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Readingissxy

25 / M / gay / Single

Astoria, New York

The Skinny

Last Online
Join Date
Ethnicity
White
Height
5' 9" (1.75m).
Body Type
Fit
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating, Short-term dating, Activity partners
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Sometimes
Religion
Buddhism but not too serious about it
Sign
Aries and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from two-year college
Job
Artistic / Musical / Writer
Income
Kids
Likes children
Pets
Likes dogs and Likes cats
Languages
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly)

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I am energetic, intelligent, and fun.

My Self-Summary

I am a pretty chill guy here. I have lived in New york for 3 years, originally from CA. I am very interested in people, and how they live, and how they view the world. Kind of a nerd. I love to read, work out, dance, solve the worlds problems through conversation, eat good food, take long walks, and listen to good music. I am looking for someone to go out with, maybe more.

What I’m doing with my life

Living, breathing, constantly remolding rethinking and improving. Oh, and I am an actor... I mean waiter

I’m really good at

Listening to people, articulating what's on my mind, being sarcastic, being there when needed, making people laugh, making my own fun.

The first things people usually notice about me

My personality. I like to make people laugh, and just generally have a good time. Physically: I have heard remarks about my eyes, and my ass. This is an awkward question.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

Books: East of Eden, The Clockwork Orange, The Year of Magical Thinking, Middlesex, The Virgin Suicides, Naked, Me Talk Pretty One Day, The Picture of Dorian Grey, The Hitchhikers Guide to the Galaxy, The Dhammapada, The Little Prince, 1984, Anything Rumi, and so much more.

Music: Radiohead, Lauryn Hill, Kanye West, Portishead, Jeff Buckley, Fiona Apple, Andrew Bird, Modest Mouse, Baby Charles, Kings of Convenience, Nick Drake, Nina Simone, Mark Ronson, Stevie Wonder, K-OS, Ella Fitzgerald, Erykah Badu, System of the Down, and waaaaay to many more to mention.

Movies: Little Miss Sunshine, Drop Dead Gorgeous, Death Becomes Her, When Harry Met Sally, Wall-E (and anything Pixar), The Color Purple, The Big Lebowski, Street Car Named Desire, I Heart Huckabees, Big Fish, any Muppet movie, Singing in the Rain...

The six things I could never do without

sleep
water
music
friends
dance
laughter

I spend a lot of time thinking about

The universe, my next meal, friends and family, and choreographing dances in my head.

On a typical Friday night I am

Hanging out with friends. Not a big bar guy

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

I know how to knit.

I run up stairs. I hate just walking them.

You should message me if

You like to have good conversation, laughs, and if you think I'm cute =)