Shissla/8Ball, Nickodemus, Cut
Chemist, Sia, M83, Silversun Pickup, MIA, Tom Eno, Gotye, Santigold
, Die Antwoord, Muse, Balkan Beat Box, Adele , Royksopp & Jay-Z
(maybe not all together unless you are a truly gifted DJ)
My food taste: a quality hotdog (no pun), Vietnamese, Thai,
Himalayan, Nachos, BBQ (Carolina!).
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Passion, Honesty, Play Time, Laughter, Positive Growth and Healthy
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
I think about Dragons, Superheroes, Ninjas, Pirates, Aliens,
Cowboys and Indians. And I think about why we let ourselves get in
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I'm usually at the Swiss Hotel on Sonoma Square laughing with good
In the city, possibly at dinner with friends or a cocktail
Sometimes curled up, horizontal under a warm blanket or cuddling
with my pup.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I have a bit of a 'thing' for nice hands & feet and I like fun
socks (ok maybe this is an extension of the foot thing).
Oh yeah...And I'm really 44. Are you really how old you say you
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
Opening up is important to you. You are more human than drone. You
like to laugh. You are not afraid to hug in front of your mom. You
don't mind that I might subtly smell you when I lean into you
(reference above for when this might happen). You have the power of
empathy. You kiss like you mean it. You enjoy being playful. You
like to wrestle - I may let you win. You can look someone in the
eye and not look away. You recognize when egos are silly. You value
principles to live by over meaningless hard rules. A connection has
greater value than proximity. You know an illusion when you see
one. You can appreciate simple things but have a sense for
adventure. You know how to relax and want to enjoy life vs.
planning to enjoy life. You blush when someone pays you a
complement. You focus on what is good in life and generally you are
a happy person. You have a light in your eyes and a genuine smile.
Sharing the adventure sounds like a good thing and sharing in
general feels good to you.
Maybe you're not all of these things. Maybe you want to be. Maybe
you don't have the time. Maybe it scares you. Maybe I'm here to
help. Maybe now... Maybe tomorrow... Maybe never... Maybe
forever... Maybe... Maybe...
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