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Readhead1

54 F New York, NY

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 12:01pm
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 4″ (1.63m)
Body Type
Fit
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Atheism, and laughing about it
Sign
Taurus, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Art / Music / Writing
Income
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t want kids
Pets
Speaks
English (Fluently), Italian (Fluently)

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My self-summary
For years I was the New York girl with a place in Montana.
Or was I the Montana gal with a place in New York?

One day I realized that I had to choose, and well,
Montana I love you - but give me Park Avenue….
And Lenox Avenue.
And Avenue C.

Now I'm looking for my next adventure, and hoping that someone can help me out with this….

I'd love it if the adventure was meeting a great man with enough in common with me and enough different to make things challenging - yet connected.

I have found that opposites often combine to make interesting
results.
Like in design (what I do) and ways to live, and sometimes in relationships.

And sometimes not.
I think it's important to have certain fundamental things in
common.

Like how you view the world, what you want out of life, not being a
morning person, loving obscure old black-and-white movies that no
one else has ever heard of, and having a sense of humor - or at least being able to appreciate one (mine?).

I like knowing people whom I can learn from, who surprise me and
inspire me.
Who are as interested in my ideas as I am in theirs.

But enough about you.

I love road trips and long books, cooking dinners on cold nights
with people I love, flamenco, interesting found objects, and smart
interesting people.

I have always been drawn to excitement, glamour, and calculated
risk.
Which may be one of the reasons that I'm doing this.

I have three basic requirements:

1. Someone I like as a friend.
2. Someone I respect as an equal.
3. Someone to whom I am wildly attracted.

Preferably all in the same person.

Beyond that, I'm not entirely sure, and am of course, open to
reasonable suggestions.

Men who are comfortable in their own skin are very attractive to me.

Intelligence, sanity, communication, and liberal politics are
at the top of my list - not that I have a list, of course.

God knows a sense of the absurd would certainly come in
handy.

Last but not least,
A man who knows who he is, knows how to be happy, and enjoys me immensely.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books:
I've been moving - I haven't read enough books lately.
That must change.
American Prometheus, The Elegance of the Hedgehog,
The Egg and I, Appetite for Life, Sex and the Single girl, among many others....

Movies:
The Stories We Tell (the only recent one I can think of), All About Eve, The Manchurian Candidate (original), A New Leaf, Tootsie, Monsieur Verdoux, Lawrence of Arabia, Godfather One and Two, The Misfits, North by Northwest, Herb and Dorothy, among many others.....

Food:
Excellent Italian food, Japanese food, French food, Indian food, steak, ice cream, falafel, oh hell all excellent food.
The six things I could never do without
Great fitting jeans, coffee, frequent flyer miles, friends, hair conditioner, work - in no particular order.
On a typical Friday night I am
I have no typical Friday night.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I am not always as direct as I seem.
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 52–65
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
You should message me if you find me interesting, and you are at least 45.
Enough with the emails from kids.