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49 F Asheville, NC

I’m looking for

  • Straight men only
  • Ages 39–53
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Oct 17
5′ 7″ (1.70m)
Body Type
Strictly anything
Other, and somewhat serious about it
Scorpio, and it matters a lot
Graduated from university
Science / Engineering
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has kids, but doesn’t want more
Has dogs

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'm the sort of person who makes friends in the checkout line. I genuinely like people and have a knack for finding common ground with just about anyone. I'm "here" for a reason though and it's fair to say right up front that I'm interested in dating a guy who is reasonably fit, into outdoor adventure (at least a little), and who has a career or something he is giving to the world.... masculine yet caring and balanced. Intelligence is a must, smart conversation feeds my soul.

As for me.... I'm into adventure as well... travel, various outdoor pursuits, and outlandish escapades of consciousness. While I have enjoyed cross country skiing, biking, kayaking, and even ice climbing... I am not an overly sporty gal... rather adventurous and cuddly. In recent months I have enjoyed lengthy flat water paddles and some nice hikes. I value various experiences that give me the "wow I did it" feeling.... sometimes that's fixing the kitchen sink ;)

Enneagram 7 wing 8 - "The Enthusiast/Adventurer"
MBTI = ENTP "The Visionary"

I believe everything happens for a reason and like to look for the good in every experience, even the painful ones.

My spirit (thus spirituality) is important to me. My beliefs are always evolving as I grow and expand. I believe in the power of positivity and embrace a full range of emotions. I strive to live mindfully (strive is a key word here).

While I don't seek to "own" or control anyone and I am open minded, I am NOT POLY. I like to meet people quickly after making a connection on here.... explore being friends... and see if there is chemistry for more.

If you feel a connection, write to me and tell me what stirred your feelings. I'm a good listener and easy to talk to.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Being present and engaged with my two teenagers.
Taking care of my house and land.
Cleaning up abandoned mine lands and other hazardous waste sites.
Writing/illustrating... children's books and more (published and working)
Building "sanctuary" in my relationships.
Making Pots with dark chocolate clay and porcelain slip - kohiki style...
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
creating things.... learning.... figuring things out, solving problems.... listening & helping others figure out what they want and how to achieve their goals... finding the silver lining in a situation... thinking & living outside the box!
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My easy going nature, sense of humor & positive attitude... My Smile... My depth, insight-fulness, generosity
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books: Holographic Universe, Katuran Odyssey...
also - A Complaint Free World and The No Asshole Rule ;)

Movies: anything Mind Bending, really funny, or that makes me feel good and cry.

I don't watch TV very often and am happily clueless on many news stories.

Music: live music, jazz, rock, blues, irish-inspired jigs, flamenco guitar, reggae... I'm open minded but don't generally care for hard-country or rap

Food: I like spicy food (Indian, Mexican, Cajun...), Healthy - creatively done RAW food... I shy away from gluten, GMOs, and mass-produced meat/etc but don't carry a torch for any "movement"
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My brain & intuition....
My daughters...
Good friends....
Excitement/something to look forward to...
A little lovin'
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How the world works..
What I want to create in my experience...
How to incorporate a kiln in the heating system of a green house I am going to build,
The things I appreciate in my life (dogs, family/friends, natural beauty, travel)
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Hanging out with my daughters at home - snugglin with Kodi & Roxi (labradoodle and poodle)... doing some art or maybe watching a movie.
Getting ready for weekend adventure...
Going out with friends, enjoying live music or another social/artistic event.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I am an escape artist.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You enjoy having fun and value your life and your time here on earth! If you want to live your dreams - rather than just sleep on them.

If you have read my info, feel a spark of connection, and want to explore things.