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  • Ages 25–45
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Last online
Yesterday – 4:43am
Native American, White
5′ 4″ (1.63m)
Body type
Trying to quit
Other, and somewhat serious about it
Libra, and it’s fun to think about
Art / Music / Writing
Mostly non-monogamous
Has kids
Has dogs and has cats
English (Fluently)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
**NOTE** Please do us both a favor, and read my profile. I know its long and drawn out so you don't have to read everything, but you might want to at least skim through the imporant parts! There is pretty imporant information tucked away in this thing that you should probably know if you intend to actually message me. Thanks!
And now on to my novel!!

First off if i stalked you that means I thought you were interesting... if I stalked you and didn't actually message you don't take it personally I am super shy and more then likely my nerves got the best of me. Please feel free to message me ^_^

I honestly abhor labels, but they seem to be necessary in today's society society when trying to describe ones self. *sigh* So having said that if I HAD to sum myself up with labels I would say I'm a geeky, pansexual, polyamorous, genderqueer, freak.
If you don't know what one or more of those are you need to look them up before messaging me.

My gender, and dating preference changes frequently on here. (for examples sometimes it says I'm a female lesbian, other times it says I'm bisexual and male) The reason for this is because I know this site gives you the option to restrict who reviews your profile, and I'm not comfortable with that. I do not perceive myself as a male or female and they don't give a third option unfortunately.


I never know what to say on these things...hmmmm...
I am a huge geek and fairly proud of it... Star Wars, Dr. Who, D&D, VtM, Anime, Video Games, Comic Books, ect ect ect LOL.
I made the mistake of marrying a really good friend I had no interest in romantically. We still live together and he is one of my closest friends and I got a gorgeous baby outta the deal so i am ok with it lol. He and I are NOT together, and have NOT been for a VERY long time.

I have 3 kids so if you don't like that then just move on. They are 11, 9, & 6 years. They are my life and my world. They are my first and foremost priorities! ALWAYS! I will have to admit that having them has left huge blemishes on my body including stretch marks and other crap I just can't get rid of. I consider them battle wounds from 30 months of hell. If you have an issue with my post baby body you can just pretty much bugger off. The fact is I would not trade them for the world... They ARE my world! They come before ANYONE... whether that be friend, other family, or s.o.'s.

I also am owned by a small Zoo which includes 3 dogs. An apbt mix, a Lab/Weim mix, and a Catahoula Leopard Cur. I also have polydactyl cats, and a cat that only has three toes on two of his feet. Other animals include rats, chinchillas, and chickens. LOL

I am pagan... if you were going to classify my religion with a name it would be some where around the area of Faery Druidic. My faith is very important to me. I try to keep myself open spiritually however, and have an open mind and soul.

I am also a VERY avid rights activist for lots of different causes. Gender equality, many animal rights, human interest etc etc.

I have a soft spot for bikers. Growing up in a family of them will do that to someone. LoL I do tend to involve myself in a lot of charity rides, and help out whenever I can. I don't have a bike right now, but I am working on fixing that!

I myself am pansexual and believe that love should not be influenced by gender or gender identity.
I am gay, lesbian, bi (bi sexual), and trans (transgender both mtf and ftm) friendly. If you are not you pretty much just need to fuck off ^_^ Thanks.
I do have a soft spot for anyone who identifies with being masculine.
I am also very trans friendly when it comes to dating.
I don't think that people should be restricted or defined by their gender, or anything else for that matter. People should be looked at for who they are and not what they are, or what happens to be between their legs.
As I stated before I am polyamorous. This does NOT mean I am a swinger so please do not confuse the two.

After looking at this profile you are going to assume that I am a very social butterfly, and a downright chatterbox. This is NOT the case. I am actually quite shy, and reserved. At least in person. I blush easily, and hide my face a lot.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Raising three really great *quasi-evil* children lol. They are the light in this dull existence i call a life, but they are fairly demonic at the same time lol.
I am an avid animal rights activist, and I do alot of work with dog rescue, most bully breeds i.e. rotts, apbt *pit bull*, mastiffs, cana corso, ect ect. NO BSL! these beautiful breeds have been treated so unfairly by people and the media.
I also do a lot of work for gender and civil rights. I believe everyone should be looked at for who they are and not what they are.
I currently work as a photographer, and I am working to build my own studio. I have a nice portfolio and if you would like to see my work let me know.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
*Taking care of my children, and dogs.
*Video games, doesn't matter what game it is i pick it up and have it mastered with in an hour lol.
*Getting myself in trouble.
*Accents! Seriously give me 30 mins, and I can pick up any accent. Makes for awesome shenanigans, and role-play.
*Baking! I bake like betty f*@kin crocker ^.^
*Acting. Though I don't get to do it much these days.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Personality wise that im really quiet and reserved. At least till i get used to you or I get a couple shots of tequila in me. Then I am pretty crazy!
Physically it's either my chest (lets face it I have a rather large bust lol), my rather round derriere, or my piercings for sure are one of the first things people notice. I have 3 lip rings, snake bites and one in the middle all 12g, septum ring 14g, both ears gauged to a 9/16" (at least i think thats what i am at now LOL).
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
ok here we go lol this should be fun.

