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35 • Brooklyn, NY • Man
I’m looking for
- Ages 23–37
- Near me
- Who are single
- For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
- Last online
- May 13
- 5′ 10″ (1.78m)
- Body type
- Mostly vegetarian
- Atheism, and laughing about it
- Capricorn, but it doesn’t matter
- Graduated from university
- Art / Music / Writing
- Doesn’t have kids
- Likes dogs and likes cats
I'm a musician. No really. Unlike many Brooklyn musicians I actually play gigs. I write for film and theatre too. I realize this puts me in the uncomfortable position of being stereotyped. Well fuck it. I doubt I fit your stereotype. I know this because I'm not a condescending asshole and I don't live in a loft with fifteen people who get drunk far more than they beat relentlessly on the same three chords. I realize it may be difficult to tell this from my profile but its true.
I also may be somewhat sarcastic at times. But it's all in love.
Update: I recently became a partner in a small restaurant in Brooklyn. It's a lot of work!!
I am also good at music , reading, taking risks, drinking, talking about philosophy art and music, polite conversation, making salsa and marinara, and falling off skateboards.
Books: Everything by Albert Camus, Cormac McCarthy, William Faulkner, Steinbeck, Most everything by Hemingway and Kafka, Kurt Vonnegut, Sartre and James Baldwin. I've been through obsessive periods with Murikami, Plato, Kant, as well as various pop fiction authors. I will read pretty much anything as long as it's not recycled ideas warmed over with cliches.
Movies: I watch a lot of docs, but for pure movie-making I love the Coen Brothers, Wes Anderson, David Lynch, Tarantino, Kurasowa, Kubrick, Westerns, bad horror flicks and anything with something to say.
Music: Devotchka, Miles Davis, Ennio Marriconne, Beirut, Tom Waits, Wilco, Nick Drake, Danny Elfman, my god I could go on forever. Jazz, soundtracks, rock, indie, folk, Americana, gypsy music, modern classical. Anything interesting
Food: I'm a pescatarian foodie. And I hate the word pescatarian. It sounds so fucking condescending. Come to think of it I hate the word "foodie" too.
3) Occasionally sleeping late
4) New things to stare at
5) A good book
Also: if you don't have "Work hard, play hard" somewhere in your profile. What the hell does that even mean?
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