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59 Santa Fe, NM Woman


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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 47-60
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 5:26am
Relationship Type
Mostly monogamous
5' 5" (1.65m)
Body Type
Special Diet
Judaism but it’s not important
Has kid(s) and doesn’t want more
Has cats
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I’m an intelligent, creative and passionate woman. I believe that life is a continual journey with many paths to be uncovered. It’s the mystery and discovery that draw me in, the wonder and the awe, the magic of connecting. I’m responsive, sensitive, receptive, genuine, sincere, and challenged to meet each day with integrity and spirit. I’m funny and witty, articulate and open-minded, secure in my beliefs, yet open to new interpretations.

I value… the people I invite into my life, relationships (of all sorts), family (mother of a great son), my career (financially secure), simplicity, complexity, depth instead of breadth, wisdom not just straight knowledge. Paradoxes and ambiguity don’t throw me, yet I expect courtesy, honesty, and directness in communication and will deliver the same.

I relish… feeling, laughing, solitude when I need it, companionship when I don’t, conversations that go on for hours - serious and silly, words and language, writing, reading, feeling the weather in all states (except grueling extremes), theatre, movies, dancing, quiet and fun-filled walks, sharing feelings with someone else, touching, being touched, languid nights and mornings, candles lit and casting shadows, textures brought to life through sensations.

I’m looking for someone to share living with…laughter and joy, intensity and calm, moments together and apart, mutual and diverse interests that bring us together in experience. I’d like you to share some of my sensitivities, yet don’t want a mirror image. I will embrace your interests, ask a lot of questions and enthusiastically join in most of the time. The nature of the connection will define the relationship if we’re willing to explore.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Enjoying summer and answering questions on this site, some of them are insightful, some just downright stupid (I skip those).
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
People, travel, laughing, working, parenting, thinking, talking, walking, hiking, biking, seeing and talking about movies, reading, playing.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My agile mind, sense of humor, generousity and kindness.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Book: Too many to list - I read voraciously and find something to like in everything I read.
Movie: Too many to list - favorite from 2012 was Lincoln.
Food: Everything but sauerkraut - eclectic and experimental.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Spending time with my son, not as often an occurrence now that we live in different states - especially his wicked sense of humor
My friends and family
A challenging career
My patio or balcony with a glass of red wine and the sun setting in the mountains
Chai in the morning
I think I'm at 7 but who's counting?
You should message me if
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You find any of who/what I am resonates with you.