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28 Arcata, CA Woman


I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 26–50
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 10:28pm
5′ 2″ (1.57m)
Body Type
Mostly other
Graduated from two-year college
Less than $20,000
Strictly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
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I'm a bad bitch. I'm a currently soon-to-be ex-fat chick that is a motherfucking goddess at any size... even fat-haters want me. I'm your fucking dream and I will likely remain just that, a fantasy.

I'm an artist, cook, writer, gamer, metalhead, girly-girl, hopeless romantic, domestic goddess, and a bit of a dork.

I can be a tad bit abrasive if you rub me the wrong way... like a porcupine.

I like to put googly eyes on things.

I make dick jokes. I make ass jokes. I turn everything into a sexual innuendo. If we have a close bond I WILL release my inner five year-old and giggle and call you out when you fart.

I censor myself very little. I like offensive jokes. They do not reflect my actual opinions. I think people need to lighten up and not take things so seriously.

I consider myself to be neither a democrat or a republican... I'm more of a middle of the road, libertarian sort of gal I suppose. I don't like to take a label because I'm not sure there is one that really fits me.

I'm an atheist and anti-religion but I will in no way stand in your way to practice yours because that is your right, just as it is my right to not practice and reject religion.

I strive to be a caring, loving, giving, completely devoted mate. I am a hopeless romantic. I am ridiculously devoted, loyal, and honest. My eyes do not wander and I do not stray.

I give a mean foot massage.

I sing my heart out even though I am terrible at it.

I like men who are a bit rough around the edges, even a bit possessive.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I currently am frequently back and forth between Seattle, preparing to move there for good in the upcoming months. Former aspiring chef turned maid. College failed men and now I simply exist. I cook. I write. I am the 1950s house waifu in a 4 bedoroom home tucked out in the edge of beautiful Sunny Brae.

I clean houses locally for a living; I have a handful of clients. and am casually searching for service industry job on the side to save up for a new car so I can expand my cleaning and organizing services, as well as being an errand girl. I really enjoy what I do. It really sucks that we all work so hard to just survive, that by the time we are done with work we have to turn right around and do the things to keep our homes and families running (cooking, cleaning, errands, etc) and never have time to actually enjoy our homes, families, and lives... so I see my job is to make it so people can have that time. Hopefully in the upcoming months I can expand that so that I, myself, can stop having to choose between having money and enjoying life.

I'm not living a life of luxury, but I am surviving... moreso than I was at a shitty $8/hr 9-5, that's for sure... I'm certainly happier than I was working at a shitty min-wage crapshoot where you aren't even viewed as a real person.

As for cooking, it's one of my biggest passions, but my interest in the hospitality industry has shifted more towards advertising and marketing and hospitality journalism.

My biggest passion though, is writing (which is where the journalism comes in). I mostly write fiction, I have a series of novels I am working on, currently and I am also a blogger.

I spend my free time writing, blogging, playing video games here and there, cooking, baking, cleaning, singing, planning, driving, and hanging out with my roomies...making lists.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Cooking, baking, taking care of people.


My mage and priest in World Of Warcraft are awesome... does that count? Yeah... thought not.

I write... I guess that's something. I do comic art. That's something else.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My size and looks. I'm fat and rather unfortunate looking. I've am frequently told I am hideous or downright grotesque by passersby... It hurts, but whatever, they can go fuck themselves. I'm trying really hard to lose the weight so everyone else can just lick my ass. I try to look as nice as I can manage though.

Next they would notice that I wear amazing shoes, all the time.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: I read a shit ton of comics... The Walking Dead (Robert Kirkman), Preacher (Garth Ennis), Hellboy (Mike Mignola), V For Vendetta (Alan Moore), Watchmen (Alan Moore), Transmetropolitan (Warren Ellis) to name a few... Non-comics include Henry Miller, Anais Nin, Irvine Welsh, Chuck Palahniuk, Neal Stephenson, and many, many more.

Movies: Secretary (<3<3<3), Pan's Labyrinth, Heavenly Creatures, Eternal Sunshine Of The Spotless Mind, The Little Mermaid, Tangled (I'm a sucker for Disney films, not gonna lie...), The Devil's Rejects, Blazing Saddles, bad movies with lots of brutal violence and gore...

TV: Archer, Breaking Bad, Doctor Who, Hell on Wheels, Sons of Anarchy, Battlestar Galactica, LOST, Fringe, Metalocalypse (Nathan Explosion would be my animated lover...), Venture Brothers... Once Upon A Time is a guilty pleasure.

Anime: Pretty much can't stand anime except for a few of the older classics Evangelion, Gundam (Wing and earlier...), Cowboy Bebop, Akira, Mononoke Hime, anything Matsumoto Leiji...

Music:I like metal, D&B, Grindcore, lots of electronic... a little of everything, really. But my absolute top three are ABBA, Savage Garden/Darren Hayes, and Florence and the Machine...

Apart from them...

Cannibal Corpse, Necrophagist, Morbid Angel, Obituary, Deicide, Slayer, Napalm Death, Black Dahlia Murder, Sepultura, Carnifex, Austrian Death Machine, Cradle of Filth, Cattle Decapitation, Within Temptation, After Forever, Epica, Dillinger Escape Plan, Danzig, Primus, Rings of Saturn, Napalm Death, Gojira, Ladytron, Miss Kittin, Covenant, Andrew WK, The Knife/Fever Ray, Electric Light Orchestra, VNV Nation, Mindless Self Indulgence, Akira Yamaoka, Mary Elizabeth McGlynn, Bear McCreary, Ween, Rammstein, KMFDM, Enigma, and a bunch more...

Food: Mexican food and sushi are probably my favourite foods... I could live off either. Sadly my pseudo-primal, grain-free, low-carb diet doesn't allow for most of those things so I have to improvise.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
- A working vehicle. I love driving... too much, probably.
- La Croix sparking water... I'm addicted.
- Sex... or at least a lot of self lovin'
- A working computer and an internet connection.
- Something to write with... either a pencil/pen and journal, laptop, desktop, etc.
- Music
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Writing, art, sex, nerdy things, cooking, my many projects, love, money, getting a new car, quantum theory...

"Doesn't the cat count as an observer?"
"Nah, it's pretty dark in that box."
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I usually stay in and watch movies and play games... or I stay in and drink with my roommates and a few other friends. I rarely go out any more.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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Nope. Gotta find out for yourself.
You should message me if
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If you have similar interests and you aren't scared and/or completely disgusted by me... if you think we might click. Bonus if you are a metalhead. Bonus if vanilla is NOT just a flavour of ice cream.
Note that I am only looking for short term dating or friends. I am hopefully moving out of the area in the future and simply have no interest in getting into anything serious with anyone on here.

I don't do one night stands unless there is something super special and interesting about you... like if you had two functioning dicks, I'd be like "Sure! How often will I get this chance?" That's a big 'if' though... gotta bring something interesting to the table.

Don't like my attitude? Don't care. Fuck off. Don't like my views? Don't care. Eat a dick. Think I'm a desperate ugly fat cunt who deserves to be harpooned like the worthless whale you think I am? Yeah, don't care, I'm sorry you are so insecure with yourself that you feel the need to put people down... especially ones that are far more fab than you.

Until next time.