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24 F Edinburgh, United Kingdom

My Details

Last Online
Mar 30
5′ 4″ (1.63m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Buddhism, and laughing about it
Taurus, and it’s fun to think about
Working on two-year college
Art / Music / Writing
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids
Likes cats
English (Fluently), Irish (Okay), Japanese (Poorly), Spanish (Okay)

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My self-summary
You know it kills me to see such a pretty girl so tired<3

Hello, there. I'm Clare. I'm probably a lot more complex than one of these little self summary thingies could convey, but I'll risk it. I'm a weird little Irish girl with tendencies toward geekdom, general creativity and I love music. I try to write when I can and I like to doodle. I read lots (and lots), drink lots of tea and I knit voraciously. Behind closed doors, I'm a very sensual little animal and I am not exactly monogamous but I believe that everyone's body and heart is theirs to do with as they will and that sex should not get in the way of emotional love. If it's meant to be and I love my partner, that could change. I want to be someone's someone special.

ISFJ, if you're into that sort of thing.

Message me if you want more specific information.

Oh, so as not to put you off, the Personality thing on here has made me out to be a massive druggy. This isn't in fact the case. I'm actually loving, quite passive and snuggly if given the chance.

Some things to bear in mind, if you want to talk to me

There are quite a few of these but they are worth it. All of them. I only write these here because I'm sick of the lobotomised gibbons on here who think they can talk me into bed when they haven't actually bothered to read what I've written here. I'm not as bossy as I sound, but I need to be clear about some things.

If you didn't read my profile, I'm simply not going to talk to you. It's not happening. I am more than photos.

I realise that talking to a woman in control of her sex drive might be exhilarating for you, but I'm not on here just looking for sex. Just sex doesn't really do it for me anymore, I kinda need something more. Approach me like the lady I am and treat me as such. Chivalry isn't a necessity but politeness is.

No, your dickture doesn't turn me on. Please put it away.

As a strident feminist, if you first message me and call me "cutie/ sexy/ baby/ hotty/ doll" or anything else of that nature, I'm blocking you. Simple as.

Northern Irish folks are probably not going to have much of a chance. I don't not like people from here, but it's just I'm not going to be here very long and I don't think I'd be able to have a proper relationship in just a few months. NI people for friends, but not partners. Sorry =(


I vet the people I chat to meticulously. I do not appreciate people randomly coming at me on chat. Message me first and I will consider talking to you, but jumping at me on chat without warning? Not cool. You will be instantly blocked. I will not say this again. It's just rude.

Incidentally, someone has just messaged me complaining about this point^^. MY PROFILE, MY RULES. If you think I'm going to lower my standards for someone, especially someone who can't even be bothered to fill out their profile properly, you are absolutely wrong. Those who think I'm worth it are welcome to message and have a conversation with me. That's fine. Otherwise, it feels like you're being jumped. I deserve better than that.
What I’m doing with my life
I'm a professional musician and I play in an internationally touring band called Scream Blue Murmur (go listen to me here ** I'm the lead saxophonist). I'm originally from Belfast, but in September I moved to Edinburgh to study Psychology, so I can be a music therapist (plus forensic psychology fascinates me). On top of that, I really hope to travel one of these days. I have a lot of places I want to go. I have recorded two rather spanky EPs (If I do say so, myself) and am working on another. I also knit accessories and sell them online, I bake unorthodox things (sometimes inside other unorthodox things) and I might be possessed to doodle from time to time. I gather that my life is quite interesting by the standards of most, but it's made me who I am and I couldn't live any other way. A free spirit with an attitude problem =P

As of recently, I'm also a blogger (

My path is a mix of Shinto, Buddhism and Thelema. Odd, I know. But it works for me and makes me happy. And that's what matters in the end, right?
I’m really good at
Knitting, playing the piano, cooking, baking, rolling a really nice spliff, playing the saxophone, philosophising, daydreaming, writing, making the people I care about feel so very special, getting weird concepts, loving and I make a really good cup of tea.
The first things people usually notice about me
My hair apparently looks like it's on fire and my blue eyes. My weird personality... And my amazing rack. LOL jk.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books include:

