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31 Ithaca, NY Woman


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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 28–50
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 5:36pm
5′ 6″ (1.68m)
Body Type
Full figured
Mostly anything
Other, and laughing about it
Libra, and it’s fun to think about
Working on university
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Has dogs and has cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
New to Ithaca and looking for new friends and adventures. Working at Cornell. Playing rugby for the Avengers. Hope to try every brewery/winery/distillery this beautiful part of NY has to offer. Also I'm told there are 50-something hiking trails here. I want to hike all of them.

Also I'm an ESFJ. And GGG.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Starting fresh. Missing my life in Philly, but looking forward. The people here are much nicer, I've noticed. Also, Ithaca is fucking beautiful. I feel like I'm permanently camping.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Hurting myself/breaking shit. Frequently, and not on purpose. Not being serious. Listening, and giving advice.

Oh yea and crossword puzzles. And trivia. But not if it's sports, history, or geography. So maybe not so good at trivia.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
That I laugh alot. Everything is funny to me.

Other than that, it depends on who's looking.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I just finished reading Miss Peregrine's Home For Peculiar Children, as well as the sequel, Hollow City. Can't wait for book 3. Right now, I'm reading The Unvanquished.

As far as movies/tv go, the following list is only a fraction of what I like:
SIX FEET UNDER, Game of Thrones, Bob's Burgers, The League, Arrested Development, Sons of Anarchy, Eastbound and Down, It's Always Sunny, Community, Parks and Recreation, Party Down, Children's Hospital, Looking, The Leftovers, The Walking Dead, Carnivale, Archer, Aqua Teen, Metalocalypse, and OITNB.

Music: The Morning Benders, First Aid Kit, French For Rabbits, Grimes, Active Child, Lianne La Hava, Bon Iver, Fleet Foxes, LCD Soundsystem, Florence and the Machine, Fever Ray, Jeff Buckley, Broken Social Scene, Ladyhawke, Childish Gambino, Chvrches, London Grammar, Janelle Monet, The Tallest Man On Earth, Robyn, Crystal Castles, Le Tigre, Ryan Adams, Lamb, The Walkmen, Metric, Goldfrapp, Royksop, Neko Case, The Rapture, Wilco, Hot Chip, Animal Collective, Passion Pit, Lamb, The Band, Nick Drake, The Organ...this could go on forever. If you make me a mix I will give you one back WITH an added high five.

I love all kinds of food, especially Indian and Ethiopian. I've also recently started collecting recipes and compiling my own personal cook book. If you know any good ones, holla. It's a precious gift when anyone's mom shares a family recipe with me. The only foods I don't like are cilantro, which I'll eat anyway because it's in everything, and fennel. Fennel is the devil.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Cheese. A toothbrush. Coffee. Sunshine. Seltzer water. Fine point sharpies. Camp fires.

Oh and biodegradable dog-poop bags.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Beards, and why it's not ok for me to just grab them. If you have a full beard it's probably the first thing on my mind when I'm looking at you.

Why is my dog always staring at me?

Food and beer.

Also, it's starting to bother me that so many of you Dads are posting pictures of your kids on your dating profiles. I'm sure you mean well and are just proud, but did you ask them if it was ok first? My guess would be no. Kudos for being up front about having kids, but it's enough to just state that you have them. Your sweet and innocent four year old's face has no business being on OKCupid. Or Tinder.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Exhausted. But I can be persuaded to go out.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
If you find me attractive and want to get to know me, know a few things:

I don't care what kind of car you drive or how much you spent on your watch. Seriously I'm not impressed.

I'm attracted to intelligence, confidence, compassion, and thoughfulness.

A man with goals and aspirations is sexy. And I'm not referring to financial goals, per say. Just being passionate about something. I can't stand complacency, in myself or others.

I also probably will hide your razor so you will be forced to grow a beard.

Not sorry.
You should message me if
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you are the kind of person who can have fun in just about any situation.
You like being outside, going to museums/galleries/movies, etc.
You enjoy good beer/wine and finding the best places to imbibe it.
You are a photographer, and can teach me things.
You know alot about road bikes, and can help me fix mine. I really want to start riding again.
You can build a fire with your bare hands- I have to warn you though, I might get pregnant just by watching.
You are a confident, motivated, and self possessed man who is just as happy doing his own thing as you are spending time with me. I'm not looking to be anybody's mama.

Oh, to all swingers/married couples that are looking for a third...I commend your adventurous nature, but I'm a monogamous gal. So keep it movin.

Lastly, if you live in a foreign country and/or only want to have an internet-relationship, no thanks.