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RealHonestMan

38 M Las Vegas, NV

I’m looking for

  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 25–50
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 4:56pm
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
A little extra
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Never
Religion
Other, but not too serious about it
Sign
Libra, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Working on university
Job
Medicine
Income
$20,000–$30,000
Relationship Status
Open relationship
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t want kids
Pets
Has dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), Japanese (Poorly), Sign Language (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I never know what to say in these things. I don't know if anyone really does. I will give it my best, but the best way to get to know me is to meet me. Till then....

I guess like my profile name says, I'm honest. Honest to a fault. Not in a cruel way, but I won't bullshit ya or play with your emotions. I'm also blunt with what I want in life and what I'm looking for. I'm a helpless romantic that wears his heart on his sleeve. I have no problem sharing or showing my emotions. At the same time, I'm not some blathering emotional roller coaster.

I'm a bit of a homebody. I like to relax when I'm not working. Be it relaxing in front of my computer playing a online game or curled up on the sofa watching a movie or TV series. I do consider myself a foodie and love to go out to dinner, especially if it's to try some place new. I'm also not to shabby of a cook and I like to show off my skills in the kitchen as well.

Now I'm not to much into club hopping and going out and getting completely wasted. I don't mind going to a local bar with a few friends and have a cocktail or two or going to one of the themed parties some of my friends hold, but I don't need to get wasted to have a good time. So if seeing how much you can drink before you spew or passout sounds like a good-time, then I'm not the guy for you.

What I'm looking for I think is pretty simple, but to find it simply is impossible, or at least improbable. I am wanting a long term relationship. BUT I know to get there it takes time. So realistically, I'm hoping to find a really good friend to hangout with, go out to dinner maybe a movie, curl up on the sofa and laugh at some romantic comedy. Someone to spend time with to build into a long loving relationship.

Now you need to know and understand, that I am in a polyamorous marriage. Yes, I am married and I love my wife. No, we're not swingers. Yes, my wife know's I have this account, she has one on here too. No, I'm not asking you to join us in 3some. I'm just asking that you have an open mind and get to know me. The worse thing is you make a new friend. :-)
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Not working as a bouncer / DJ any more! YAY!! I worked in the club / strip club industry for way to long. I'm now a house manager for a alcohol/drug rehab program. I find it very rewarding due to getting to help people that are lost/sick and looking to get better. These are not people that can just go out, have a couple of drinks and have a good time. These are people that don't know how to or can't stop till they're either passed out, in jail or in the hospital. I'm also going to college and working towards eventually getting my master's degree in Behavioral Science. I want to eventually become a counselor to help people even more so. I'm also raising my 17 year old sister. Which thankfully she's pretty independent and a really good kid! I'm also working on loosing weight. I've actually lost 45 lbs so I'm feeling pretty good about myself and looking to loose just a little bit more.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Listening
Talking
Playing games
Training dogs
Cooking
Giving massages
Making people feel comfortable
Music and Movie Trivia
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My smile, broad shoulders, eyes, and butt. Or so I've been told.

A lot of people first see me and think I'm some big scary guy, then they talk to me and get to know me and then think I'm just a big teddy bear. :-)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Wow: I can't put everything here because the list would be never ending, but I will try to name a few.

Books: Harry Potter series. Drizzit series. Dresden Files series. Anita Blake series. Incantations of Immortals series. Most things written by H.P. Lovecraft, Christen Golden, James Patterson, Clive Barker, R.A. Salvatore.

Movies: The Crow, Repo The Genetic Opera, Rocky Horror Picture Show, Truth about Cat's and Dogs, American Beauty, Blues Brothers, Avengers, American History X, The Green Mile, Stardust, Ironman, Nightbreed, anything with Jet Li or Jackie Chan, The King & I, Shogun, American Pie series, Conan, Unusual Suspects, Brotherhood of the Wolf, Choke, I Now Pronounce You Chuck and Larry, Boondock Saints, Lord of the Rings series, Harry Potter series, House of 1000 Corpses, Grindhouse, Machete, Paint Your Wagon, Seven Brides for Seven Brothers, and so many many more!!!

Shows: House of Cards, Family Guy, Once Upon a Time, Justified, Deadwood, Charmed, Torchwood, Breaking Bad, Sons of Anarchy, Dexter, True Blood, South Park, Game of Thrones, and more.

Music: 50 Cent, 311, AC/DC, Aerosmith, Alice in Chains, B.B. King, Big Daddy Kane, Billy Joel, Black Eyed Peas, Black Sabbath, Bloodhound Gang, Korn, Godsmack, Disturbed, DMX, Jay Z, Notorious B.I.G., Ludacris, Live, ZZ Top, CCR, Journey, Muddy Waters, Elton John, and again the list can go on & on!

Food: Sushi and Dim Sum! All types of Asian food, Italian, Greek, Mediterranean, Indian. I eat MEAT! Cow, pig, chicken, deer, lamb, buffalo, and probably any other kind. My dream job would be to be like Anthony Bourdain or Andrew Zimmern and travel the world eating food and getting paid for it. LOL
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1) Food
2) My dogs
3) My computer
4) My phone
5) Laughter
6) Love
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
I'm a guy with a working penis... of course I think about sex!
Now on to more important and funnier things!

I think about my future, and becoming a counselor/therapist.
I think about my family, dogs, and friends.
I think about what my wants and needs are.
I think about the zombie apocalypse or how the world is going to end. This is more so for entertainment purposes.
I think about what I would do if I ever won the mega millions and where I would go and how I would fix up my house, etc...
I think about the state of this country and world.
I think about how behind our culture is as a country.
I think about philosophy and religions and science.
I think about why I wasn't born with a super power and if I had been would I use it for good or for my own selfish greed.
I think about why are there so many people out there that try to be something their not just to impress others.
I think about why can't people just be honest about what they want.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I actually have Fridays off, so normally either I'm playing around on the computer, spending time with my wife and/or sister, or watching a movie, or going out for sushi or something. If you want to join or come up with something better and want me to join ya, just ask.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm not very private. Ask me anything and I'll tell ya. Just remember, I live by the quote, "Don't ask me questions you don't want answers to." Reason being is I will tell you the truth.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
If you're a gamer. If you are looking for a new friend. If you're capable of having and intelligent conversation. If you have emotions and are capable of caring about someone other than yourself. If you have an open mind! If you are clean, honest, fun, and have a good sense of humor. If you have a skill that will be useful for the zombie apocalypse! If you think you have what it takes to be a good minion. If you are Oprah rich and want to take care of me! If you understand what being a smartass is! :-P