..I am a HUGE reader...Mainly sci~fi, fantasy, mystery combos, and horror.
Terry Brooks, Clive Barker , Anne McCafrey, R.A. Salvadore, Margert Weis, Peirs Anthony, Steven King, Anne Rice (particularly The Vampire Chronicles and the Beauty Series by A.N. Roquelaure-who is actully Anne Rice in desguise), Dean Koontz, Poppy Z Brite, J.K. Rowling, Laurell K. Hamilton,ect ect.
I am also a huge fan of graphic novels as well. Particularly ones published by Slave Labor Graphics, and all types of Manga. I really adore work from Jhonen Vasquez who created
Johnny The Homicidal Maniac (Seriously its not OVERLY weird that i find myself completely aroused when reading about JTHM is it? lol )
I love poetry! Robert Frost, E.E. Cummings, Emily Dickinson, and of course "The Master of Terror" Edger Allen Poe.
Oh and fuck twilight vampires and their sparklie no fanged asses... vampires do NOT i repeat do NOT sparkle.

Movies...I LOVE movies, huge movie buff! So much so that i named my three children after movies!
I mostly enjoy horror/sci-fi/fantasy/musicals/classical and anime! My favorite movies include, but are not limited to... -Willow, The Dark Crystal, Legend, The Crow, Bringing up Baby, The Philadelphia story, Breakfast @ Tiffany's, The Never-ending Story, Tombstone, As Good as it gets, 16 candles, Fast Times at Ridgemont High, Pretty in Pink, ( and all of those other 80s teen movies) Rebel without a Cause, LOTR, Harry Potter, Silence of the Lambs, Strangeland, Star Wars (particularly 4,5,6. I really like 1,2,3 though was very disappointed they focused so much on the special effects, and less on the story. I Have to admit though that episode 3 breaks my heart every time I see it. Its by far my favorite of the 3 newest in the series. I cry every single time i see it.I know its going to happen, but i cant help myself. I am such a girl. LOL), Natural Born Killers, Troma movies (ie for those of you who dont know Toxic Avenger *parts 1,2,3&4*, Sgt. Kabukiman N.Y.P.D, Tromeo And Juliet, I Was A Teenage TV Terrorist, Class Of Nuke 'em High*parts 1,2,3*, Bacon Head, Terror Firmer,Best of Tromadance*Volumes 1,2,3*, Cannibal! The Musical, Ferocious Female Freedom Fighters *parts 1&2* etc ect. The list goes on and on. Seriously they have made so much crap (most of it is litterally just crap by the way) Wanna know more? Then go rent a Troma movie. You wont be disappointed. B-Class movies for the win!!), Sid and Nancy, SLC Punks, MONTY PYTHON, Labyrinth, Another Day in Paradise, Hellraiser, Some Like it Hot, Princess Bride, Clockwork Orange, Requiem for a Dream, Interview with the Vampire, Edward Scissor Hands, Gummo, Julien Donkey-Boy, Pirates of the Caribbean, Sleepy Hollow, Benny and June,Cry Baby,Fear and Loathing in Las Vegas, Whats Eating Gilbert Grape, Corpse Bride, Charlie and the Chocolate Factory,The Addams Family, Little Red Riding Hood, The Oppiset of Sex,The Laramie Project Prozac Nation, Pecker, I Woke up Early the Day I Died, Bless the Child, Monster, Worse, I Love your Work, The Man who Cried,(ok now is it just me or is there a Jonny Depp/Christina Ricci theme here?), Willy Wonka and the Chocolate Factory, Casper, RHPS ( althouh i like live action alot more), K.I.D.S. , Lost Boys, But I'm a Cheeleader, Blue Velvet, Nightmare before Christmas, Goonies,-
-My top anime movie choices(FOR SURE NOT ALL OF THE ANIMES I LOVE! JUST A SMALL LIST OF THE ONES I COULDNT LIVE WITHOUT!)...Inuyasha: Love that Transcends Time, InuYasha: The Castle Beyond the Looking Glass,InuYasha: Tenka Hadou no Ken (The Sword of World Conquest)*3rd is best by far!*, Inuyasha:Crimson Horai Island, Blood: The Last Vampire, Escaflowne the Movie, Cowboy Bebop the movie, aka "Knockin' on Heaven's Door", Ghost in the Shell, Wicked City, The original Vampire Hunter D, Bloodlust, Cardcaptor Sakura the Movie, Macross Plus the Movie,Armitage: Dual Matrix, Akira(Not only one of the best animes EVER made but is also one of the BEST MOVIES of ALL time!), Princess Mononoke Kiki's Dilvery Service, Evangelion: Death and Rebirth and The End of Evangelion, Perfect Blue, Biohunter, Psycho Diver,Golgo 13, Appleseed, Gundam Wing: Endless Waltz,Ah! My Goddess the Movie, Patlabor the Movie One and Patlabor the Movie 3: Wasted 13,Black Magic M-66-
There are a ton more as you can see! I am especially fond of horror flicks ( b class ;) is the best!), and movies from the 40s-early 70s. Truth be told I prefer live action theater over anything.

