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38 Ottawa, Ontario, CA Woman


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  • Ages 35–55
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

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Last Online
Today – 2:25pm
Native American
5′ 7″ (1.70m)
Body Type
Leo, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Likes dogs
English, French, Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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I am smart, sassy, sexy, and now single.

I enjoy being active and having fun, hiking, impromptu picnics, snowshoeing, random adventures, camping and music festivaling (yes I consider it an activity!). I like sitting by the creek reading a book, playing with my god kids, and volunteering... life is actually about getting busy and living, and I do that, a lot!

I have an active life and friends- I have played golf twice- and both people I injured are now out of the hospital and fully recovered. So mini-put, a walk through the park, picnicking or the driving range are cool...and safe (Did I mentioned quirky and accident prone?)

I have my life together, have had wonderful relationships and have learned some unalienable truths about myself, my needs, communication styles, the ability to listen, to share joy and BONUS I have an idea of where I would like go with my life, even if the plan is fluid.

Ideally, you have had similar experiences.

You ARE totally into strong, confident, sexy as hell, smart women, who have a wicked fun streak. You don't mind being cheesy and romantic (snuggling!) and are looking for a partner to hang out with, travel together, laugh with and giggle (or glance at me and smile while I giggle) at something just we "get". You are confident, a good person and into being bad more than occasionally. You like to laugh, hang out, be able to have an intelligent conversation on a variety of topics and get to know someone. Ideally, you too are: active, in a good space mentally, financially (ish), emotionally and are able to communicate as an adult (this actually describes almost all of my close friends), and above else are looking to develop a long term relationship.

To be frank, I am incredibly honest, positive and happy. I love my life, my family and friends and I laugh with joy a lot...and that tends to be infectious. That joy and fun and general weirdness is what I am looking to share, to create a strong friendship and ideally something long term...cause the ideal is to actually build something meaningful!

If you are interested in the practical applications of intelligence and creativity in the real world = hot. You want to wrestle with some elusive cultural studies themes, explore the range epicurean delights or wander through a gallery of statuary together, discuss some esoteric topic ~ I am likely game.

If you've made it this far and are still interested then let's grab a coffee or a drink. If not, then I wish you the best of luck in finding that special one.

ADVANCE WARNING! If you have a problem with other races, gays, transgendered peoples, Jews, Muslims, Christians, Whites, Indians or in general any one who isn't like you with regards to gender, sexual orientation, disability (visible or invisible), kinks, or belief systems- Don't bother, I have zero tolerance for any sort of again NO TOLERANCE, just so we are clear. Cool! Later :)
What I’m doing with my life
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In the summers I am busy with music festivals (I am a coordinator for one). I love camping, dogs and weird things. And apparently now I garden...what can I say, I love fresh tomatoes, (and squash, lettuce, spinach, zucchini, eggplants- *Update- I garden poorly- salad, tomatoes and herbs there were in abundance, and one pumpkin survived my roommates attempts to help mow the lawn- but the lawn looked GREAT!!)
I have family I love, a chosen family I am actively a part in (I see my 4 god kids -same family- frequently) and a bunch of friends who are not replaceable.
Overall, I work at my strange awesome job, work out frequently, paint on occasion, write a lot, hang out with friends, pop into the ballet and then check out live bands. I like helping people and do that in many ways, but I am not into fixing people. I think that life is a marvelous freaking adventure that can always be improved- often by the right company! If I had the choice between bar and jam session, it would ALWAYS be jam session.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
COOKING! I love to cook...I like to eat...but prefer cooking!
I am great at making myself and others feel comfortable, at my place, at a party, at a the middle of a cyclone (true story!)
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
That's a tie between the heart and the libido...eyes or ..well you can guess :)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Sherlock, Grosse Pointe Blank, Breakfast Club, Despicable Me, Serenity, High Fidelity, Live Die Repeat, Maleficient

Simpler to list some of the authors I have read this month :) Charles De Lint, Scott Thornley, Jim Butler, Deborah Harkness, Alexander Dumas, Matt Huff.
And articles like this one....
OR I love number 10...but if you have time to do this shit, i wonder about you.....

Music: Hawksley Workman, The Mounties, Ben Fold, Nick Cave. Pomplamoose, Ben Caplan and the Occasional Smokers, Nina Simone, Drop Kick Murphy's, Dead Can Dance, David Grey, NIN, Metallica, Violent Femmes, Zoe Keating (who you need to listen to if you like modern classical), Yoyo Ma, Orff. NEW! The Huaraches (from Kingston) I love music!
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Camping - campfires please!
My Backpack\passport
My friends
My family
More it's learning guitar
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Local community building and cooking. Oh and planning benefits, parties, and adventures.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
With friends, at a cottage, at a concert, in a backyard (when the snow actually freaking melts), or hiding out (ideally with A friend a movie, or a fire) OR geeking out with something like Arkham Horror, King of Tokyo, Munchkin or Scrabble.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I floss.
You should message me if
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You like to laugh.
You know what you are looking for in a relationship.
You are looking for a relationship and a partner, not a FWB.

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