Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Its been a wild ride so far...Life is pretty bizarre, twisted,
beautiful, exhausting and sacred. At this point in my life I like
to keep it simple. I have it narrowed down to hanging with my kids,
a few amazing humans I adore, my work and my free time. I bust my
ass at my work, and love it! I am a sci-fi nerd and am totally cool
with that. My house is filled with books, I can never have nor read
enough of them.
I have worked really hard to get where I am and am devoted to my
kids and life. I have 4 years sober and focus on self care and
doing something meaningful with each day I am above ground- even if
that means a netflix marathon of Dr. Who with my kids. That shit is
meaningful to me!
I crave someone who wants to hang out, get to know each other. I
got enough going on in my life that taking it slow with someone is
a refreshing idea and the only one that fits in my reality. My kids
are old enough to be self-sufficient and I really love being able
to focus more on me at this phase in my life. It took a bit to get
used to, after having raised kids since I was 18, and I am not
looking to care take anyone. Plus in the work I do its pretty
exhausting. I work as an advocate at a Sexual and Domestic Violence
Non-Profit. I work with survivors at a shelter, crisis line, going
to the ER, going to Court with them, visiting Jails. Its hard work
and extremely fulfilling. When I get home I want to relax, play,
dance, sing, smoke a cigarette on my porch with an amazing cup of
coffee and share in some fascinating dialogue. I really enjoy the
What I’m doing with my life
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Endless spark...One foot in front of the other... deep curiosity
keeps me moving forward...Raising two amazing daughters...I have
been described as having fortitude...No matter what life presents I
am able to move through...I have studied Welding, Botany,
Herbology, Psychology, Writing, Art... I never know what adventure
will present itself... I make a rough plan and see where the path
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Not taking it personal, laughing at myself and walking through the
fire... Saying the exact thing that needs to be said when necessary
and making an ass out of myself on a regular basis...learning how
to fail with grace.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: Neil Gaiman, Samuel Beckett, Joseph Campbell, If On A
Winter's Night A Traveler, A Million Little Pieces, The Prophet,
Movies: Spirited Away, Amelie, Fried Green Tomatoes, Grosse Pointe
Blank, Steel Magnolias, Magnolia, The Point, Boondock Saints,
Music: Tom Waits, Amanda Palmer, Sage Francis, Bjork, Violent
Femmes, The Smiths, Iron & Wine, Bob Dylan.
Food: I love to cook and love to eat. Spent time in the South
(special place in my heart for Southern cookin') I love to explore
and try new styles all the time. I make recipes from scratch. My
cooking is like my painting. I approach the canvas and the cuisine
by allowing it to tell me what it will become. I rarely follow
recipes, if I do I only use it as a reference point and the meal
grows beyond the recipe given.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Fingers digging in the dirt, the smell right after it rains,
sunrise before anyone's awake, hanging out in my garden, the warmth
from my little and not so little one (2 daughters -11 and 18)...
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
anything and everything...my mind moves really fast...I wander and
get lost in dimensions and portals within my mind...and love
finding other humans who enjoy conversations that are
multidimensional and as deep as I go I never forget to laugh at
myself...and recognize that "its just a ride".
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
fluctuates vastly based on scenario, mood, options, weather, cash
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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Its not really private but I rarely discuss with others...I am a
huge Dr. Who fan and love to attend Comic Con...Nerdy, dorky,
geeky...mmmm! I find sexxxy ;)
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