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50 Asheville, NC Woman


I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 39–53
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

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Last Online
Yesterday – 3:36pm
5′ 7″ (1.70m)
Body Type
Strictly anything
Scorpio, and it matters a lot
Graduated from university
Science / Engineering
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has kids, but doesn’t want more
Has dogs

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My self-summary
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Merry Holiday.... happy yule..... best wishes for an incredible ride in 2015!

I'm a low match (most likely) because after rethinking what info I want to share with just anyone on the web and what I want to share via direct experience.... I cleared all my answers *Grin* Once again I am a woman of mystery and you have to earn the right to know some of my "secrets" ha ha ha

I'm a laid-back, easy going lady. ENTP - the inventor; Enneagram 7 - enthusiastic adventurer

If you enjoy dining out, socializing with friends, live music, hiking a nice ridge line or paddling a beautiful lake.... and laughing anywhere... on the back porch, around a fire perhaps.... ;) Please introduce yourself!

) I like to connect, be supportive, and present! I value touch and thrive on adventurous "wow, I did it" experiences. Sometimes that is fixing the kitchen sink.

I believe everything happens for a reason and like to look for the good in every experience, even the painful ones. Ultimately I'm looking for a partner who is positive minded and "whole"... that is: complete in his own life, yet who is happy to fly with me from time to time. I appreciate a man who is confident enough to take the lead - and aware enough to look for ques when steering. Having said that, for now I want to explore a friend connection - and enjoy the natural unfolding of things.

I'm very easy to talk to..... If you feel a connection - start a conversation!
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Being present and engaged with my two teenagers.
Taking care of my house and land.
Cleaning up abandoned mine lands and other hazardous waste sites.
Building "sanctuary" in my relationships.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
creating things.... learning.... figuring things out, solving problems.... listening & helping others figure out what they want and how to achieve their goals... finding the silver lining in a situation... thinking & living outside the box!
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My easy going nature, sense of humor & positive attitude... My Smile... My depth, insight-fulness, generosity
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books: Holographic Universe, Katuran Odyssey...
also - A Complaint Free World and The No Asshole Rule ;)

Movies: anything Mind Bending, really funny, or that makes me feel good and cry.

I don't watch TV very often and am happily clueless on many news stories.

Music: live music, jazz, rock, blues, irish-inspired jigs, flamenco guitar, reggae... I'm open minded but don't generally care for hard-country or rap

Food: I like spicy food (Indian, Mexican, Cajun...), Healthy - creatively done RAW food... I shy away from gluten, GMOs, and mass-produced meat/etc but don't carry a torch for any "movement"
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My brain & intuition....
My daughters...
Good friends....
Excitement/something to look forward to...
A little lovin'
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How the world works..
What I want to create in my experience...
How to incorporate a kiln in the heating system of a green house I am going to build,
The things I appreciate in my life (dogs, family/friends, natural beauty, travel)
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Hanging out with my daughters at home - snugglin with Kodi & Roxi (labradoodle and poodle)... doing some art or maybe watching a movie.
Getting ready for weekend adventure...
Going out with friends, enjoying live music or another social/artistic event.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I am an escape artist.
You should message me if
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You enjoy having fun and value your life and your time here on earth! If you want to live your dreams - rather than just sleep on them.

If you have read my info, feel a spark of connection, and want to explore things.

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