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54 New York, NY Woman


I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 52–65
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

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Last Online
Today – 12:01pm
5′ 4″ (1.63m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Atheism, and laughing about it
Taurus, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Art / Music / Writing
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t want kids
English (Fluently), Italian (Fluently)

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My self-summary
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I'm looking for my next adventure, and hoping that someone can help me out…..

For years I was a New York girl with a place in Montana.
Or was I a Montana gal with a place in New York?

A year ago I had to choose, and well,
Montana I love you - but give me Park Avenue….
And Lenox Avenue.
And Avenue C.

I'd like to meet a great man with enough in common with me and enough different to make things challenging.

It is important to have certain fundamental things in common.

Like how you view the world, what you want out of life, not being a morning person, loving obscure old black-and-white movies that no one else has ever heard of, and having a sense of humor - or at least being able to appreciate one (mine?).

I like knowing people whom I can learn from, who surprise me and inspire me.
Who are as interested in my ideas as I am in theirs.

But enough about you.

I love road trips and long books, cooking dinners on cold nights
with people I love, flamenco, interesting found objects, and smart interesting people.

I have always been drawn to excitement, glamour, and calculated risk.
Which may be one of the reasons that I'm doing this.

I have three basic requirements:

1. Someone I like as a friend.
2. Someone I respect as an equal.
3. Someone to whom I am wildly attracted.

Preferably all in the same person.

Beyond that, I'm not entirely sure, and am of course, open to
reasonable suggestions.

Men who are comfortable in their own skin are very attractive to me.

Intelligence, sanity, communication, and liberal politics are
at the top of my list - not that I have a list, of course.

God knows a sense of the absurd would certainly come in

Last but not least,
A man who knows who he is, knows how to be happy, and enjoys me immensely.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My hair.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I've been moving - I haven't read enough books lately.
That must change.
American Prometheus, The Elegance of the Hedgehog,
The Egg and I, Appetite for Life, Sex and the Single girl, among many others....

The Stories We Tell (the only recent one I can think of), All About Eve, The Manchurian Candidate (original), A New Leaf, Tootsie, Monsieur Verdoux, Lawrence of Arabia, Godfather One and Two, The Misfits, North by Northwest, Herb and Dorothy, among many others.....

Excellent Italian food, Japanese food, French food, Indian food, steak, ice cream, falafel, oh hell all excellent food.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Great fitting jeans, coffee, frequent flyer miles, friends, hair conditioner, work - in no particular order.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
What's next.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I have no typical Friday night.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I am not always as direct as I seem.
You should message me if
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You should message me if you find me interesting, and you are at least 45.
Enough with the emails from kids.

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