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RedFlagJay

30 Ottawa, Ontario, CA Man

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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 24–34
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Online now!
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 6″ (1.68m)
Body Type
Average
Diet
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Never
Religion
Atheism, but not too serious about it
Sign
Libra, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Technology
Income
$60,000–$70,000
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Pets
Likes dogs and has cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), French (Okay)

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My self-summary
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Hey hey! Thanks for coming; have a seat, take a load off. Stay awhile, and listen!

I'm an Ottawa boy who's been living away, but have recently come back to stay. I'm an engineer turned game developer leading one heck of a busy life. I tend to be a quiet, unassuming guy at first glance, but I enjoy proving that assumption wrong.

You won't find a bigger Sens fan in this fair city, nor will you ever see me turn down playing some huge, epic board game with friends.

Above all, I'm an honest, straightforward person with a kind and considerate personality, and I'm damn proud of it.
What I’m doing with my life
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I'm a software developer for a reasonably large game company here in Ottawa, making mobile games. I worked hard to get where I am, even switching career/education paths after completing university. With that said, I've got plans that may eventually take me down yet another road, so we'll see.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I'm a pretty good sailor (see picture), runs in my family. I have a certain knack for communicating; perhaps I was a debate mediator in a former life. Of course, I've got a way with computers, which is how I make my living, after all.

And by god, I am a PRO Mario Kart driver!
The first things people usually notice about me
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I think largely people notice my conversational habits first. I typically start out very 'formal' with people until I relax a bit around them. If not that, I'd have to guess my eyes; they're extremely easy to read, so I'm told.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: Currently reading A Song of Ice and Fire, as I'd like to have them read BEFORE I watch the TV series. I love anything by Neal Stephenson (Snow Crash, Diamond Age, etc.), Timothy Zahn, Christie Golden, or Drew Karpyshyn. In general, science fiction, fantasy, or for mind expansion: theoretical physics.

Movies: The Matrix, Serenity, Avengers (and most other Marvel movies), Pacific Rim, Scott Pilgrim), Inception, The Incredibles, How to Train Your Dragon...lots of action/adventure, plus the occasional animated film.

Shows: Game of Thrones (watching slowly, as I work through the books at the same time), Firefly, Dead Like Me, Battlestar Galactica, Supernatural, The Walking Dead, Big Bang Theory

Music: Some rock, some metal, and some classic rock. I'm honestly pretty easy when it comes to music.

Food: Pizza, pasta, Italian cuisine in general, the classic Canadian poutine, a good caesar salad. Sandwiches on pretzel buns!

BONUS CATEGORY - Games: Portal has to be listed here. Zelda games in general. Smash Brothers. Chrono Trigger and many of the other classic Super Nintendo RPGs.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1) My family and friends
2) Hockey!
3) My phone (my main link to the aforementioned family and friends)
4) Presto card. I actually kinda enjoy buses...they give me a chance to collect myself plan my day. OCTranspo can still bite me, however.
5) Tim Horton's ice caps (come oooooooon summer!)
6) My cat. She's a chubby little furball who always wants to be held and never shuts up. Such a good little housemate. :)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How to be happy in life. If there's one meaning of life we KNOW, it's to live it happily, and I always want to make sure I'm not missing any opportunities to do that.

What the proper 'end of date' etiquette is. Like a riddle wrapped in a mystery wrapped in an enigma...

Why all my favourite Youtube channels are British. Serious business!
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Obligatory "there are no typical Friday nights!"...

Okay, fine. Honestly Fridays aren't usually all that special for me; most people I know are busy, and I usually use it a night to just relax and melt some stress off. Weekends are more my time to get into some shenanigans.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I never managed to learn how to stop properly while skating...I have to just coast to a stop or slam myself into something. :(

Oh, and I'm secretly Batman. That seems important.
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You want to, really. I think that's more or less how this works.

Don't be shy; even if you just want to complain about the Sens or talk about a new game, I'm up for it!

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