I don't watch an over abundance of t.v. Mainly the history channel, A&E, SciFi, and Cartoon Network.

-Dr. Who of course! CSI (mostly svu) Bones, Supernatural, Killer Instinct, Dexter (I am a huge fan of Dexter Morgan <3!), Once Upon a Time, Face Off, I watch anything that comes on the history, Animal Planet, or the Discovery channel. Totally into pretty much anything on BBC, and have found myself addicted to In the Flesh! I NEED more!!!-
-Anime: Inuyasha, Gundam Wing, Samari Champloo, Full metal Alchemist, Evangelion, Blue Seed,3X3 Eyes, Cowboy Bebop, Outlaw Star, Tenchi Universe, Tenchi Muyo!, A.D. Police, Devil Hunter Yohko,Ushio and Tora, Burn-Up Excess, Science Team Ninja Gatchaman, All Purpose Cultural Cat Girl Nuku Nuku, Angel Cop, Hellsing, Cardcaptor Sakura ,Martian Seccessor Nadesico, Pilot Candidate, Full Metal Panic, Legend of Himeko, Robotech, Yu Yu Hakusho, Rurouni Kenshin, Lupin the 3rd, Trigun, Legendary Armor Samurai Troopers (or better known in America as "Ronin Warriors". I like the Japanese version only.), FLCL,.Hack//SIGN, Steel Angel Kurumi, Ecel Saga, Rune Soldier, Real Bout High School, Bubblegum crisis Tokyo 2040... You know what? I am going to stop there. I know there are more, and i am probably forgetting to list the important ones. However my mind is drawing a blank right now.-

Of course local bands and performers. SUPPORT YOUR STARVING MUSICIANS! LOL
Here is a small list of some of the stuff i listen too. Its not the full list by any means, but by this point I am sick of writing and I am sure you are sick of reading. If you are even actually reading all of this... more than likely you're scanning.
-Nine Inch Nails, Tool, Dimmu Borgir, MSI, The Left Rights, Less then Jake,(old) Marilyn Manson, Primus, Corporate Avenger, Twiztid, Blaze, ABK, ICP, KmK, Deftones, Hypocracy, Deicide, Portishead, Mushroomhead, Oysterhead,Radiohead, The Doors, Pink Floyd, White Zombie, blood hound Gang,Cannible Corpse, Type 0 Negative, 6 feet under, Sepultera, Cradle of Filth, Prodigy, Our Lady Peace, Rage Against the Machine, 36Mafia, Twista, Radio Head, Eminem, Ani DiFranco, Buddy Holly, Rage Aginst the Machine, Frank Zappa, Otep, Evanescence, The Cure, Stabbing Westward, Nirvana, Slipknot, Jimi Hendrix, Lords of Acid, Mc Chris, Tech N9ne, 3 6 Mafia, Linkin Park, Billy Idol, Fiona Apple, Sarah McLachlan, Sublime, Patsy Cline(my dirty little secret you all now know), Korn, Blue Oyster Cult, The Killers, Soul Fly, Lamb of God, The Cure, Kill Thrill, Cult, Dead Kennedys, Tori Amos,Kittie, Slayer, Pantera, Aphex Twin, The Vandals, (OLD) Misfits, BlackeyedPeas, Janis Joplin, Bjork, Audio Slave,Violent Femmes,ministry, NOFX, Jonny Cash, David Bowie, The Beatles, The Sex Pistols, Incubus, Skinny Puppy, KMFDM, Fear Factory, Sound Garden, System of a Down, Smashing Pumpkins, Primus, A Perfect Circle,The Doors, Pixies, Modest Mouse, Venetian Snares, Rancid.-
I LOVE 80s MUSIC! the music was the only good thing to come out of the 80s well that, alf, popples, and ME of course. I also have a special place for music from the 50~60~70z they really paved the way for music as it is today i always have probably always will and am especially fond of music from the late 60s to the early 70s. I always figured myself a hippie. Chances are I was was born into the wrong era, or was a hippie in a past life. --Above all of this I dig musicals. I love Grease, Les Mis, Rocky Horror Picture Show, Rent, Chicago, Phantom of the Opera... Really anything with acting, singing, and dancing! If i stopped to list all my favorites we would be here a while.--
I LOVE classical music as well. Actually its my drug of choice. No matter whats wrong a good Bach, Beethoven, or Chopin, always eases me.

