Preferably to be with both of us, but not mandatory. Ideally long term, but again: not mandatory. I like women who look like women. Not so much the girlie/frilly type, but not too heavy on the boyish look either.
Oh and all the good men are taken? Fear not, you can borrow mine! I found a good one. He's taken NOW, but I'm so proud of finding him that I'm wanting to share my "wealth".