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27 M Salem, OR

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Last Online
Yesterday – 10:05am
5′ 7″ (1.70m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Atheism, but not too serious about it
Aquarius, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Art / Music / Writing
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay)

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My self-summary
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I hate these things as much as anybody else.

I study music and I enjoy it a lot, but there a lot of things I find interesting. I'm not going to say that I dont care what other people think, but I generally find myself outside of the social norm, and thus dont really care about lots of things that other people do. I dont enjoy being weird for the sake of being weird, but I do enjoy the awkwardness that tends to surface out of being myself... and observing how uncomfortable things like natural silence makes people for no real reason.

Things I like: Music, movies, good conversation, thinking about sociology, sunlight, sushi.... oh god yes, sushi. Sushi.

Things I dont like: melodrama, unnecessary stress, close-mindedness

I think hard liquor should taste like vinegar.

I strongly dislike text based communication, which makes this an odd place for me.

I am easy going, genuine, and thoughtful
What I’m doing with my life
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I dont know yet, but I think about it constantly. It looks like I'm getting back on track with music related things, which I was unsure about for a while.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I am very good at thinking about things. I spend a lot of time doing it and I suppose I am a curious person.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I really have no idea, and I never remember to ask people.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I really hate trying to pick favorites, so these sections have turned into "recent" lists.

Books: currently reading Outlander. Hot damn.

TV: Currently rewatching The Last Airbender (show!) with my roommates. Would like to start shows like The Wire and Mad Men but cant seem to make myself get going.

Movies: Saw Brave recently. It was a bit scattered but I like lots of things about it.

Food: Sushi, Thai, and Indian are all pretty swell.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
People that make me feel fulfilled


Time to think

Sun (yeah I dont know what I do during the winter here either)

I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Reasons for an utter lack of decent communication between members of the human race, how to solve the world's problems, lack of foresight, experiences and paths that make us into who we are, and... music. I think about music a lot. And not just music itself. Things like why we have to weigh music down with all these other connotations and define who we are with certain types of music and reject music we like because we're afraid of what other people would think. Also why this seems to force the classical music institution/community to have its collective head up its collective ass.

Uh, I also spend a surprising amount of time thinking about being able to fly. The answer to "if you could have one superpower..." is always flying. No question. I walk by a lake on my way to my car after work every day and it crosses my mind pretty much every time.

I also am probably constantly thinking about the ways that society determines the way people interact and I think that's weird. I also think about things like what makes people into who they are and how I believe a lot of it is about choice and desire rather than about inherent traits... at least more than people would want to admit. Not too sure about that one anymore though.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I guess it depends on the night. What doesnt matter to me so much as who, and I dont feel the need to make a big deal about the fact that it is a weekend evening.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I find it rather difficult to meet new people. It takes quite a while for me to get comfortable around others, and I strongly dislike having to "make an impression" on someone who has no idea who I am. I rarely feel like I "click" with friends.
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