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Readingfool28

30 / M / straight / Single

Overland Park, Kansas

The Skinny

Last Online
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Ethnicity
White
Height
5' 9" (1.75m).
Body Type
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating, Short-term dating, Activity partners
Smokes
No
Drinks
Sometimes
Drugs
Never
Religion
Sign
Cancer but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Clerical / Administrative
Income
Rather not say
Kids
Likes children
Pets
Languages
English, Spanish (Poorly)

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I am absent-minded, straightforward, and trusting.

My Self-Summary

A self-summary, huh? Well here goes: shy, intelligent, creative, loyal, absent-minded, honest, goofy, exercise, reader, Royals and Chiefs fan, traveler, writer, cautious, listener versus speaker, family, joking, games, Irish music, fiction novels, imagination, dreams. When it comes to describing yourself, I think you should just describe what's most important to you. BS is for term papers. Honesty is for relationships.

What I’m doing with my life

I'm really enjoying my job. Hoping I can keep it :). I try to travel when I can. I head to New York and Phoenix each about once a year. I try to maintain a healthy body and mind. I think you need to keep both "in shape" to lead a healthy life. As you can guess by my name, I tend to read a lot. I read just about everything. I lean towards fiction novels, poetry, and philosophy books.

I’m really good at

Listening. Everyone needs someone to hear what they have to say. Sometimes that is all someone really needs. They don't expect you to necessarily solve their problems, they just want to get it out and know it doesn't need to hang over their head anymore or that someone else can understand their joy whichever the case may be. Simply talking with someone who is not waiting for their turn to speak can be refreshing.

The first things people usually notice about me

This is a tough question to answer. How can anyone really know? I suppose the first thing people would notice about me is my smile. All you have to do is smile at someone the first time you meet them and it can help put them at ease. It costs you nothing and is worth a lot.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

I could write on this list forever. I'll try about anything once. My favorite books are usually just series from different authors. So my favorite authors are Raymond Feist, Steve Lawhead, George R.R. Martin, Lois McMaster Bujold, Alexander Kent, David Eddings, James Doss, Robin Hobb, and David Gemmell. My favorite movies are Gladiator, Fight Club, Dead Poet's Society, V for Vendetta, and Green Mile just to name a few. I'm not ashamed to admit that I am a Harry Potter and a Pixar movies fan. I love all music, but I have a soft spot in my heart for Irish music; folk and rock. I'm a big fan of the Dropkick Murphys and Flogging Molly. I like all kinds of food; Thai, Indian, Chinese, Mexican, Italian, Ukrainian (had it in New York, awesome!).

The six things I could never do without

Family, books, music, friends, purpose, uh....oxygen?

I spend a lot of time thinking about

Far off places, dreams, imaginary locations, previous conversations, work, family. I am kind of a space case. Don't laugh, but sometimes I get up in the middle of the night and try to record my dreams before they are lost. I'd like to write a book someday and I think my dreams let my imagination flow.

On a typical Friday night I am

Hanging out with friends or family. I love seeing a good movie, but I like to try something unique every once in a while.

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

I have over 500 books in my apartment. Yeah, I really like to read, but I don't think I come across as a total bookworm. I like to exercise three times a week. I hit the Royals and Chiefs games when I can afford them and I have someone to go with. I grill with my friends on Sunday football games when the weather is nice.

You should message me if

You should message me if you have similar interests to mine. I like to chat with people and get different points of view. I believe that the more points of view you "collect" the more understanding you become.