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RedMabuse

40 / M / straight / Available

Essen, Germany

The Skinny

Last Online
Join Date
Ethnicity
Undeclared
Height
5' 10" (1.80m).
Body Type
Looking For
Long-term dating
Smokes
When drinking
Drinks
Sometimes
Drugs
Never
Religion
Atheism and very serious about it
Sign
Cancer but it doesn’t matter
Education
Dropped out of masters program
Job
Computer / Hardware / Software
Income
Rather not say
Kids
Doesn’t want children
Pets
Dislikes dogs and Likes cats
Languages
German (Fluently), English (Fluently)

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I am melancholic, affectionate, and eisenlager.

My Self-Summary

Now in German
Es ist ganz schön lustig, hier zu sein. Was ich alles erlebt habe, ist schon sehr interessant.
I'm gothic, like Darkwave music and enjoy my sex life very much, thank you.

What I’m doing with my life

Working, and enjoying it. Learning, and enjoying it. Playing, and enjoying it. Improve my life (especially on the ethical plane), and enjoying that most of all.

I’m really good at

Making the same mistakes thrice, and still wanting to try again.

OTOH that means that I never surrender. If I want something to happen, I work for it. Hard.

I can be tenacious like a bulldog, but it is not a good time when you see me in this mood. Usually I achieve my goals slowly and with patience.

The first things people usually notice about me

They notice that I'm witty. I make them notice it.

Some people like that, some hate me for that. Seldom are the people who have a well-tought-out view of me.

I like that in return. For every one who dislikes me, ther are at least two who like me a lot.

And I have enough true friends that like me, not because for what I am, but even though they know what I am.

The six things I could never do without

1) Computers 2) My Eisenlager (but not with computers) 3) My best friend (she's the best that ever happened to me) 4) Sex (not with my best friend) 5) My job (met my Boss at the Eisenlager) 6) Openness - I really hate it not to know people.

I spend a lot of time thinking about

"Chances, it seems

Have become too much for me to take

Lying awake

Thinking about the mistakes I've made

Wonder if I could

Ever turn back the hands of time

So I can correct

All the mistakes I've made

And finally live a normal life

Without all the pain

And the violent memories"

Shock Therapy - Violent Memories

On a typical Friday night I am

Groggy from having partied on Thursday and worked full day on Friday.

You should message me if

you are someone who can indulge my selfish side, has a healthy sexual appetite, and doesn't mind uncertainty.