Anything by Terry Pratchett
Haruki Murakami's Norwegian Wood
James St James's Disco Bloodbath
Most things by Aleister Crowley
Neil Gaiman
H.P Lovecraft
Psychology journals
Anything about profiling

Movies include:

Hard Candy<3 My favorite movie ever
The Runaways
Party Monster
Man Bites Dog
21 Grams
Garden State
Whip It
Chemical Wedding
Memoirs of a Geisha

Shows include:

Criminal Minds
Trailer Park Boys
Nathan Barley
Garth Merenghi's Dark Place
Black Books
Anything else relating to Chris Morris
Louis Theroux's various documentaries
Aagh! It's The Mr Hell Show!
That '70s Show

Musics include (but are not limited to):

Most 80s goth (Sisters of Mercy and the like)
Visual Kei
Riot Grrl
Some punk
Some EBM/ Industrial rock
Some lucky singer songwriters
Some instrumental guitarists (The Steve Experiment, David Browne Murray, Django Reinhardt, Michael Hedges)
Dub/ Reggae
Soul and blue eyed soul
Dream pop
Ambient electro
Classical music (used here as a genre spanner. I like Baroque, Romantic and Classical musics)


Alt- J
The Dead Presidents
Parliament/ Funkadelic
Fun Lovin' Criminals
Nick Cave
Tom Waits
Claude Debussy
And So I Watch You From Afar
Japanese Popstars
Her Space Holiday
The The
The Smiths
The Smashing Pumpkins
The Cure
The Damned
Mr Scruff
Kimya Dawson
Raised By Swans
The March Violets
Bikini Kill
The Moldy Peaches
Jack Off Jill

I'm very sensitive to music and if it takes me away from the world, puts a glide in my stride and a dip in my hip, I'll like it.

Foods include:

Blue steak
Maple syrup
Peanut butter (I eat a lot of peanut butter)
Ice cream
Good chocolate
The six things I could never do without
. Weed- Although I'm not dependent on it, I am strongly pro- cannabis and it helps me through a lot of tough times.
. My piano
. My dreams
. My laptop
. At least one book
. A lighter (you always end up needing a lighter for something)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Magic and music, really. The two main languages that I speak. Sometimes I don't know what to say and retreat into myself. I can be quite shy.
On a typical Friday night I am
Either at a friend's house for a drink or spending the night in with tea, movies, an excessive amount of pizza and possibly a wee smoke.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I'm pretty open and I strive to be comfortable in myself so have six.

1) I have Asperger's Syndrome and experience mild social problems. I don't always completely understand social protocol, even on here and may come off as a bit intense so please don't take it personally. It probably just means I like you. If it makes you uncomfortable, for god's sake tell me and I'll try to reel it back. I won't always realise it. I hate being that person who puts a link in their blurb, but here: ** If you want to interact with me and I get fixated, this will hopefully help you understand how my brain works a little better.

2) I'm a furry. Although that's not private, really. I'm a fox. I get that people think it's weird but it's who I've always been. It makes me happy.

3) I play with my hair when I'm nervous and bite my lip if I'm interested in someone.

4) Oh, and I'm a total cuddle slut. I love being snuggled. It makes me feel safe <3

5) I listen to Nick Cave and Tom Waits when I'm depressed. I feel like they understand me better and I don't have to explain my idiosyncrasies to them or "be normal."

6) I'm a kinky little creature =P
I’m looking for
  • Guys and girls who like bi girls
  • Ages 21–32
  • Near me
  • For new friends
You should message me if
If you got to the end of all of that and you still want to talk to me.

If you like musicians, thinkers, tea drinkers, writers, kinks, artists, pagans, Japanese folk lore, kitsune, waistcoats, reading, being a chap/ ette (I appreciate a dapper sense of style. It will get my attention), steampunk, Irish magic, witches, foxes or furries. But always be polite and respectful. I don't tolerate fools gladly.

And if you think I'm the Ramona Flowers to your Scott Pilgrim.