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Razd_by_Str8ts

43 / M / gay / Single

Tulsa, Oklahoma

The Skinny

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Ethnicity
White
Height
6' 0" (1.82m).
Body Type
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating, Short-term dating, Long-distance penpals
Smokes
No
Drinks
Sometimes
Drugs
Never
Religion
Other and laughing about it
Sign
Libra and it’s fun to think about
Education
Working on Ph.D program
Job
Education / Academia
Income
Rather not say
Kids
Likes children
Pets
Owns dogs
Languages
English, French (Okay)

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I am eclectic, introspective, and wacky.

My Self-Summary

I think because of my practical upbringing, I tend to live a bit conservatively yet I appreciate the quirky and unconventional and I am open to difference. I love to travel and I have lived in a number of states--Hawaii, Texas, California. I also spent two years teaching English with The Peace Corps in Africa. I've also traveled to parts of Europe, Thailand, and India. I love good conversation and hanging out with people who make me laugh. If I had my choice of where to be right now...I would be trekking in New Mexico or Utah.

What I’m doing with my life

I am currently working in higher education administration and nearing completion of a doctoral degree, the combination of which almost leaves me brain dead! Please send brain candy!

I’m really good at

Talking and listening...reciprocating, in general.

The first things people usually notice about me

Hmmmm...shouldn't you tell me that?

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

The only books I read these days are textbooks...but I love Flannery O'Connor because her writing reminds me so much of the environment I grew up in. I also love Henry Miller's Tropic of Cancer because it reminds me of Paris. I also like reading Taoist/Zen poetry and writings for their clarity/ambiguity and quiet focus--the poet Thich Nat Hanh is a favorite. If you can find the thread that links these...please let me know. For movies, I like the classics...All About Eve...My Man Godfrey...The African Queen...The Women, etc. Those black and white movies could be so sexy! As for music...I tend to think in pictures and not words, so I don't like a lot of (English) words in my music--except for jazz from the 40s & 50s--very romantic! I like trance music, tribal music, Chinese music, instrumental music and Indian (as in India) music etc...

The six things I could never do without

Since I was in the Peace Corps in Africa, I have learned that you can live without most things, except other people (and water..and maybe some cous-cous).

I spend a lot of time thinking about

What I will do when I win the lottery! Actually, I'm pondering what I will write my dissertation on--I hope it isn't crap! I hope it gets published!

On a typical Friday night I am

Having dinner with friends, shopping perhaps, and maybe having a little drinky.

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

It's shay-kin-bake an I heulped!

You should message me if

You can see the big picture and it makes you giggle until you spit up just a little in your mouth.