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RavenSFO

41 / F / Bisexual / Single

San Francisco, California

Her Details

Last Online
Today – 8:16am
Ethnicity
Black, Native American, Other
Height
5′ 6″ (1.68m).
Body Type
Fit
Diet
Smokes
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Religion
Buddhism
Sign
Aries
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Executive / Management
Income
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Pets
Has dogs
Speaks
English, Sign Language (Poorly), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
***UPDATE***
I am currently ONLY seeking bi female playmates, single men who are seeking a LTR and new friends. If you fall in that category, then please read on.

Salutations.
So you think you may be interested in getting to know me?
Let me offer a snapshot into who I am and what I am seeking.

I've sown my wild oats and I now feel I am at a great place in life to explore a meaning partnership. What I desire is a single man who is accepting of my sexuality and desire to be with women intimately with and without him. I also wish to find a bi woman who desires a bi female playmate.
I'm seeking open minded, creative individuals with a fertile imaginations.
I am attracted to people who are physically fit, articulate, sensitive and aware. I like people who have grit and have strong constitutions.
For those who find integrity to be a constant in all areas of their endeavors, I am most eagerly receptive to. I can easily be smitten with those who do not take themselves too seriously, lack hubris and strive for growth intellectually, emotionally and spiritually. I am very open and really, my focus is illuminated on what I seek versus what I don't seek. I like those who can be adventurous, are willing to be spontaneous and have a penchant for laughter. This one is pretty important to me; I like those who are animal lovers and at the very least animal friendly.

Can you appreciate a woman of my ilk?

I am a respectful, honest and genuine person. I am an open and accepting person who pretty much believes in the old cliche of treat others as you desire to be treated. As I prefer being treated well, I generously offer up the same treatment. I have crossed the threshold of fear, faced it and payed it to rest. My heart is open and I now know that I am capable and ready to share my love openly and honestly.

I am diverse in my interests. I love to read, cook, travel, go wine tasting, dance and explore the beauty that this life has to offer. I don't do hard drugs and I try to live a balanced lifestyle. I do admit to experimenting with many things throughout my life, so I'm pretty clear on what my limitations are. Historically, I enjoyed the process of establishing what my limits were and modifying them. I believe that is what life is for. That being said, I also want to convey that I'm no prude by any means; but I'm not some crazed party animal trying to escape the realities of life. I've enjoyed my youth to the fullest and I am currently in pursuit of the beautiful fun there is still, to be had. I would love to find a partner or partners in crime who know what they want. I wish to find someone who would love to have a sexy, sensual, compassionate and loving woman by their side. I'm a woman who has a savvy sensibility about her. There's much to be discovered in this life. At this leg of my journey, I would love to navigate my new adventures with a co-pilot or co-pilots, by my side.
What I’m doing with my life
I'm currently in the process of reinventing myself....
Studying Psychology..
Studying Accounting..
Exploring Photography...
Expanding my works of poetry..
Studying religion...from a very NON religious platform
Hanging with my dogs...
Seeking innovative, creative, intentional and deliberate souls...
I am a work in progress.
I’m really good at
Cuddling...
Hula Hooping...
Cooking...
Pondering...
Sensual exploration...
Striving to be a better person...
Dancing...
Communicating...
Giving...
Loving....
The first things people usually notice about me
My eyes and my smile, when one is inspired.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I love all kinds of music...
Latin Jazz, Electronica, Breaks, World Music, Rock n Roll and Old School Motown
Manu Chao, Strunz & Farah, DJ Oscure, Ella Fitzgerald, Billie Holiday, Pink Floyd, The Doors, Marvin Gaye, Cesaria Evora, Tom Waits, LOVE Johnny Cash and I find Jerry Lee Lewis pleasantly naughty!😏
I love all kinds of food. I don't do poultry.
I am a fan of Christopher Guest, Jean Pierre Jeunet, Terry Gilliam and Monty Python oh and of course, the Coen Brothers and Mel Brooks.
Madeline Kahn and Cloris Leachman are two of my favorite actresses of all time!
Amelie, LOTR,The Imaginarium of Dr. Parnassus, The Meaning of Life, Zorro the Gay Blade, Being There, Micky and Maude
The Unmistaken Child, Young Frankenstein, A Mighty Wind, The Big Lebowski
Shows...Cirque du Soleil,
I need to read more books! I love Atlas Shrugged and The Fountain Head by Ayn Rand.
And for mature reading, The Claiming of Sleeping Beauty!
The six things I could never do without
I feel a great sense of gratitude and appreciation for my family, friends and my dogs.
A life without love, music, films, traveling, good food, wine and laughs would be pretty dim.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
How I can be my best, so I can better serve others.

Understanding the validity of my perspective and seeing how it best serves me and others.

How to have the best interactions and relationships with people on all levels.

How to take over the world.....tee hee hee
I've no interest in taking over the world. I just want to help make it a better place.
On a typical Friday night I am
How I spend my time varies. I enjoy going out, but I also love staying in and being cozy or spending quality time with quality people.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I'm a hopeful romantic and I fancy the thought of being in love.

If you're interested in my private bits, then you will just have to get to know me and maybe I shall grant you such a privilege.
I’m looking for
  • Guys and girls who like bi girls
  • Ages 35–50
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, activity partners
You should message me if
BY ALL MEANS DO MESSAGE ME IF:

If you are emotionally available.

Embrace loving others and being loved.

If you know what you want and are in a place where you are ready to explore and indulge in fanciful shenanigans with, yes I will say it again, a woman of my ilk...

You have a dog and would like your K9 companion to have more K9 pals...

Agree that manners and consideration cost nothing...

Want to be Rainbow Grocery and Trader Joe's Shopping Buddies...

Love music and dancing...

Know what movie this is from;

"And now, let's end this meeting on a high note.....Aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaahhhhhh!🎶"