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28 East Peoria, IL Man


I’m looking for

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  • Ages 23–30
  • Near me
  • For new friends, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Jan 13
5′ 7″ (1.70m)
Body Type
Strictly anything
Scorpio, but it doesn’t matter
Working on university
Relationship Status
Open relationship
Relationship Type
Mostly non-monogamous
Has a kid, and might want more
Has dogs and has cats

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My self-summary
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I'm a bisexual polyamorous techno-wierdo. I'm currently in non-monogamous world-defining relationships with two beautiful women who are the lights of my life. We have some difficulty thinking of our arrangement as a single thing ("triad", what have you), so we choose to define it as three interconnected pairings. At the moment I can't say I'm looking for anything beyond good conversation, but occasionally some highly interesting person will make my mind do loop-de-loops. A few of them are on OKC I daresay.

I'm not heterosexual at all; my relationships just happen to be expressed like that right now.

I enjoy art; artsy displays, artsy paintings, artsy writing. The art of movies, the art of music. The art of video games. Yes, I did say that last thing.

I'm not well-versed in any of it. I could tell you a lot about a little amount of things. But I could write it very intensely for you. I could paint a luminous image in your mind yet only with squiggles.

Video games are a large part of my identity and I take them seriously as a narrative form.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I have a son, and I want to be a good father. Need I say more? He needs to know some things and the rest of the world's fuckheads are woefully inadequate to teach him.

Attending ICC to transfer to ISU for a compsci degree, focus Java programming. Trying to find a shitty little job to carry me through it.

I've been listening to Kevin Smith's Fatman on Batman podcast a lot, and it's caused me to begin rewatching old (and newer) Batman cartoons and reading the comics. I am enamored of the modern mythology of the superhero.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Performing my own PC maintenance. Writing. Thinking myself out of the box, but then back into another one. Feeling claustrophobic. I think I'm alright at understanding others.

I am passably good at:
Jokes (+2 nerd jokes)
Modding for Zandronum (Multiplayer Doom port)

I am learning:
The first things people usually notice about me
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I twitch a lot, and I have superior hair growth genetics.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: Murakami, Pratchett, McCaffery, Lovecraft, Robert Howard, Robert Forward, Asimov, George R. R. Martin, LOTR and derivative works.

Movies: Kurosawa, Miyazaki, Ahnuld Schwarzenegger science fiction, as well as Junior; Lost In Translation, Braveheart, Land Before Time, Mrs. Doubtfire. The Life Aquatic With Steve Zissou.

Music: Nightwish, Sonata Arctica, Tarot, Charon, Kamelot, After Forever, Celesty, Korpiklaani, Mandragora Scream.

For TV I generally obsess over anything that was shown on Cartoon Network and Nickelodeon during the 90's. I have watched a few HBO dramas and insomnia-drunkenly marathon'd Battlestar Galactica. I'm about to go on a binge of the Beetlejuice cartoon. I also am a huge fan of the DC Animated Universe.

I value music, and I really enjoy the art and composition of it. But I don't know much about bands and I have limited exposure. People who can make music fascinate me and I want to pick their brains. It's a language I desperately wish I understood.

Food: Eh, anything. I do overwhelmingly prefer protein, peppers, tomatoes, squash, bananas, blueberries. Beefsteak rye is the tastiest bread. I generally dislike fried food but I am not innocent of the McDonalds Zeitgeist.

Videogames: I like sidescrolling platformers and sidescrolling adventures; classics such as your Marios and your Dankey Kangs and Castlevanias, along with some oddities here and there – recently Battleblock Theatre, Risk of Rain. I enjoy multiplayer bizarro-fests; Dokapon Kingdom, Smash Bros.. RPGs and FPSes though both of the older variety. I spend an inordinate amount of time researching the history of games and I enjoy perusing the archives for undiscovered things. It is sort of an unstated passion (because no one in my social circles takes the medium seriously). I have not purchased anything in the current gen and of the last gen I only own a Wii – video games are a luxury hobby and the expense has become too great for too little payoff. I generally buy cheaper steam games and free yohoho and mods. The well of experience in the gaming world is deep and the high price tags clutter the surface of the water, blocking the sun from reaching the gems at the bottom where they would just sparkle. Bask them in the light of your attention and they will not disappoint.

Tabletop Gaming: GURPS, D&D, Warhammer, CoC, Mordheim
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
-An awesome group of friends that have been keeping in touch since Junior High
-My son
-The free time to (try and) create
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Projects I am working on.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Friday isn't equivalent to the party night for me. On my day off I probably get people together to play video games. On every other weekend I play with my son. The rest of the time I'm trying to fuck, drink, and smoke my way to an early grave.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I'm a chameleon,, and an embarrassingly clumsy one at that.
You should message me if
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I like friendships, and I like them complicated and nebulous. Don't ask me why. It's actually not a common thing to like it seems!