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30 Asheville, NC Man


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  • Ages 20-40
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My details

Last online
Today – 8:34am
Relationship Type
Mostly monogamous
Body Type
Average build
Special Diet
Two-year college
Doesn’t have kids
English (Fluently), German (Somewhat)
My self-summary
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My name is Patrick. I play guitar, fancy myself a writer (only because I have an amazing book idea and writer's block), and sometimes play video games.

I'm vegan, but I'm not judgemental. I don't have a problem with different opinions on how to live.

The Myers-Briggs abbreviations mean nothing to me.

I have two jobs, so not much free time.
What I’m doing with my life
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I'm living in Asheville, delivering food, and trying to save up for some more schooling. I have two jobs, so I'm pretty much always working.
I’m really good at
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I'm alright on guitar, but my playing is a bit raw and unfocused. I'm also pretty good at giving impromptu lectures on astronomy and having great conversations about religion, music, films, literature (I include comic books; don't be a snob), sociology, and culture in general.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I have long hair and I'm a bit awkward and fidgety.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: Brave New World, Frankenstein, Paradise Lost, American Gods, Watchmen, A Song of Ice and Fire, Neil Gaiman, Alan Moore, Terry Pratchett, EA Poe, Shakespeare, Yeats, etc.

Films: Seven Samurai (really anything by Kurosawa), Who Framed Roger Rabbit, End of Evangelion, Ghostbusters, The Labyrinth, The Big Lebowski, Fight Club, Avengers, Moulin Rouge, Life of Brian, The Incredibles, Mad Max, and a bunch of MST3K

Shows: Neon Genesis Evangelion, Firefly, Freaks & Geeks, Game of Thrones, Deadwood, The Venture Brothers, The Adventures of Pete & Pete, Doctor Who

Music: X Japan, The Beatles, Queen, Pink Floyd, David Bowie, Emilie Autumn, The Smiths, Nick Cave & the Bad Seeds, Lou Reed, Garbage, Tom Waits, Mumford & Sons, The Decemberists, etc.

Video Games: Chrono Trigger, most of the Shin Megami Tensei series, Shadow Hearts, Grandia II, Pump It Up, Rocksmith, Fallout, Dragon Age, Dragon's Dogma, Mass Effect
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Philosophy / religion, astrophysics, poetry, music, psychology, behavioral anthropology, movies, comic books, books, etc.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Working, usually. Or watching stuff on Netflix or from Orbit.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I have a touch of social anxiety, which makes it difficult to get to know people.
You should message me if
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you want to.