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54 Oxnard, CA Woman


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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 43–56
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 10:13am
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
5' 3" (1.60m)
Body Type
A little extra
Two-year college
Has kids and doesn’t want more
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I am looking for a non smoker non judgemental type of man who is not supetficial and can see past the obviious i am not perfect but i am a good person. I have had a really bad year so far with the passing of my four month old granddaughter followed two weeks later by the passing of my Mamma. I am ready to get past some of the sadness and find some joy in life. I love to travel and cook and hang out with family and friends. I love going to movies and concerts and I love love Disneyland. If you do too thats a plus
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Working but i hope to go out more this year
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Finding the good in everyone and everything. Except of course scammers and other users.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My eyes
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I love all the 'Death' series books by J D Robb
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My kids
Knowing that every cloud has a silver lining
My work
My family both by blood and by love
Knowing that every storm runs out of rain
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Life and all the mysteries that await us all and all the miracles that happen everyday that most people either don't notice or take for granted
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Trying to recuperate from a long work week
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I can be a little shy at first . I also tend to talk a lot when i get nervous.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You are a nice guy who know how to be a gentleman and who doesn't mind a woman that speaks her mind. No scammers please. I am only interested in men who live in so cal