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RedE4Luv7

42 / F / gay / Single

Bothell, Washington

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Ethnicity
White
Height
5' 7" (1.70m).
Body Type
Looking For
New friends, Activity partners
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Never
Religion
Christianity and very serious about it
Sign
Sagittarius and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Medicine / Health
Income
Kids
Has 1 child
Pets
Owns dogs and Owns cats
Languages
English, Spanish (Okay), Sign_Language (Poorly), Chinese (Poorly)

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I am passionate, resilient, and disciplined.

My Self-Summary

Out and Proud in the Pacific Northwest, unapologetically Feminist, Dyke, Single (by choice) Mom, loves Kettlebells and Z-Health, rabid Bibliophile, becoming a Polyglot, originally from New Orleans, vivaciousVolunteer, Social Justice advocate, Mentor, Survivor, building Community, creating Sustainability, Living, Loving and Laughing in Seattle.

What I’m doing with my life

Swinging Kettlebells, learning Z-Health, feeling grateful that I have such an awesome Personal Trainer, empowering my daughter to reach and exceed her potential, enjoying the fruits of my labors, perfecting my culinary craft, writing songs, learning Mandarin, being fascinated by Acupuncture & Oriental Medicine, aspiring to become a better Martial Artist, practicing Tai Chi, teaching my daughter yoga, building community, reclaiming my indigenous roots, listening to my spirit and my body, planning for my family's future, enjoying each breath...one at a time.

I’m really good at

preparing delicious traditional New Orleans dishes at the drop of a hat with love. Active listening and compassionate communicating. Dancing till dawn. Expressing my desires. Balancing acts. Throwing a memorable dinner party. Seeing and encouraging potential in individuals and organizations. Making people laugh. Manifesting my dreams. Overcoming obstacles. Enduring through difficult times. Surviving to fight another day. Standing up for what I believe. Giving foot massage. Receiving compliments. Sharing my toys. Playing well with others. Confusing the gender rigid. Nurturing those I love and others. Being present. Exchanging power. Negotiating. Mediating. Celebrating everyday victories. Enjoying the little things. :)

The first things people usually notice about me

...my communication style. Although, I have no accent until I'm really tired. My Southern culture shines through in my willingness to speak warmly and at length with strangers. Physically, people seem to comment on my hazel eyes or my hair. My cute kid. My beautiful dog.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

anything by Laurell K Hamilton, lots by many strong womyn writers of too many genres but especially science fiction/fantasy and medicine. The Inn of the Sixth Happiness. Celtic traditionals and rock. Folk music and filk. Latvian chorales. Indian curries, Thai, Rustic Italian, Salvadoran, Asian, Sushi, Creole, Southern Home Cooking and my grandmother's everyday fare.

The six things I could never do without

Kettlebells, books, community, animal companions, music and old growth forests.

I spend a lot of time thinking about

taking small actions to reduce global warming. Sustainable society. Touch. How to live authentically. How to serve society from a place of owning my power. What excuses can I let go of today to free and empower me to reach my potential.

On a typical Friday night I am

watching movies with my family, laughing and cooking/eating amazing food.

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

I had a crush on Jane of Tarzan & Jane in 1969. I wasn't yet 3 years old. Climbing up into the top bunk, I would hang from the "safety rail" and pretend that I was Tarzan as portrayed by Ron Ely: a champion of social justice, an excellent mediator and a friend to the animals and the environment. When Jane was at the mercy of the evil-doers, I would pretend to swoop in and help her free herself. Later we would get married and raise jungle kids who could talk to elephants, swing on vines with the monkeys and wrestle tigers. Important note: no tigers or evil-doers were harmed in the construction of this fantasy.

You should message me if

You are a browncoat. You want to share an ethnic meal in or around Seattle tonight. You feel strongly that eating Pho is mandatory during wet or change of weather days. You want to come walk with my dog and me around Greenlake or hike a trail with us and share a picnic lunch. You are Ready to Love with your whole person and think there is no such thing as too many friends. You're living the change you want to see in the world. You have or want children. You want a monogamous ltr, You're working/volunteering for social justice/human rights causes, You expect your best from yourself. You're becoming the person your dog thinks you are. You choose to be Firm and Kind simultaneously. You know that relationship is worth the work and are willing and able to excel in it.