55 New York, NY
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My self-summary
I'm looking for my next great adventure, and a wonderful man will be a very big part of it.

For years I had a place in Montana, and lived both there and in New York City.
Then I just lived there.
Now I just live here.
Did I do this in reverse?

I'd like to meet a bright, successful man with enough in common with me - and enough different - to make life interesting.

Fun is important, sex is important and work is important - as is how you view the world, what you want out of life, not being a morning person (but if you are, don't wake me up), curiosity, having a great sense of humor or just being able to appreciate one (mine?).

But enough about you.

I love road trips and long books, cooking dinners on cold nights
with people I love, exploring places I've never been, and smart interesting people.

I have always been drawn to excitement, glamour, and calculated risk.
Which may be one of the reasons that I'm doing this.

I have three basic requirements:

1. Someone I like as a friend.
2. Someone I respect as an equal.
3. Someone to whom I am wildly attracted.

Preferably all in the same person.

Men who are comfortable in their own skin are very, very attractive to me.

And God knows a sense of the absurd would certainly come in

Not to be rude, but I am not interested in winks, favorites, obvious form letters, or in anyone under 40.
If I get any of those - I'll know that you didn't read my profile!

Last but not least?
A man who knows who he is, knows how to be happy, and enjoys me immensely.
The first things people usually notice about me
My red hair.
And my long legs.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
H is for Hawk,
Go Set a Watchman,
American Prometheus - biography of Robert Oppenheimer,
The Elegance of the Hedgehog,
The Egg and I,
Appetite for Life - biography of Julia Child,
Empire of Self - biography of Gore Vidal,
Sex and the Single girl.

Man on Wire, Youth, The Stories We Tell, All About Eve, The Manchurian Candidate (original), A New Leaf, Tootsie, Monsieur Verdoux, Lawrence of Arabia, Godfather One and Two, The Misfits, North by Northwest, Herb and Dorothy.

The Good Wife, Transparent, Orange is the New Black, Catastrophe.

Excellent Italian food, Japanese food, French food, Indian food, steak, ice cream, oh hell all excellent food. I can cook it too.
The six things I could never do without
Great fitting jeans, coffee, frequent flyer miles, friends, hair conditioner, work - in no particular order.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
What's next.
On a typical Friday night I am
I have no typical Friday night.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I am not always as direct as I seem. But I'm trying.
You should message me if
You should message me if you find me interesting…….