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51 Asheville, NC Woman


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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 39-53
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 5:17pm
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
5' 7" (1.70m)
Body Type
Average build
Has kid(s) and doesn’t want more
Has dogs
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Because I am so self-sufficient - I want you to take the lead.

I'm an engineer - author - artist - ..... I value intelligence and touch!

If you are brave enough to make yourself vulnerable at appropriate times... to be "real" by not having to be "perfect".... if you enjoy hiking a nice ridge line or paddling a beautiful lake.... and laughing anywhere... on the back porch, around a fire perhaps.... ;) Please say hello!

I thrive on adventurous "wow, I did it" experiences. In the past that's included a variety of outdoor adventures.... lately fixing the kitchen sink has given me the same "I did it" experience.

I believe everything happens for a reason and like to look for the good in every experience, even the painful ones. For now I'd like to make a new friend and enjoy some lively conversation and share a bit of beauty thru experience. Ultimately I'd like to find a partner who is positive minded and "whole"... that is: complete in his own life, yet who is happy to join me in a common goal at times. I appreciate a man who is confident and aware.

I'm financially and physically fit..... not to say I'm an heiress or a hard-body, but I definitely take care of myself from the inside out. I'm excited to meet someone I feel comfortable with and who feels comfortable with me.

I'm very easy to talk to..... If you feel a connection - start a conversation!
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Being present and engaged with my two teenagers.
Taking care of my house and land... building tree houses
Cleaning up abandoned mine lands and other hazardous waste sites.
Fostering "sanctuary" in my relationships.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
creating things.... learning.... figuring things out, solving problems.... listening & helping others figure out what they want and how to achieve their goals... finding the silver lining in a situation... thinking & living outside the box! Google ENTP ;)
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My easy going nature, sense of humor & positive attitude... My Smile... My depth, insight-fulness, generosity
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books: Holographic Universe, Katuran Odyssey...
also - A Complaint Free World and The No Asshole Rule ;)

Movies: anything Mind Bending, really funny, or that makes me feel good and cry.

I don't watch TV very often and am happily clueless on many news stories.

Music: live music, jazz, rock, blues, irish-inspired jigs, flamenco guitar, reggae... I'm open minded but don't generally care for hard-country or rap

Food: I like spicy food (Indian, Mexican, Cajun...), Healthy - creatively done RAW food... I shy away from gluten, GMOs, and mass-produced meat/etc but don't carry a torch for any "movement"
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My brain & intuition....
My daughters...
Good friends....
Excitement/something to look forward to...
A little lovin'
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
lots of things...
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Often on Fridays I go to a local "cheers style" pub and hang out with my good friends (mostly couples) and later crawl to one of Asheville's amazing restaurants, somehow end up with a great table despite no reservation, enjoy dinner and conversation until late, walk through downtown and drive back up the mountain to collapse in bed alone. Sigh....
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I am an escape artist.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You enjoy having fun and value your life and your time here on earth! If you want to live your dreams - rather than just sleep on them.

If you can appreciate a curvy girl who is able, adventurous, and active - but not a hard-body. And especially if you are a hard-body - because the meshing of contrasting textures, flavors, energy ... is nice.

If you have read my info, feel a spark of connection, and want to explore things.