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29 M Oslo, Norway

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 11:40am
6′ 4″ (1.93m)
Body Type
A little extra
Atheism, but not too serious about it
Libra, but it doesn’t matter
Working on university
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t want kids
Likes cats
English (Okay), Norwegian (Fluently), Swedish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
What can I say, I'm a shy, introverted and quiet guy from Norway, I have a severe social anxiety disorder and borderline PTSD. That said, in the spare time I make closet music at home. However, I do spend most of my time at the University in Oslo where I study History, where, if I may say so, I'm doing significantly better than my peers. What I lack in social abilities I surly make up tenfolds in my intellectual capacity.

I regard myself as a bit conservative when it comes to relationships, I don't approve of polygamy or one night stands, or whatever's "in" these days. I am extremely loyal, and I expect the same trust in return. Some say that makes me extremely patronizing, I take that as a compliment if thats what the world has come to these days.

What Am it Doing here?
Well i like the tests!
What I’m doing with my life
These days I spend most of my time in the faculty of the humanities studying History, and there isn't anything else in the entire world that I would like to do more than what I'm doing right now. I want to become a researcher, or a teacher which is a nice thing to fall back on if I don't make it.
I have a fair interest in music making but this has certainly become a neglected priority due to my studies,

As i mentioned, i like to play guitar and make closet music in my own privacy.
Other than that i do keep a interest in politics, and I'm strongly opposed to discrimination in any from.

I also try to work out 2 hours a day, biking about 30KM so i can one day look normal.

I also spend a LOT of time thinking and interacting with cats, some people find it scary or disturbing, but I can't help it, put a cat in front of me and I'm 8 years old all over again <3
I’m really good at
You'll be the first to know once I find out...
The first things people usually notice about me
Very nervous and shy, my hair, my appearance, my weak high pitched voice.
Oh and i blush often:S
And I have a dead nerve in my left eye which results in me looking like a retard when i try to look to the left and only my right eye moves!

And my alter ego Awkward silence man which comes around like a winter breeze on a summers night to ruin a conversation and make you feel ashamed for even conversing with me.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Passion of the christ,Lord of the rings... ugh I'm terrible at remembering movies.

The Mars Volta,Genesis,Opeth,The Mars Volta,Dream Theater,Radiohead,Hiromi Uehara,The sound of animals fighting,Miles Davis,Pain Of salvation,Pink Floyd,Neil Morse,Porcupine Tree,Red Hot CHilli Peppers,Led Zeppelin,The Doors,Tool,The Fall Of troy,Jeff Beck,Deer Hunter,Rage against the Machine, The Beetles,Spock's Beard,Guthrie Govan,King Crimson,Peal Jam,RadioHead,Between the Buried and Me,CosmoSquad.

Oh yes, and I despise black metal, I have a hard time seeing anything professional in that genre.


The metamorphosis - Franz Kafka
A peoples history of the united states - Howard Zin
Sult - Knut Hamsun
Naken - Sigbjørn Obstfelder
Where eagles dare - Alistair MacLean
Bygmester Solnes - Henrik Ibsen
Spiraler - Dag Solstad
Pigen på anatomomi kameret - Henrik Wergeland
Smeden og Bageren - Johan Herman Wessel
The six things I could never do without
My Guitars.
My Macbook Pro
My Cat
Social Democracy
I spend a lot of time thinking about
I do spend an adequate amount of time thinking about how civilizations arose and fell, which social and environmental factors were involved and what sort of framework their thoughts centered around. Fortunately I am in a good position to explore these questions as I'm studying it.

Philosophy, I have a deep fascination of Immanuel Kant deontology, after having read his metaphysics of morals I have started to view just about anything in a new light.
On a typical Friday night I am
The same thing i do everyday, reading books, studying history, biking 30 kilometers. I am not a party person at all.
I do spend a lot of time "composing" but my skills are not very good, i have a hard time to make anything interesting for more than 1-2 minutes.
I guess it would be easier if i didn't have to be the composer,arranger,producer or whatever, sometimes my creativity falls victim to my self doubt too, i have a lot of projects that are more or less just a few seconds which was a phrase i thought would be a good idea but pretty much dies after that.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Im sort of overweight.

I don't know how comfortable i am rating people based on profiles and profile pictures.

I would prefer if you didn't slurp your tea or talk with food in your mouth.

I can't stand pot heads, so sue me.

I also feel that I've chosen the wrong instrument, sometimes we don't get along very well. Maybe I would be better off playing the piano, I love the instrument, I just don't have enough time to develop my skills on two instruments.

I'm extremely loyal, so when someone abuses that trust and plays games I get very disappointed and sad. Which qualifies me as a 'needy person', if you consider that a vice, Read no further please...

Some might say it's foolish to trust your partner 100%, but I disagree I think trust is a sacred virtue that you just don't mess around with. If you've previously been unfaithful don't expect to gain my trust.

I used to say: "I'd rather be disappointed than be cynical."

I consider myself a 'none practicing atheist", meaning, I do not believe in god however I will not try to convince anyone to leave their god, after all thats what secularism is about. Although I reject a deities moral authority as clearly invalid, I am still a moral absolutist, that said; I am still fascinated with the actual ethics in certain religions who's maxims can stand up to even the most intense philosophical scrutiny.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 19–39
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating
You should message me if
If you think we have something in common to talk about, and don't bother talking to me if you have condescending views on less fortunate groups of people in society: like the poor, socially inept or unemployable people.

I'll try my best ability to communicate as good as i can, but I take no responsibility if i bore you to death...

Or.. Let's just talk about cats.