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31 Ithaca, NY Woman


I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 28–50
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Online now!
5′ 6″ (1.68m)
Body Type
Full figured
Mostly anything
Other, and laughing about it
Libra, and it’s fun to think about
Working on university
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Has dogs and has cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay)

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My self-summary
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I am back in Rochester after two years in Florida and 8 years in Philadelphia. Looking forward to reconnecting with family and old friends, and making some new friends.

Also I'm an ESFJ. And GGG.

*Update* I may be moving to Ithaca in March. It's still up in the air for the moment. Just an FYI.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Starting fresh. Maybe I'll end up back in Philly some day, but for right now I'm working on getting everything back on track. Money, career, etc. Also I've been away from Rochester for a decade, and alot has changed. I want new friends who can learn me a thing or two about what fun things there are to do here.

I'm also getting in shape for Rugby. It's been several years since I played, and I can't wait to start hitting people again.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Hurting myself/breaking shit. Frequently, and not on purpose. Not being serious. Listening, and giving advice. I'm also a pretty damn good cook.

Oh yea and crossword puzzles. And trivia.
The first things people usually notice about me
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That I laugh alot. Everything is funny to me.

Lately, though, it's probably my pooch, Avery James. She's a babe.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I just finished reading Miss Peregrine's Home For Peculiar Children, as well as the sequel, Hollow City. Can't wait for book 3. Right now, I'm reading The Unvanquished.

As far as movies/tv go, the following list is only a fraction of what I like:
SIX FEET UNDER, Game of Thrones, Bob's Burgers, The League, Arrested Development, Sons of Anarchy, Eastbound and Down, It's Always Sunny, Community, Parks and Recreation, Party Down, Children's Hospital, Looking, The Leftovers, The Walking Dead, Carnivale, Archer, Aqua Teen, Metalocalypse, and OITNB.

Music: The Morning Benders, French For Rabbits, Grimes, Active Child, Lianne La Hava, Bon Iver, Fleet Foxes, LCD Soundsystem, Florence and the Machine, Fever Ray, Jeff Buckley, Broken Social Scene, Ladyhawke, Childish Gambino, Chvrches, London Grammar, Janelle Monet, The Tallest Man On Earth, Robyn, Crystal Castles, Le Tigre, Ryan Adams, Lamb, The Walkmen, Metric, Goldfrapp, Royksop, Neko Case, The Rapture, Wilco, Hot Chip, Animal Collective, Passion Pit, Lamb, The Band, Nick Drake, The Organ...this could go on forever. If you make me a mix I will give you one back WITH an added high five.

I love all kinds of food, especially Indian and Ethiopian. I've also recently started collecting recipes and compiling my own personal cook book. If you know any good ones, holla. It's a precious gift when anyone's mom shares a family recipe with me. The only foods I don't like are cilantro, which I'll eat anyway because it's in everything, and fennel. Fennel is the devil.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
An emery board. A toothbrush. Coffee. Sunshine. Seltzer water. Fine point sharpies. Camp fires.

Oh and biodegradable dog-poop bags.

Yes I went over the limit. YOU WANNA FIGHT ABOUT IT?!
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Pretty smiles.
Passionate kisses.
Finding the right job.
Why is my dog always staring at me?
Food and beer.

Also, I'm getting fairly sick of OKC telling me I'm apathetic when it comes to my answers to their questions. Maybe try asking better questions. Hit me with some real issues, OKC.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
There is no typical friday night.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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If you find me attractive and want to get to know me, know a few things:

I don't care what kind of car you drive or how much you spent on your watch. Seriously I'm not impressed.

I'm attracted to intelligence, confidence, compassion, and thoughfulness.

A man with goals and aspirations is sexy. And I'm not referring to financial goals, per say. Just being passionate about something. I can't stand complacency, in myself or others.

I also probably will hide your razor so you will be forced to grow a beard.

Lastly, I love seeing men go with their women to get a pedicure. If your feet are jacked up but you acknowledge it and take care of them, you have my full respect.
You should message me if
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you are the kind of person who can have fun in just about any situation.
You like being outside, going to museums/galleries/movies, etc.
You enjoy good beer/wine and finding the best places to imbibe it.
You are a photographer, and can teach me things.
You can build a fire with your bare hands- I have to warn you though, I might get pregnant just by watching.
You are a confident, motivated, and self possessed man who is just as happy doing his own thing as you are spending time with me. I'm not looking to be anybody's momma.

Please refrain from messaging me if you have a fetish that involves a blood pressure cuff. There seem to be a lot of you, but it ain't my bag. Really I should broaden that statement and say if you want me to hurt you in bed, we aren't compatible. Oh also, to all swingers/married couples that are looking for a third...I commend your adventurous nature, but I'm a monogamous gal. So keep it movin.