I'm never sure what to put on these things, because I don't think anyone is very good at describing themselves; that is better left to those around them, who can observe and appreciate certain nuances. I'll just go with a more extreme version of what's usually referred to as "the basics," and allow you (or... whoever) to take it from there; I'm a staunch vegetarian, proud fatty, humorless feminist, polyamorous, pansexual, kinky, Atheistic Wiccan. Identity is important to me, and I like people who have a strong sense of self. I strive to be a writer. I'm known to be a bit capricious, but it's always well-intentioned. I actively enjoy music, literature, art, cooking, movies, self-education, self-evolution, spirituality, meditation, witchcraft (of the benign variety, obviously), sex, red wine, activism, animals, and Mother Nature. I'm extremely liberal to a fault, and I'm very wound around my belief structures. I'm close with my immediate family, and I have two amazing people with whom I'm very deeply in love, my wonderful girlfriend crowdpleaser and my equally wonderful boyfriend KarlMarxsLover; they are, however, open (and honest) relationships. I have major wanderlust, and I want to go many, many places, on many, many roadtrips. I'm kind of obsessed with my dog. I'm the most interesting person you've never met. If you want to know more, you'll ask.

I'm currently enjoying my life, and working to commence my writing career.

I'm going to go with understanding and empathizing, for one. I can relate to almost anyone, simply by examining my past life's experiences, and my life's privileges.

Honestly, I could probably make a bigger list of things I wish I were better at, but one of the things I'm good at is remaining optimistic, so I'll just leave it at that.

Mostly, my wardrobe, and the tattoo on my arm. I get endless comments on both.

The lists could go on for a long time if I really get into them, so I'll just list a few of each that are personal favorites.

Books: Heart-Shaped Box; A Density of Souls; Haunted; All the Pretty Girls; The Catcher in the Rye; Tipping the Velvet; Fight Club; Carrie; The Story of Forgetting; The Memory Keeper's Daughter; The Curious Case of Benjamin Button; any kind of well-written lesbian erotica; and much, much more where that came from, but if I don't stop, I never will.

Movies: Donnie Darko; A Clockwork Orange; the Saw films; Boys Don't Cry; Truth or Consequences, New Mexico; Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind; Girl, Interrupted; The Texas Chainsaw Massacre; so on and so forth.

Music: I really don't have too many discriminating tastes when it comes to music, because I truly like something from just about every genre, but a few favorites are: Tool; Otep; My Chemical Romance; The Misfits; Dresden Dolls; Murderdolls; The Used; The Mars Volta; Kittie; Puscifer; lalala~*

Food: Almost anything vegetarian. My favorite food of all time is eggplant parmesan.

Art (in all its forms), self-evaluation, writing, animals, intimacy, and spirituality.

Life, in general. The things that life is composed of. Writing. Things I'm passionate about. Causes that I feel strongly about. My girlfriend and my boyfriend. Sex. And evolving.

There are no typical Friday nights. I go where my environment leads me, and do what it leads me to do.

I once had sex in a public hot tub (not recommended).

You see something you like. I've piqued your curiosity. You feel like talking to someone. Or if you just... want to.