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RavishingReader

33 F New York, NY

I’m looking for

  • Straight guys only
  • Ages 31–40
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Online now!
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 4″ (1.63m)
Body Type
Fit
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Agnosticism, but not too serious about it
Sign
Scorpio, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Other
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Pets
Has dogs and has cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), Italian (Okay), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Hello, men of OKC! Which books are you currently reading?

As my online moniker says, I am definitely a bit of a bookworm. But I totally counterbalance that with my deep love of travel, food, staying active, music, nature, and surrounding myself with family & friends.

A couple of my goals for this year are to add more adventure and new experiences to my life. I fell in love with these two quotes, "Saying Yes will take you places" and "If you change nothing, nothing will change". Trying to be even more of a "get up and go" kinda gal!

Fall is just around the corner and I'm excited to get into "cozy" mode. What's your idea of a great autumn-time date? I'll share mine if you share yours :)
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Absolutely loving my job! I'm especially lucky that my company hosts numerous complimentary social events, so I feel rewarded for a hard day's work.

I enjoy myself when I...challenge my 16-year-old brother to 'round the world on the b-ball court (he's only recently kicking my butt), plan awesome trips and outings (Iceland vs. Portugal later this year), do outdoorsy things like hiking and camping, dance the night away with friends, cook, realize that I'm finally getting stretchy through yoga, make new creations in my VitaMix, try new cuisines (ethnic food especially), volunteer/help people, lose myself in a great book.

My life wouldn't be complete without making time to be with my large family and small circle of close-knit friends!
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Lots of stuff like making people laugh, reading (a bit of a speed reader), ROCKING at Jeopardy & random trivia (especially movie quotes), playing sports, transforming whatever food is in my fridge into a gourmet meal, taking care of my plants, writing, giving massages, trip planning, finding cool restaurants to go to, being a good daughter/friend/sister.

When I drop something, I am able to pick it up a millisecond later before it hits the ground. That's right, I have cat-like reflexes...lol
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My haircut, my smile, my eyes.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Per my online moniker, I read A LOT. I hit my all-time record a couple of years ago with 70 books in a year. And of course I also like movies, TV, music, and most definitely food. I'm more than happy to discuss these topics on our first date!

Why you should date me:
I am kind, patient, introspective, a lover of books, art, medicine, nutrition, psychology, travel, music, gardening, and learning. I am reliable; a loyal friend; a loving daughter and sister; communicative; funny/silly; pretty darn smart; passionate; romantic; very thoughtful; a good cook. I love children and pets, as well as quoting movies and TV shows. I have a great memory, am kooky at times, and a lover of adventure and new experiences.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
- My health
- My family and friends (can I include pets too?)
- Sunshine
- Books (and my glasses/contacts so I can read them)
- Physical and emotional intimacy
- My diary and photo albums: my past makes me reflective
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
What to cook; current events; vacations I'd like to take; what I'm doing this weekend; how I can best reach my goals & dreams; growing my knowledge base about architecture, food, health, and gardening; my family; how to keep challenging myself; which books to read and reread; my future mate; and how I can be a better person who improves the world around me.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
either at the gym, happy hour, dinner, visiting my family, or in bed watching Shark Tank and 20/20 :)
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Let's play a game of "Never Have I Ever" on date #3...
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
you are open to change and new experiences...if you strive to be a better person every day...if you're looking forward to learning from me, as well as teaching me some cool stuff of your own...if you can make me laugh, show me that you are kind & generous, and are looking for a best friend/partner in crime to have adventures with.

Bonus points if you're the type of guy to give up your seat on the subway to someone who needs it more than you.