Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I've been engaged and in some wonderful relationships but for
logical reasons I have not yet married. You'll be to my liking if
you're 40 to late 50's, and a hearthrob with heart.
Admirers say I'm lovely, vibrant, creative, a sharp dresser, smart,
interesting, and a good conversationalist. I am discovery-oriented
and live well within my means. I seek a financially stable and
fairly established man. Someone unpretentious, like me, with
I'm family oriented and still open to the possibility of
co-parenting. I love celebrations, events of all kinds,
recreational activities, live music, dancing, traveling, cooking,
dining out, and eating healthy. I enjoy nature, especially being
on, in, or near the water.
I make a point to broaden my mind and awareness continually. I
investigate topics of interest (current & world events,
scientific, psychological, economic, etc. findings) and like a good
philosophical discussion/debate. I equally appreciate any chance
for laughter and am naturally silly when at ease.
I'm not on here to write many emails or instant message. I want to
cut-to-the-chase and talk to select sincere, thoughtful gentlemen
by phone as soon as it feels comfortable. Let's evaluate the
potential of meeting face to face and see how the spirit moves us.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I'm researching, networking and in the preliminary stages of
co-managing a new business development. This service will benefit
many members of MN educational organizations. As the service grows
in popularity locally - it is likely that it will be expanded to
other branches of the organization in other states.
Since I will likely be doing some traveling and exploring other
metro areas, I am open to meeting men in other locations - as
possible - unless of course - I become exclusively involved.
I participate regularly in various activity groups including
discussion/educational, attending performances and socializing at
various events. I am open to forming and growing more healthy,
respectful, mutually fulfilling friendships with like-minded
I continue to practice living both peacefully and / or excitedly in
the moment, enjoying as many moments as possible. I've learned to
let go of things more, rather than let them eat at me. I know what
I want and don't want, for the most part, in my life.
I'm continuing to become more empowered and doing my best to
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Selectively flirting, being in tune with others, readily putting
people at ease and I'm respectful, taking plenty of time to listen
Improving at singing (Karaoke). A great deal finder, an
idea-generator and a healthy cook.
Playful with adults and children. Very nurturing. An exceptional
kisser and masseuse.
Lastly, I am extremely tenacious, very resourceful and eager to
I've many other gifts you'll discover when you get to know me ...
as I'm sure you do!!!
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My piercing blue eyes, beautiful smile, long pretty hair and
shapely legs. My genuineness, openness and caring ways.
My confidence shines! My optimism and overall gratefulness is
Soon people learn I can accomplish amazing things by "thinking
outside of the box".
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books: Business books, various educational books, occasional novels
and select personal growth/ relationship books every so
Movies: I especially like dramas, priceless comedies, romantic
tales, stories with a moral to them, occasional foreign films &
documentaries, thrillers and some action-packed, sci fi &
Shows: I like aerial dance shows, live music & concerts, comedy
shows and various artistic productions - including musicals &
select plays. News/educational shows.
Music: I appreciate quite a variety, from rock and blues to
classical, folk and jazz. Reggae is a kick and occasionally
(especially when I'm in the "country"), I'll catch a bit of
country-rock. My taste in music expands through my associations
with others :)
Foods: My favorite type of food is Asian; I love seafood and meats,
fresh veggie dishes & fruits, and yummy salads. I like very
flavorful foods, sometimes spicy. I also enjoy (low fat?) Mexican
and Italian meals. Sometimes I splurge by eating low fat ice
creams, or sherbet.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Love (giving and receiving), close friends, sharp senses (all 5),
good health, hope and happiness.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
how to make each day the best and how to plant seeds for a bright
future which again, includes more compassionate friends and a beau
who may evolve into a life-long mate.
I like to come up with catchy phrases to incorporate into items to
enhance the business.
I get enthused about how new paradigms could gradually greatly
improve our personal lives and the world.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Relaxing, cooking, sipping a cocktail, watching a good movie,
hanging with a friend, being cozy with a special man if I'm seeing
Some Friday (or Saturday) nights, I like to go out to hear/dance to
live bands, dine out, attend events, art shows, parties, potlucks,
etc. etc. etc.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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It's not private - really - but I have an inversion table and like
stretching and hanging upside down. It is great being silly and
having some good belly laughs on a regular basis. If we click -
perhaps we'll enjoy monkeying around together?
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
you're intrigued with me, if you're attracted to me physically,
value-wise, intellectually, "spiritually".
If you're handsome, kind, refined, well-spoken, fun, within my age
category, and feel we might make a good pair.
If you're well-educated, (college or otherwise), confident and
curious. If you're more liberal or middle-of-the-road (versus
conservative) politically and otherwise.
Most importantly, I'm focusing on men who are especially
relationship-ready and capable. If we click, I will fully
appreciate you, treat you very well and likely, inspire you.
Please do not message me if you are emotionally unhealthy in major
ways or if you don't look like your current photos posted.
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