Hello, there. I'm Clare. I'm probably a lot more complex than one of these little self summary thingies could convey, but I'll risk it. I'm a weird little Irish girl with tendencies toward geekdom, general creativity and I love music. I try to write when I can and I like to doodle. I read lots (and lots), drink lots of tea and I knit voraciously. Behind closed doors, I'm a very sensual little animal and I am not exactly monogamous but I believe that everyone's body and heart is theirs to do with as they will and that sex should not get in the way of emotional love. If it's meant to be and I love my partner, that could change. I want to be someone's someone special.
ISFJ, if you're into that sort of thing.
Message me if you want more specific information.
Oh, so as not to put you off, the Personality thing on here has made me out to be a massive druggy. This isn't in fact the case. I'm actually loving, quite passive and snuggly if given the chance.
Some things to bear in mind, if you want to talk to me
There are quite a few of these but they are worth it. All of them. I only write these here because I'm sick of the lobotomised gibbons on here who think they can talk me into bed when they haven't actually bothered to read what I've written here. I'm not as bossy as I sound, but I need to be clear about some things.
If you didn't read my profile, I'm simply not going to talk to you. It's not happening. I am more than photos.
I realise that talking to a woman in control of her sex drive might be exhilarating for you, but I'm not on here just looking for sex. Just sex doesn't really do it for me anymore, I kinda need something more. Approach me like the lady I am and treat me as such. Chivalry isn't a necessity but politeness is.
No, your dickture doesn't turn me on. Please put it away.
As a strident feminist, if you first message me and call me "cutie/ sexy/ baby/ hotty/ doll" or anything else of that nature, I'm blocking you. Simple as.
Northern Irish folks are probably not going to have much of a chance. I don't not like people from here, but it's just I'm not going to be here very long and I don't think I'd be able to have a proper relationship in just a few months. NI people for friends, but not partners. Sorry =(
I CANNOT STRESS THIS ENOUGH: NO RANDOMERS.
I vet the people I chat to meticulously. I do not appreciate people randomly coming at me on chat. Message me first and I will consider talking to you, but jumping at me on chat without warning? Not cool. You will be instantly blocked. I will not say this again. It's just rude.
Incidentally, someone has just messaged me complaining about this point^^. MY PROFILE, MY RULES. If you think I'm going to lower my standards for someone, especially someone who can't even be bothered to fill out their profile properly, you are absolutely wrong. Those who think I'm worth it are welcome to message and have a conversation with me. That's fine. Otherwise, it feels like you're being jumped. I deserve better than that.