I LOOOOOOVE FOOD! There isn't much that I don't like as far as food is concerned.
Italian, Meditiranian, soul, Chinese, Mexian, Tai, Indian, and I could just keep going on! Seriously I absolutely love it all! If i listed all my favorite foods i would be here all day so I will list what I don't like and cant eat lol. I don't care for fish, at all. I will eat tuna salad and that's it. I cant eat shell fish, because I am allergic so even if I wanted to (which I don't because it stinks) I couldn't touch it. I don't care for broccoli if its cooked, but I do like it raw. I don't care for spinach, or cauliflower, and i am allergic to coconut. I also don't eat much meat. I was a vegetarian for over ten years and slip back into it all the time.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
*My children, they are literally my whole world.
*My dogs they place second to only my children in my life.
*My goddess
*Game. Yes I am that bad. lol VtM, D&D, ect ect, I would be lost without it.
*My camera. ^.^
*Sex. There I said it. I am just that blunt.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
My children and what kind of future we're leaving for them. It's a terrifying thought.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Friday nights are my movie and pizza night with the kiddos, & pups.
If my kids aren't home I might be found hanging with friends at a club. If I go out its usually reserved for Saturdays.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I seriously dislike facial hair... like a lot. I mean I can tolerate a bit of it, but full beards I do NOT like.

Oh you want more?... Well I have been rather open this whole time so why not... lol

I am addicted to role playing... I mean addicted like some people are alcoholics... I literally need it every day. Mostly at night to help me sleep. I enjoy it like some people enjoy reading a book or watching tv. I don't even need character sheets and dice most night. I just really like the storyline. LoL There. That prove I am way over geeky?

More? Okie dokie!

I am weirdly attracted to Gordon Ramsey... Seriously. LoL I mean any man that can cook, be forceful like that, and be a huge asshole but still have an amazing heart is pretty sexy in my book... oh and the accent helps... a lot. LOL!

Even more still!?

In everyday life I am fairly domineering, but once you get me behind closed doors I'm completely submissive.
There. Is that private enough for you nosy people?
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You're a gamer interested in playing in a WoD, VtM, sit down or L.A.R.P. game,

A competent S.T. or DM,

Enjoy meeting new people,

Have a pit bull, or love the APBT breed

Want a play date for your large dogs or like dogs period.

You are LGBT or at least a friendly supporter.

You identify as being ftm, stud, masculine, or genderqueer.

Have tattoos/piercings or enjoy body mods,

You are pagan,

You are a natural red head. I love red heads lol

Own/ride a Harley. Crotch rocket owners need not bother... I like REAL bikes. HA!

Are Native American and/or appreciate the culture and understand well the massive injustice that has been done to the people as whole.

You can accept the fact that I am a complete freak. (if you want my fetlife username just ask)

You are okay with being in a polyamorous/open relationship.

You have an issue with homosexuality

Do not support animals and anti-abuse to them

Do not like dogs. Seriously I'm not kidding. Don't even bother. I consider my dogs my furry children, and would literally kill someone over them.

Have any kind of a sex offense or animal cruelty on your record.

Cannot speak properly! I honestly hate what Americans have done to the English language so do not use the opening lines for example: 'wut up', or 'yo'. ETC ETC and apparently I need to articulate myself by adding 'SUP', 'Wuddup', 'wutz crackin,' and many more to this list because the average 'OKC' user does NOT know what speaking proper English consists of *facepalm*

Do not appreciate the arts

Are a controlling Nazi like asshole

Are not tolerant of all people despite race religion sexual orientation etc etc.

You are looking for sex or a one night stand. I am not that person.

You are a couple looking for a girl for a night of fun, or a serious relationship. I don't do random invites, and sleeping with random couples makes me feel awkward. I have no problems with poly/open relationships. As a matter of fact I prefer them, but I always have to be the alpha (primary) partner in the relationship.