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  • Ages 18–40
  • Near me
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Last online
Yesterday – 2:18pm
Asian, Indian
6' 0" (1.83m)
Body Type
Agnosticism and it’s important
Working on Post grad
Doesn’t have kids
English (Fluently), French (Somewhat), C++ (Fluently)
My self-summary
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My name's Ravi or just V since it's all I listen for. As a note, I probably haven't updated most of this in a while. It's likely true, but some things are a bit dated, like tv shows that I like or music that I am listening to.

I've decided that instead of writing some huge essay here it's better off being just a quick list of things so I don't sound too formal. It's better to talk to a person than it is to read about them.

Things I like: Physics (I'm a grad student), Rock Climbing (It's awesome and I want to go all the time. Also, apparently caving is now something new (new to me, caves are pretty old) and interesting.), Video Games and some TV like House and 30 Rock and Battlestar Galactica, Programming (Not the most fun, but cool what you can do with it), Math (I'm apparently good at it), Cooking (yay for cool kitchen cutlery and gadgets!) and Mixology (Mixed drinks are fun to make if you have a friend to help drink the mistakes), Puzzles and Origami.

I don't smoke or do drugs. I don't have a moral stance against those things, I just think they're more of a hassle than they're worth. I don't have much of a moral stance on anything really, though I do have a logical stance on many things. It certainly isn't as simple as this though, since logic dictates a number of conditions that stem from social interactions... which happen to be based quite a bit on the moral stances of others. I think this is a topic for another time...

Things I don't like: Willful ignorance and loud noises. I believe most people in the world have the capacity for intelligence, unfortunately most of them also don't care to indulge in that capacity. (Note that this is wholly different from a person who does wish to learn but doesn't yet know enough make an informed decision.) As for loud noises, it's not that I hate them, it's just that I'm easily startled.

As a caveat: I grew up here (Michigan), so I don't have a foreign accent, and despite what I look like (and whatever ethnicity I've inherited from my parents) I honestly don't know much about asian/indian culture. (Of course, I do know a little bit about cooking that style of food, but any person worth their salt in the kitchen would be able to pick that up easily.)

I'm up for whatever usually though. So feel free to say hi.
What I’m doing with my life
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Finishing my PhD in physics.
Working for the big bucks as a Quant for a little while.
Opening a restaurant.
Writing software that works for everyone.
Designing a video game and programming it.
Writing a few books.
Go Rock Climbing and climb something awesome, like devil's tower.

Well, this is more a wishlist of assorted things than what I'm actually probably doing. The first thing is what I'm currently actively working on though.
I’m really good at
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Being logical. Also, honestly, almost anything that I set my mind to. However, I'm slow at everything.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Well, honestly I don't know. Probably that I'm different looking than the usual midwestern person.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books - Don Quixote, Atlas Shrugged, Mistborn Trilogy, Song of Fire and Ice.

Movies - I like movies, have a subscription to netflix and watch a lot of what shows up for tv on there. But haven't really watched that many movies recently. Favorite movie: Hero

Music - I listen to good music, it's a mix of pretty much everything. Yes, I realize that it's my opinion of what 'good' means. I tend to move in phases. Right now I like listening to Electronica mixed with R&B, kind of smooth chill music, and some mashups. Favorite artist: Sigur Ros or Pretty Lights.

Food - Italian style pizza. I've been making it at home recently. It's delicious. Beef Wellington is also one of my favorites right now.

- Playstation 3 - Little Big Planet, Rock Band, MGS4, Disgaea, Folklore, Assassin's Creed II, Demon's Souls
- A few computer games, MMOs, RTSs mainly, Supreme Commander
- Board Games like Carcassonne, Arkham Horror, BLOKUS!
- League of Legends
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Partial differential equations.
When I get to go climbing next.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Sometimes hanging out with some of my old friends.
Sometimes being boring and just sitting and staring at my computer.
Sometimes in Brighton with my brother and parents.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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Secrets are probably considered fairly private things, and I have lots of secrets, most of which are probably boring but it's to be expected, most secrets actually are boring.
You should message me if
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What am I looking for? I never know. I constantly change those little boxes at the side that say what I'm looking for. Friends are always good, a date would be nice too.

I'd of course prefer someone who could be all of the above, but honestly, I figure the odds are astronomical that they'd be here. Of course, you can't win if you don't play, and the expected value to cost ratio of those odds on a free website is still better than nothing!

Ok, so rock climbing is totally awesome. (No, I don't usually talk like a valley girl, but in this situation it's fairly indicative of how I feel about it.) Let me know if you want to go! I've been going about 3 times a week recently.