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47 Minneapolis, MN Woman


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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 40–58
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating

My details

Last online
Aug 5
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body Type
Other, but not too serious about it
Graduated from university
Strictly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently)
My self-summary
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I've been engaged and in some wonderful relationships but for logical reasons I have not yet married. You'll be to my liking if you're 40 to late 50's, and a hearthrob with heart.

Admirers say I'm lovely, vibrant, creative, a sharp dresser, smart, interesting, and a good conversationalist. I am discovery-oriented and live well within my means. I seek a financially stable and fairly established man. Someone unpretentious, like me, with integrity.

I'm family oriented and still open to the possibility of co-parenting. I love celebrations, events of all kinds, recreational activities, live music, dancing, traveling, cooking, dining out, and eating healthy. I enjoy nature, especially being on, in, or near the water.

I make a point to broaden my mind and awareness continually. I investigate topics of interest (current & world events, scientific, psychological, economic, etc. findings) and like a good philosophical discussion/debate. I equally appreciate any chance for laughter and am naturally silly when at ease.

I'm not on here to write many emails or instant message. I want to cut-to-the-chase and talk to select sincere, thoughtful gentlemen by phone as soon as it feels comfortable. Let's evaluate the potential of meeting face to face and see how the spirit moves us.
What I’m doing with my life
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I'm researching, networking and in the preliminary stages of co-managing a new business development. This service will benefit many members of MN educational organizations. As the service grows in popularity locally - it is likely that it will be expanded to other branches of the organization in other states.

Since I will likely be doing some traveling and exploring other metro areas, I am open to meeting men in other locations - as possible - unless of course - I become exclusively involved.

I participate regularly in various activity groups including discussion/educational, attending performances and socializing at various events. I am open to forming and growing more healthy, respectful, mutually fulfilling friendships with like-minded people.

I continue to practice living both peacefully and / or excitedly in the moment, enjoying as many moments as possible. I've learned to let go of things more, rather than let them eat at me. I know what I want and don't want, for the most part, in my life.

I'm continuing to become more empowered and doing my best to encourage others.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Selectively flirting, being in tune with others, readily putting people at ease and I'm respectful, taking plenty of time to listen and validate.

Improving at singing (Karaoke). A great deal finder, an idea-generator and a healthy cook.

Playful with adults and children. Very nurturing. An exceptional kisser and masseuse.

Lastly, I am extremely tenacious, very resourceful and eager to overcome obstacles.

I've many other gifts you'll discover when you get to know me ... as I'm sure you do!!!
The first things people usually notice about me
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My piercing blue eyes, beautiful smile, long pretty hair and shapely legs. My genuineness, openness and caring ways.

My confidence shines! My optimism and overall gratefulness is readily apparent.

Soon people learn I can accomplish amazing things by "thinking outside of the box".
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: Business books, various educational books, occasional novels and select personal growth/ relationship books every so often.

Movies: I especially like dramas, priceless comedies, romantic tales, stories with a moral to them, occasional foreign films & documentaries, thrillers and some action-packed, sci fi & animated movies.

Shows: I like aerial dance shows, live music & concerts, comedy shows and various artistic productions - including musicals & select plays. News/educational shows.

Music: I appreciate quite a variety, from rock and blues to classical, folk and jazz. Reggae is a kick and occasionally (especially when I'm in the "country"), I'll catch a bit of country-rock. My taste in music expands through my associations with others :)

Foods: My favorite type of food is Asian; I love seafood and meats, fresh veggie dishes & fruits, and yummy salads. I like very flavorful foods, sometimes spicy. I also enjoy (low fat?) Mexican and Italian meals. Sometimes I splurge by eating low fat ice creams, or sherbet.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Love (giving and receiving), close friends, sharp senses (all 5), good health, hope and happiness.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
how to make each day the best and how to plant seeds for a bright future which again, includes more compassionate friends and a beau who may evolve into a life-long mate.

I like to come up with catchy phrases to incorporate into items to enhance the business.

I get enthused about how new paradigms could gradually greatly improve our personal lives and the world.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Relaxing, cooking, sipping a cocktail, watching a good movie, hanging with a friend, being cozy with a special man if I'm seeing one.

Some Friday (or Saturday) nights, I like to go out to hear/dance to live bands, dine out, attend events, art shows, parties, potlucks, etc. etc. etc.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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It's not private - really - but I have an inversion table and like stretching and hanging upside down. It is great being silly and having some good belly laughs on a regular basis. If we click - perhaps we'll enjoy monkeying around together?
You should message me if
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you're intrigued with me, if you're attracted to me physically, value-wise, intellectually, "spiritually".

If you're handsome, kind, refined, well-spoken, fun, within my age category, and feel we might make a good pair.

If you're well-educated, (college or otherwise), confident and curious. If you're more liberal or middle-of-the-road (versus conservative) politically and otherwise.

Most importantly, I'm focusing on men who are especially relationship-ready and capable. If we click, I will fully appreciate you, treat you very well and likely, inspire you.

Please do not message me if you are emotionally unhealthy in major ways or if you don't look like your current photos posted.